So is considered gay/bi to let a guy give you a BJ?

[elektrik]

I've never done anything more than make out with a couple girls before, but me and my friends were just talking and they were like "man that's gay if you'd let a guy give you a BJ!" and I've just been curious, would that be gay/bi?

I honestly don't care, because I wouldn't have any objection to any BJ, but am just curious about the consensus! And if that makes me bi, then oh well haha.

Thanks for input!

 

[Newmercedes]

Yea for sure Dude cuz straight guys def don't let you suck their Cocks. They don't even wanna show you their Cocks either. I saw my roommate Penis. Nice, thick and big. He got mad at me when I talked nice things about his penis. He rather fucks un ugly girl then playing with a hot guy. So wasted. I want his cum so baddddd.

 

[dhchitown1984]

If you fix one broken pipe, can you be called a plumber?
If you fix one car, can you be called a mechanic?
If you get a blowjob from one guy, can you be called gay?

If you've never had a guy suck you off, and you like it, great. If you want it to happen again, that's OK too. Personally, I don't think it makes you gay. Now, if you say on a regular basis that you'd make out with a guy, let him suck you off, and top him... ...but you wouldn't suck him off or bottom because thats "too gay" then I'd say you have a problem.... there's a difference between experimenting and denial. But no, I don't think it makes you gay if you give it a shot once.

 

[FunFunk]

I've never done anything more than make out with a couple girls before, but me and my friends were just talking and they were like "man that's gay if you'd let a guy give you a BJ!" and I've just been curious, would that be gay/bi?

I honestly don't care, because I wouldn't have any objection to any BJ, but am just curious about the consensus! And if that makes me bi, then oh well haha.

Thanks for input!

Yes, if you're a man who enjoys receiving blowjobs from other men (or giving them to other men) then you're gay (or bi if you also like women) and there's nothing wrong with it; you like what you like. It's as simple as that.

 

[Lube]

Well if you only kissed a few girls but let a guy blow you, your interests are certainly leaning gay. It's not like you've been fucking woman and decided to give a guy a shot. You definitely sound more interested in men.

And that's perfectly fine.

 

[gavin89]

Nah it doesn't... It just means you're curious.. Or horny as hell and can't get a girl to give you one...

I consider myself gay since I was like 13 years-old and still sometimes I wonder what it's like to have my penis inside a vagina... that doesn't make me straight... I'm just curious...

btw, if you ever do decide to get a BJ from a guy I'm glad to be of help...

 

[TX-Beau]

How old are you? If you're 18 and curious that's one thing, it you're 35 and never did more than make out with a couple of women that's really suspect.

Of course it doesn't matter if you're bi or gay, and I agree that if you're consistently getting off with a guy, while never having sex with a woman, that's not even bi.

Most of us have probably blown a straight guy, I have, how did I know they were straight? They got off and ran, and didn't come back.

Most of us stop doing that because being having some straight guy use your mouth just to get off is kind of degrading. But hey, there are plenty of guys who get off an that too.

 

[mbamike]

Not necessarily. Everyone should experiment with the opposite sex as well as with the same sex just to figure out their sexuality.

 

[elektrik]

Ah okay, thanks! Yeah I mean, I really don't care what sexuality I am, because it is what it is!

But yes, I'm pretty young and the reason I've only done making out with girls is well, I'm probably the slowest moving out of all of my friends haha. I've fantasized about both genders though, (but never anal sex with a guy though, ...I'm not saying that cause it's "too gay", I just have never really been aroused by the idea of anal sex!) and I plan on waiting until marriage to have sex, or at least a while, and I'd feel bad messing around too much with a girl if we weren't dating, I'm really Christian (more in the sense of morals and right vs. wrong than literal interpretations of the Bible...LIKE how people read it to hate on homosexuality) I'm just not like that!

But yeah thanks I was just wondering! Like I don't see anything wrong with a guy doing that to me so I was curious what that probably meant! I guess only time will tell to see what I end up doing as I have opportunities for stuff!

 

[Fireballs]

Think the saying is it isn't gay if you beat them up afterwards.

 

[Lefty]

Yes, if you're a man who enjoys receiving blowjobs from other men (or giving them to other men) then you're gay (or bi if you also like women) and there's nothing wrong with it; you like what you like. It's as simple as that.

OH...
well thanks. Silly me

I thought boys who received

from everybody were either very

horny, very liberal, both, or......

just loved getting blowjobs.

 

[rareboy]

Yes.

You'd be bi at the very least.

Enjoy.

Guys are way better at bj's than girls.

 

[Lefty]

Not strictly true Rareone

butt,

I would have gotten the blowjog

and that is a BLOWNUS.

 

[Seasoned]

You are what you feel you are. Be open to the fact that you may change your opinion of your self-label over time. I maintain there's a difference between sex acts and sexual orientation. Not everyone would agree with me.

 

[Lefty]

,, Formerly,

Hows the new GIG...

Read a few of your posts....doing fine.

Now,

If the sex of the person performing the determines if

it is st8, Gay or Bi....the any self has to be totally gay.

Fact follows Reason... Eh?

 

[Newmercedes]

You guys don't really understand. My hot straight roommate loves to live at my place. Very nice place and I did give him a good deal. In the past. We fought a few times and He tried to make up or make friends again so he can stay there. After he showed me his nice big cock and he felt so bad. He told me he did this because he wanted to see me happy. He said he felt dirty after showing me his cock and told me don't bring it up again. Later on He moved out because He didn't want to show me his nice penis once a month like He promised me. Now he moved out and pay a lot more and his place is not nice like mine. He rather move out than living with me. I dunno why He makes a big deal. He got mad when I gave him a compliment about his penis. Man I don't understand

 

[BiMike]

He is Str8 ! Thats his problem

 

[Lefty]

He is Str8 ! Thats his problem

This is a bit off course and not meant personal mike.

---------------------Soap Box Warning----------------------

Because (s)he is BI/STR8/GAY is not the problem for the person that is

BI/GAY/STR8, they are what they are and it is what it is. The problem

is the person bigoted enough to preclude everything because of those

damn labels GAY/BI/STR8.

People are flavorless blobs of protoplasm. Colors , faiths, orientation,

even individual abilities et cetera, are the seasonings, attractant and

repellant...spice, just the spice....well. they are supposed to be damn it.



okay okay STFU lefty

 

[pai mei]

no, being blown by a guy doesn't make you gay, or bi.


if you arent attracted to guys, you aren't gay. and it doesn't matter how many tims u hook up with guys, that isn't going to change.

however, if you ARE sexually attracted to guys, you don't have to have ever gotten blown from another guy to be gay



makes sense?

 

[sixthson]

no, being blown by a guy doesn't make you gay, or bi.


if you arent attracted to guys, you aren't gay. and it doesn't matter how many tims u hook up with guys, that isn't going to change.

however, if you ARE sexually attracted to guys, you don't have to have ever gotten blown from another guy to be gay



makes sense?

I'm sure it makes sense on whatever alternate universe you come from.

Why would a guy hook up with a guy if he wasn't attracted to guys? And please don't give me that line about a blow job being just a blow job no matter who gives it.