so i think my bisexuality just leaned towards girls now...

[GiacomoPisani]

you have your own masculinity? are you sure about that? do you have actually any idea what is like to protect your own masculinity.What about if i tell you that i consider straight boys way too androgynous,that use feminine sex change hormones to get sexual arousal with.And of course, married to a woman,mmmmm. I think that you like to know how she feels like,you want to share sensation with the opposite sex,coz you also want to feel like you also have a pussy as well.What she feels you feel it too,how masculine eh?. Do you call that masculinity? you lost your masculinity at the very moment that you gave up your own sex and adopted the other alien one as if it were your own.You finally gave it up at the moment that you got married to a female. All you have is manhood,macho taboos,straight acting voice and manerism,the rest is all about feeling amalgamated to your feminine "other half".No masculine man would ever be sensitive to feminine body parts at all.
Learn to protect your physical masculinity because the social one is mental masturbation.It is a miracle that you haven't grown a pussy and a pair of tits at this level of femenine connection that you have. hahahahaha just kidding bro!!!

no, you don't ask a man to give you what is yours; coz you do it worst,you ask for that to a female.Your other half,isn't she? doesn't you tell a female that you can "feel her",and that she is part of you. Are you what? a hermaphrodite? aren't you the one who is sensible to female body parts and its nerves. Aren't you the one who is connected and wired to her? and of course, you are the "same flesh" and "one body"? aren't you? so are you gonna play with me the macho man game.That not sucking a cock is going to turn you feminine, but licking pussy makes you feel like a "real macho man".When you got married didn't the priest told you that you are her head and that "she is your body"?
to ask another man like you to let you suck his cock. makes you feel less masculine but asking a woman to let you swallow estrogen,progesterone etc. doesn't make you like a woman does.How weird.
and how do you ask a woman to let you lick his open wound,...Please baby let me "feel it" too.
you say that you already have smell ,heat,and muscles.Of course ,you are missing the pussy, the tits, and the vulva to make feel "complete", as a "whole". How interesting.

how sad,that they are men, out there like you, that don't know what it is to like to enjoy the sexual connection that homosexuals know have to build with his own sex.That smell ,flavor and heat that you reject and disown so much,is what assure me that what i'm enjoying in bed belongs to me much more than to any bitch that you have fucked in your whole life.

Deny to yourself as much as you can the experiences of having a sexual encounter with someone that is entirely made to belong sexually to you,another man like you,buddy. But keep trying to look after what is petite ,small,soft,and organs that looks like a gangrene, breasts filled up with baby milk and silicone and letting women know what masculine sexuality is all about.Thank you for sharing(and corrupting) our sexuality with those of the opposite sex!!!.

i'm going to make you a question, does your "feminine other half" know that you like to spend the whole day with us, the fags and the bi's boys here on JustUs Boys?

 

[conrad]

Justsayinghello, Ido not ever want to suggest that sex is the only way of demonstrating the love between two men or two women , or a mixed couple.

But, surely you have to allow that two peop0le in love are right in assuming that loving sex for them is a way of confirming the bond between them that already exists.

Sexless marriages are often in deep trouble. What I would suggest is that sex is hardly the way to patch up a broken marriage, but loving sex can help to keep two lovers together.

 

[GiacomoPisani]

hahahahaha i can't believe how much cynicism my goodness.
"love toward a father,a male cousin,a best male friend,a male pet" is not sexual love.i "love" my male neighbors,i love my gender,in a nonsexual way.But i do know that sexual love to another man is grand, nothing compares to it.When a man is in love with another man,,it gives such an incredible strength to overcome everything that it makes you fearless.Gay love is one of the most intense feelings that a man can ever experience.
Homosexuality/bisexuality teach how to love men,in both sexual and non sexual ways,in an authentic way.
how can a guy, that find his very own sex icky and prefer an alternative sex for having sex with, be able to know what is like to SUFFER and be heartbroken for another man? how come? if he doesn't feel any desire at all for his own kind to whom he sexually belongs to?!.
i also apologize for the misunderstanding,i still find very hard to interpret what the guy above wrote about gay sex with family members,but i do regret saying that awful thing that i said for his mother.i feel very sad. ]

 

[GiacomoPisani]

"i'm going to make you a question, does your "feminine other half" know that you like to spend the whole day with us, the fags and the bi's boys here on JustUs Boys? "

Yes, in fact I read your last bit of written vomit to her, she had a good chuckle, and said she doesn't want to waste another moment listening to your insanity, and moved on. My "feminine other half" doesn't give two shits about what message board forums I post on. She's a grown woman with far more on her mind.

Also is that an issue for you? I just joined this forum. Is there something wrong with me spending some time on here lately with the (as you called them) "fags" and "bi's"? Am I not welcome? What's next, should I likewise ask my wife if she "approves" of me talking with my gay friends and family members?

my insanity? i'm a lunatic? what the f*ck is happening to you buddy? i'm a lunatic because i tell you the very true things that you don't want to accept coz you are in denial.that's my insanity eh? my insanity because i told you that i can't understand how come someone can feel sexual arousal for another sex that they don't belong to, and nonchalantly accept that the opposite sex finds gross and unpleasant the very parts that they expect you to like and be seduced with?!.
buddy,there's not even one part of me that i like that my partner doesn't like as well and vice versa.This is the way gay relationships and attraction works.There is not even one part of my boyfriends that i don't know how it feels like inside and out.These parts are fully sexual organs to me,but not pussy ,vulva,uterus,tits coz i wasn't born with those same things. Am i insane and lunatic if i say this?
i have been hit by countless girls,and do you know what i tell them? well ... is your own sex so nasty that you have to go look for a different sexual group and try to convince them to enjoy that which you would never get pleasure with? they become speechless and some others have even insulted me.but yes I'm insane, never mind.
buddy you seems like a nice guy,if not, you wouldn't be here at all.You are very welcomed here.I'm glad that you have such a nice relationship with your wife and that she is so cool.
also remember that i can call gays fags coz i'm a Big FAG myself.

 

[azndude89]

holy crap, i didnt meant this forum to turn out like this...


GiacomoPisani- do you even know what you're saying? You are soo negative. In my opinion, I think I know why your relationship has been broken and through hell, most likely because of you and the crap you say. I would advise your "soon to be ex" to run as fast as he can and don't look back. You're probably the reason why he likes girls now...

 

[GiacomoPisani]

holy crap, i didnt meant this forum to turn out like this...


GiacomoPisani- do you even know what you're saying? You are soo negative. In my opinion, I think I know why your relationship has been broken and through hell, most likely because of you and the crap you say. I would advise your "soon to be ex" to run as fast as he can and don't look back. You're probably the reason why he likes girls now...

i don't know what i'm saying but i do know that if you go out there and ask any gay guy whether they would allow themselves to be aroused with organs that they weren't born with and on top of that, that women,themselves, find gross,and disgusting.i think you know what the answer will be for sure.no wonder bisexuals find the gays to be so negative in general,after all ,you are always complaining that gays don't accept bisexuals and you and i know that this is not true.

that you tell me that i sound negative when i say these things,is no shock for me ,in fact,every time that i have a gathering in my house with my gay and lesbian friends,and we talk about this issue with my boyfriend,my house becomes a battle field.That's what my partner tells us ,that we are negative,mean,...of course, he says those things because he thinks that my gay friends are putting me against him.He blames them for anything that happens between us.But of course,that's because according to him they are bad because not only they say the truth,but they are also sissy fags,and to be like that is an insult to him.So you don't know how my "soon to be ex-boyfriend" really is.

in real life,i wouldn't say what i said to this heterosexual (bisexual?) guy in this forum.i would be more "politically correct".But in a forum like this,i will because my experience happens to be the same that many other gays have had.

if this guy(and you) feels attacked by listening to the very real issues that i'm exposing here,then it is because he clearly gives a shit about same-sex(SEXUAL) relationships between gay and bisexuals and you are probably one of those bisexuals that are only interested in fucking gays or getting one or two blow jobs from them and then tell them bye bye. i know that you give a shit about what is like to have an actual ,love,stable relationship with a gay guy.it is not in your future plans,i can realize.That's fine with me.

i also want to say that long time ago one of my best gay friends used to come to my house to post things on justusboys because he didn't have a computer at home since he had recently come from cuba.he posted on several forum here.well a straight woman here began attacking him continuously,sending him private messages and everything.Needless to say.he quit posting on justusboy.i'm just saying this because if we are to have heterosexuals here they have to understand and respect our issues and that many times things will be posted on here that they might find offensive.

 

[Krakenbwool]

@GiacomoPisani: You're on the straight/bi section of this forum talking about how it's ridiculous that men would desire women, blah blah blah. You're no different than the straight trolls who go to gay forums to tell them that "taking it in the ass is nasty."

As some people have already said, I think you're projecting a lot of the issues you have with your current boyfriend on all bisexual men. It might be something you'd want to figure out between you two.

And as a woman, I don't feel like vomiting at the sight of a vagina or anything, as you would imply. I don't particularly care for it, but I don't have nearly the reaction you state. I'm sorry your friend had a bad experience with one heterosexual woman on this board, but I'll guarantee you it wasn't because she was a woman. Trolls come in many shapes and sizes--women, men, straight, gay, bi. Don't use one example to generalize an entire population.

 

[AsianDream]

holy crap, i didnt meant this forum to turn out like this...

GiacomoPisani- do you even know what you're saying? You are soo negative. In my opinion, I think I know why your relationship has been broken and through hell, most likely because of you and the crap you say. I would advise your "soon to be ex" to run as fast as he can and don't look back. You're probably the reason why he likes girls now...

Must say - if I had met a guy like GiacomoPisani when I was younger - I'd probably be totally straight now.

Sounds like his soon to be ex B/F is going to have a very lucky escape. I hope he does manage to run fast enough to get away.

If GiacomoPisani's posts on here are anything to go by - he seems to have the capability to put anyone off guys for life - what I hope is that the "gays can be cured" brigade don't find out about him.

He just might be their secret weapon that can reallly cure guys from being gay for life

 

[leomendez93]

I agree with Tonyboy, if you are going to be opened to men, do not get married (until death do us part). Every relationship goes through difficult times, dry times, no drive, etc..and usually bi guy tend to find another partner on the side. I have talked to many who goes back to desiring men since it is less emotional for them, more of a carnal thing and once it is done, it is done. Not judging anyone but if you truly love a woman you will live in agony as you start going back to guys again.

 

[GiacomoPisani]

Must say - if I had met a guy like GiacomoPisani when I was younger - I'd probably be totally straight now.

Sounds like his soon to be ex B/F is going to have a very lucky escape. I hope he does manage to run fast enough to get away.

If GiacomoPisani's posts on here are anything to go by - he seems to have the capability to put anyone off guys for life - what I hope is that the "gays can be cured" brigade don't find out about him.

He just might be their secret weapon that can really cure guys from being gay for life

what the heck are you talking about? the very one who claim that sexuality is fluid and that a gay man can learn to be into women and may quit being homosexual.you are deluded sweetheart.i told you once,and will not tell you twice,if you are a masochist who is into proving yourself that you can get pleasure from body parts that females aren't even remotely willing to get sexual pleasure with,that's your kinkiness and your sexual fetish,that's your sexual stunt.

"And as a woman, I don't feel like vomiting at the sight of a vagina or anything, as you would imply. . I don't particularly care for it, but I don't have nearly the reaction you state."
There you go.......,don't worry sweetheart coz they are many who weren't born females and are trying very hard to be into something that you (a female) are convinced is dirty,don't give as much pleasure as cocks do,looks uglier than cocks,etc.This is the opinion that a totally different sexual group have about their own anatomy.Obviously,that men have to contradict and prove wrong.The very sexual stunt to prove yourself you are masculine and a real men to society.hey guys!!! we can even swallow female hormones,and not even feel like a woman at all,just don't do it to another man like yourself,do not swallow semen,you are gonna feel like a girl (but are we really going to?)!!!
my point is not to attack bisexuals or straights but to acknowledge that us, the gays, are into very different sorts of sexual excitement.it is neurological in us.

Heterosexuals can say how nasty is their own sex; gays can't say a word about this attitude coz we are insane,negative,and lunatics.
Bisexuals (highly heterosexuals ones) can say that they only find sexual and emotional fulfillment with member of the opposite sex ,and basically use gays as sex toys,and gays can't say a word about this attitude coz we are insane,negative,and lunatics.
bisexuals (in general) can say why they are into getting aroused with body parts that they weren't born with and that the majority of the of the opposite sex simply won't deal with,because of course,men are way better.and guess what? gays can't say a word about this attitude coz we are insane,negative,and lunatics.

what heterosexuals find pleasurable or not,i could care less,because i'm the one who is rejecting their sexual behavior because of moral,ethical,mental health reasons.in fact, this is the kinds of sexual behavior that gays need to tell heterosexuals that we won't accept and the reason why we don't agree with them.They are natural conditions that are healthier or unhealthier than others.An asymmetric coupling is toooo unhealthy compared to a symmetric one.

Make a poll and ask gays whether they could get aroused with body parts that they weren't born with,that they don't have neither inside nor outside of their own bodies and that the opposite sex finds gross because they feel that their own sexual group that they belong to, doesn't give as much pleasure as the masculine one does. and then they even try to "seduce us" with the very things they can't even think of getting pleasure with,by touching them,smelling them,etc from another women like them.You have to looooove tooooo much the opposite sex in order to accept something of this nature.Make a poll and let's see what their opinion will be.
ask whether they find it pleasurable to have someone from a different sexual group, smelling them,touching them etc.and see their answer.
of course bisexuals /heterosexuals would not object to something like this,interestingly ,they do have issues when it is someone of their own sex who like the very sex that they were born with,their real sexual organs and whom would not ever think about looking after someone else's sex ,unless they find their own sexual organs pleasurable,delicious,etc themselves.

so that was my point, that the psychological dynamic of heterosexual/bisexuals is totally different than the one we got,the gays.
i accept bisexuality to the fullest,i have nothing against it,but i was referring to the SEXUAL/LOVE RELATIONSHIP between bisexuals and gays who are in an committed partnership.
of course,they are two types of bisexual men,the ones that really find total fulfillment (sexual and emotional) with woman and those who call themselves "bisexuals" and are constantly looking for another man in gay dating sites to have a relationship with,and enjoy the casual, sporadic, almost non existent sexual contact with females.This seems to be your case,asian dream,you are joke of a bisexual. i'd cut my right hand that you don't go out chasing women every night to get laid with them.am i wrong?

 

[azndude89]

omg GiacomoPisani, fix your grammar and the structure of what you're trying to say. and stop replying- we hear the same crap over and over again and some of us don't care anymore.

someone delete this thread... too much crap going on here

and some advice GiacomoPisani: BREAK UP WITH YOUR BF IF ITS NOT GOING TO WORK OUT!!! YOU SAID THAT YOURE MISERABLE, SO BREAK IT OFF!!!

 

[GiacomoPisani]

i'm not gonna post anymore here,coz i'm not gonna waste my time dealing with bisexuals issues any more.i have enough of them in my own house.
what i do with my boyfriend is my problem,don't worry,everything is under my control now.

with respect to the "straight" guy that i had been talking with on this board,i hope that he understands that our arguments has not been to put each other down or anything,i think it was a "friendly" argument with two opposite point of views.Of course we don't agree and we won't.

but one thing is very clear,my questions were never answered,in fact, my point was been twisted and distorted continuously. i did expect something like this because bisexuals are always very defensive when it comes to admit many things that gays tells them.
the "straight" guy even acknowledges that the straight girl does not find female genitalia appealing,nor have any urges for them.yet he does admit that he feels sexual urges for the very things this girl find grotesque(and his wife) and that he doesn't feel aroused with his own sex,which happens to be the very sex that this poor "sexual outsiders" want to enjoy so much and that he fully belongs sexually to.thank goodness that we(gays) have the boundaries very well delineated as much as this "straight guy" has his, when it comes to accept this or that from our own sex or the opposite one.
I'm sure that this straight girl and the 'straight" guy's wife would never do a 69 together.Of course because "our sex is disgusting, theirs is delicious"(the typical heterosexual mental frame).If this "straight" guy is a masochist,have a sexual fetish with body parts that he wasn't born with,is sexually submissive to people of another sexual group,finds acceptable to delight with body parts that the opposite sex do not find delightful at all,thus contradicting them,etc,....then, that's his own business.personally, i wouldn't want to mess with people from another sex, that on top of that, find their body parts less pleasant than the ones that i'm giving to them, even if i had to go against the "majority", who might be glad to consider these attitudes as moral,normal,and even mentally healthy.

i think that all these attitudes should give gays one more reason to be proud of what we got,of the moral and ethical ways we handle many issues regarding human sexuality.

i do think that this "straight" guy is very friendly and supportive of the LGBT community,and i do thank him for that

 

[Krakenbwool]

^ I'm not quite sure what your argument is, but you keep mentioning that it bewilders you why men would like vaginas if straight women find it disgusting.

Here's a lil' chart:

Likes vagina: straight/bi men, gay/bi women
Likes dick: straight/bi women, gay/bi men

It makes no sense to say that straight men shouldn't like vagina if straight women don't like vagina. That's like saying straight women shouldn't like dick if straight men don't like dick.

I try to be open-minded, but I very honestly do not understand your argument.

 

[AsianDream]

Lots of sad, confused, and deluded people on here. I won't say who, but just sayin.....

Most of the bisexual men I knew eventually came out as gay, the ones that didn't married not really for love but in order to have "normalcy" and a family. Nine times out of 10 they were miserable and started sleeping with men within a few months to a few years after getting married (of course the wife didn't know all of this) and when things did come to ahead it wasn't pretty.

You're essentially expressing the view that bi-sexual guys don't really exist and are really gay and fooling themselves.

This is very much the attitude I find from a lot of gay guys - they just don't accept that other people can have different desires to themselves. This "black and white" polarised idea of sexuality for all people is just plain wrong.

The world is not neatly divided into "Gay" or "Straight".

In fact it seems rather strange to be posting that Bi-sexual people are just deluded on a bi-sexual and straight forum. Just as I think it would be wrong (and just as impolite) for a bi-sexual person to post a theory that gay guys were really bi-sexual underneath.

There are no straight men posting on a gay forum. Trolls, sockpuppets, whatever but an no straight men are posting here. Some of these threads are comical and others are just sad and reek of self loathing.

Again you are saying the very fact someone is here means they must be gay - just are deluding themselves about this.

In fact a lot of guys who are mostly straight are curious about homosexuality. It may be that guys with pure 0 (heterosexaul) scores on the Kinsey scale would never look at a site like this - but these "pure straights" are probably in the minority.

From your understanding of Bi-sexuality - I'd assume you have never heard of Kinsey? He was a famous sexual behavior researcher who did fairly extensive studies and writing in this area.

 

[Krakenbwool]

The funny thing is that I don't view JUB as just a "gay sex" site, not for my uses. Because the atmosphere here is so open about male sexuality, there is free discussion about cetain topics of interest that ANY man might find valuable, if he can put his issues aside long enough. I can't say that I read or check on the rest of the board, but even in this section there is discussion about topics that are relevant. Where else can I ask a question about my cut-but-uncut penis, and actually have that question taken seriously lol! I mean that was actually something that was concerning me and yes I talked to my wife and best friend about it, but only here did I find out "yeah, this happens to other guys, I'm not alone, I'm OK". Do you know how many bonafide straight men have questions about enjoying anal pleasuring, from themselves or their women, but don't have too many places to go for frank discussion and talk about that? Maybe they happened across a little gay or bi porn and was surprised to find that they didn't just vomit on contact, and might be actually turned on by it. Where do they go to talk about that, or at the very least lurk to see someone else talk about it? There are lots of "in betweens" for guys who don't sleep with men, and yes, don't even have the urge to do so. I think in a world where the sexuality of women and gay men is allowed to be layered and deepened, the sexuality of the straight man is becoming more and more stigmatized, marginalized, and viewed with incredible limitation. There are so many questions, thoughts, ideas, insecurities, contradictions that arise in every sexual "category", including the straight man. This board is a great source to see talk of that stuff, or even read about the sexual experiences and questions from other men, which is of interest to someone like me who has always been fascinated by Human sexuality and sexual behavior.

I agree with the idea of using gay/bi male forums as a medium to talk about male sexuality in general. I'm a chick who has been on some of those "exclusively hetero" male forums, and I know it's pretty much taboo to talk about anything but pussy or your dick in proximity to a pussy (or mouth) because of the forced machismo. And, of course, talking about anal is completely out of the question (unless you're talking about "fuckin' that bitch in the poop chute"). In that way, I do feel sorry for those kinds of straight men at times, because it seems that they're afraid to explore the full potential of their own sexualities for the fear of seeming "gay."

 

[GiacomoPisani]

^ I'm not quite sure what your argument is, but you keep mentioning that it bewilders you why men would like vaginas if straight women find it disgusting.

Here's a lil' chart:

Likes vagina: straight/bi men, gay/bi women
Likes dick: straight/bi women, gay/bi men

It makes no sense to say that straight men shouldn't like vagina if straight women don't like vagina. That's like saying straight women shouldn't like dick if straight men don't like dick.

I try to be open-minded, but I very honestly do not understand your argument.

well. i i said i'm already tired of bisexual topics,but i need to make clear everything that i said.
krakenbwool, Have you really read what i wrote before? first, because there is no point having as sexual organs something that your body is not made of,do not secrete,etc,second ...because a homosexual gay can enjoy something that straight guys find disgusting,but still we are with/within our sex,this is not your case.you were not born a man,and yes,you have to be very willing to enjoy what people who are born with a completely different anatomy than yours find nasty(because you find your own sex less attractive than mine?right?).This means that the caliber of naughtiness has to be way too high for you.not only you are not made of these parts ,so they can't be said to be legitimate sexual organs for you,but the very ones who you are having sex with,find them disgusting.if you think that this is a nice,psychological condition to be with.good for you.Us, the gays,we are doing fine rejecting something of this nature.

yesterday,we went to my aunt's house,she was preparing some shrimps and lobsters and after she washed her hands she smelled them and she said ,yuk!! that's why i hate preparing seafood,because they always leave me such a nasty smell to "cunt" on my hands.i said to myself : "i can't believe that my partner actually has the stomach to enjoy something like this and on top of that,to have the submissiveness and the willingness to enjoy what these other people find so bad smelling and with bad taste.At least, he does know how to give his own sex the place it deserves.but oh!! ... i guess these are the wonders of "heterosexuality",...and that we, the gays.. won't think twice to avoid them"coz they will corrupt us from head to toes.We got something much better."

the morphological difference between males and females,is so high,that not only we can say with all certainty that they exist two different group sexualities.But also the very physical difference that would put a man into liking body parts, for instance,much softer,smaller,and it would entail that females would look for big,strong,hard etc ,a very marked sexual disparity,not convenient for men at all.Who is more likely to boost sexual pleasure by using body parts that your own body is not constituted with,the one with the softest and smallest parts ,or the one with the biggest, and strongest ones?.Why would a masculine man that considers himself fully masculine desire the body of a feminine person for touching it,swallowing female hormone(instead of masculine ones),smelling it.etc

Has society long ago by means of theologians and philosophers,sociologist,etc twist the real means by which nature produce sexual inversion,effeminacy,sexual deviancy etc? do heterosexual men really think that we consider having a cock inside a vagina as a masculine trait or worst being married to a female? But more,why would a intelligent masculine man enjoy rubbing a hard 10 inch cock with a 1 cm clitoris,why would a masculine man prefer to reject his some sex,and adopt another completely distinct sexual group,who as a majority do not enjoy why they got,they look after those men,who prefer to find their very own sexual group gross,just to get from them what these men can't have sexual pleasure with( their own sex).People who actually have the same body parts (cock,testicles,muscles) and "juices (semen)" that they were born with.
and i've asked those straight or bisexuals man that i've talked with,is it that you want to overvalue sooo much the opposite sex,and under value your very own? do you have any idea of what you are doing to yourself,and the neurological cost,(not to say social) that we pay when we have to fake sexual connection with someone whose body parts are totally distinct,and dissimilar? can you really estimate the cost of attraction to sexual dimorphism vs sexual isomorphism?

my partner is bisexual,yes and he said he is more attracted to females ,but i don't believe him,as i said before, he has been with me for three years,and yes, he has cheated on me with girls a couple of times,but he always comes back with me (and of course, i forgive him).if i were bisexual my relationship with him would be made in heaven.so i think that a relationship of two bisexual man does work perfectly.He is a nice guy,and i will always own him a lot.

 

[stevexxx]

you should always lean girls, imagine being gay-you wouldn't have any rights

 

[Telstra]

before tonight, my bisexuality was learning towards the guy more, however tonight, i realized that i dont like sucking cock and fucking a guy....so girls, come to papa!
- though im still attracted to guys- just dont think ill consider doing anything sexual anytime soon...

thats all i have to say...

"attracted to guys" is the key. You are gay ...
sucking and fucking is a learning curve.

 

[AsianDream]

before tonight, my bisexuality was learning towards the guy more, however tonight, i realized that i dont like sucking cock and fucking a guy....so girls, come to papa!
- though im still attracted to guys- just dont think ill consider doing anything sexual anytime soon...

thats all i have to say...

"attracted to guys" is the key. You are gay ...
sucking and fucking is a learning curve.

Wrong Telstra - if Azndude says he's bi-sexual - then that's probably what he actually is - neither 100% GAY nor 100% STRAIGHT

All sex is a learning curve - no matter what genders are involved

 

[Krakenbwool]

You know, I just love how gay men are coming over to a bisexual male thread to say tell them that they don't exist.

It may be true that a lot of men who label themselves "bisexual" later come out as gay, but there are a lot of self-labeled "straight" men who are actually truly bisexual. Similarly, there are self-proclaimed "gay" men who would fuck chicks under the right circumstances.

In all, labels are a very vague way of accurately depicting people's sexual desires and/or behaviors. So generalizing the way all of human sexuality works based on a few examples from your own life is absurd. The sooner that we all accept that not everyone thinks according to our own mental models, the more accepting towards everyone the world will become.