So Im weakening

[neruda]

Just dont feel as energetic in life - actually tire easily
On a sexual low as well
Is it boredom, a lack of challenges, a lack of friends ....or just plain aging?
[Check age on left ....and dont just synpathise]
I need a clinical explanation

 

[Newbie_69]

I'm not a Doc. But I can refer you to one. Here's what he has to say that MIGHT help you with your problem.

The Secret of Happiness
How would you like to learn the “Secret of Happiness”? A secret so profound, yet so simple that you can virtually eliminate all unhappiness for the rest of your life!

Okay, I won’t keep you waiting any longer .

The secret is this: Happiness is not a conclusion.
Re-read that sentence again. Then, think about how you've thought of about happiness in the past or even in the last 24 hours.
When you feel unhappy in the moment is it because you:

1. Don’t have something now that you seek to obtain "one day"

2. When you will finally accomplish __________

3. Or when you no longer struggle with _________

Sounds familiar, doesn't it?

The secret of happiness is only found in the here and now -- within this present moment. If you choose to view it any other way, let me break the bad news to you right now: you will NEVER be happy. Ever. No matter what!

Happiness is "accentuated" by achieving your desires. It is also "expanded on" by removing certain obstacles from your life, but happiness cannot be found once you accomplish anything. Granted, it may bring you temporary happiness, but it will soon fade because you missed the point. Happiness is not a conclusion or the result of anything – it is a choice.
If you decide to be happy NOW instead of waiting for something to happen in the future, it will realign your energies with the universal patterns that literally attracts happiness to you. In other words, you'll find the things you need to achieve "accentuated happiness" by aligning yourself with it right now.

But here's the first step, and it's one anyone can do regardless of their current circumstances. Just list three things every single morning when you wake up that you are ETERNALLY GRATEFUL FOR. Then, FEEL IT. Thinking it is not enough. Anyone can "think happy thoughts" -- but good luck with that!

It is not what we think but what we FEEL that determines the outcome of our life. Feel what you're grateful for -- then live your gratitude.
This list becomes your anchor to your past and a magnet of attraction to your future.

What's great about this is that it works every time.
Until next time..........

Dr. Robert Anthony

 

[BrandonSBCA]

It's not age because my partner is 47 years old and he isn't weakening one bit! I would assume it's the environment, possibly something that you need that you seem to be unable to get.

 

[dkonfrost]

Just dont feel as energetic in life - actually tire easily
On a sexual low as well
Is it boredom, a lack of challenges, a lack of friends ....or just plain aging?
[Check age on left ....and dont just synpathise]
I need a clinical explanation

get your bloodwork/CBCs done, and maybe check with a dietician also. clinically speaking, you might be deficient in a few nutrients.

 

[jockboy01]

well, most likely just a rut. How long has it been going on for?

If it's been a while, check in with a doc and make sure it's not something easily treated (thyroid, anemia, etc). Also it might be depression but there are certain criteria for that.

If it hasn't been very long (a couple of weeks) then maybe see if things don't turn around on their own.

 

[hphbp1821]

well, most likely just a rut. How long has it been going on for?

If it's been a while, check in with a doc and make sure it's not something easily treated (thyroid, anemia, etc). Also it might be depression but there are certain criteria for that.

If it hasn't been very long (a couple of weeks) then maybe see if things don't turn around on their own.

I agree that it's probably just a funk. How long has it been going on? If it's more than several months, maybe you should look into anti-depressants. I actually went on paxil a little under a year ago as a treatment for anxiety attacks. I've never thought of myself as depressed, but I know when I miss a few doses of my paxil, it puts me in a terrible slump. Anyway, hope you figure things out.

 

[pixie77]

mid-life crisis?
Its true it happens to guys, just lack of energy and a feeling of just going though the motions of life.
I had everything going for me and I had those sytoms.

Google Gail Sheehe
Her book made me realise I wasn't the only one and that helped me heaps and its all fell away.

best wishes