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So is considered gay/bi to let a guy give you a BJ?

pai mei said:
no, being blown by a guy doesn't make you gay, or bi.


if you arent attracted to guys, you aren't gay. and it doesn't matter how many tims u hook up with guys, that isn't going to change.

however, if you ARE sexually attracted to guys, you don't have to have ever gotten blown from another guy to be gay

:p

makes sense?
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Hm, I actually like this answer the most haha.

I guess I'm just whatever! Like if you don't think about labels or anything then it really doesn't matter, just do what you wanna do and have fun and not care with what society says :D But I wouldn't really wanna come out as bi, (I say bi because I'm 100% certain I do like girls, so it's straight vs. bi!) because in my mind like fantasizing about getting married, it's definitely a girl, what feels right, so that's that! People are people!
 
sixthson said:
I'm sure it makes sense on whatever alternate universe you come from. :D

Why would a guy hook up with a guy if he wasn't attracted to guys? And please don't give me that line about a blow job being just a blow job no matter who gives it.
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well, why would a guy hook up with a guy if he weren't attracted to guys? im not sure. but the act of a blow job doesn't "make" you gay. a straight guy could get blown by a guy just to prove that point, and he wouldn't be any gayer than before the blow job.

that's all i'm saying.

now, if a guy were hooking up with guys for the fun of it, and claimed that hooking up doesn't "make" him gay, he'd be technically right, but... BUT you could pretty much *assume* that he's a closet case, or in denial, etc, etc, because even though hooking up doesn't make you gay, his motives would be highly suspect if he repeatedly indulged in it :p

elektrik said:
Hm, I actually like this answer the most haha.

I guess I'm just whatever! Like if you don't think about labels or anything then it really doesn't matter, just do what you wanna do and have fun and not care with what society says :D But I wouldn't really wanna come out as bi, (I say bi because I'm 100% certain I do like girls, so it's straight vs. bi!) because in my mind like fantasizing about getting married, it's definitely a girl, what feels right, so that's that! People are people!
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and there you go :p we get confined in labels a little too much imo.
 
pai mei said:
and there you go :p we get confined in labels a little too much imo.
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Did you ever notice how guys play the 'label card' only when it comes to something being gay and never when it's straight. It's shame based, in my opinion. To them, straight is the gold standard and gay is inferior or degrading.

There appear to be too many guys loving gay sex as long as they can look straight when doing it.

If you are a male, having sexual contact of any kind with another male, you are not straight. I have a label for guys who think otherwise: delusional.
 
pai mei said:
no, being blown by a guy doesn't make you gay, or bi.


if you arent attracted to guys, you aren't gay. and it doesn't matter how many tims u hook up with guys, that isn't going to change.

however, if you ARE sexually attracted to guys, you don't have to have ever gotten blown from another guy to be gay

:p

makes sense?
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Nope, it doesn't...Nature makes you gay or bi or straight or what ever.

What you do only defines your parameters.....but it is kind of fun getting

to listen to you and 6th son hearing but not listening to each other.:badgrin:
 
I believe in the line of thought that there is a difference between sexual behavior and sexual orientation.
 
I agree, BiBlackMan. For those who worry that receiving head from a gay man "makes you gay," I ask "what's in your mind when you masturbate? What are your fantasies? What are you imagining behind those closed eyes as you allow me to go down on you?" THOSE answers will do more to define your sexuality than the physical act of having someone suck your cock.
 
If you let a guy blow you, not really.
If you want a guy to blow you, yea.

thin line, but that's how I see it.
 
2untru said:
If you let a guy blow you, not really.
If you want a guy to blow you, yea.

thin line, but that's how I see it.
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exactly. that's the bottom line.


simply engaging in the act doesn't "make you gay," there is nothing that will "make you gay," bottoming isn't going to "make you gay." of course, if you're doing all that you likely ARE gay (or bi) because... well... what straight guy would want to do that, but the act itselfdoesn't "force" a sexuality on you.
 
Lefty said:
Nope, it doesn't...Nature makes you gay or bi or straight or what ever.

What you do only defines your parameters.....but it is kind of fun getting

to listen to you and 6th son hearing but not listening to each other.:badgrin:
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well, as long as i can provide some entertainment for you, then i guess i'm happy.
 
I would predict that around a straight guy among other straight guys would feel obligated to say that getting a BJ from a gay guy is gay or makes you gay. But get some (not all) alone and you will find that they dont mind it.

Honestly, I dont think getting a BJ from a gay guy (if you're straight) makes you gay or even bi-curious. I would even go so far as to say having anal sex as a top doesnt necessarily make you gay.
 
I think that I have said this plenty of times here, but such is the downfall of labels. I don't think it really matters if it's considered gay/bi just as long as everyone is happy.
 
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2untru said:
If you let a guy blow you, not really.
If you want a guy to blow you, yea.

thin line, but that's how I see it.
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It is an artificial and dangerous line. It is the line used by bi's and homos in denial....as long as they 'let' a guy blow them....they are safe in their fantasy of being hetero.

So a lot of them just get into the psychologically unhealthy practise of 'using' other guys...always rationalizing that as long as they are the only ones getting pleasure...it isn't gay.

The fact is that technically...the moment that you engage in sexual activity with someone of the same sex it is homosexual activity. and if you do it with both guys and girls, it is bi-sexual activity.

So relax. Enjoy the liberation of being a self-aware bi-sexual. who knows. You might even give some other guy some pleasure as well.
 
elektrik said:
I've never done anything more than make out with a couple girls before, but me and my friends were just talking and they were like "man that's gay if you'd let a guy give you a BJ!" and I've just been curious, would that be gay/bi?

I honestly don't care, because I wouldn't have any objection to any BJ, but am just curious about the consensus! And if that makes me bi, then oh well haha.

Thanks for input!
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In my opinion; having a guy blow you, make out, or top a guy doesn't make you gay. Just makes you curious at the most. Now if you are at the opposite end of those sexual activites it does make you gay or bi-sexual. But if you are at the right end of that stick (getting it [bj] or giving it [anal]) more then 3 times then you rae either gay or bi. I'd like a hot twink next to me now.
 
Who cares? #-o

Just like politics or world commerce, all kinds of people coming to the

table with different needs and and agendas. The important part isn't

what they are but who they are, if there is a viable contact or a new

trade agreement reached and all participants come away satisfied.(!)
 
I'm sure it makes sense on whatever alternate universe you come from.

Why would a guy hook up with a guy if he wasn't attracted to guys? And please don't give me that line about a blow job being just a blow job no matter who gives it.
YOU ARE SO DAMN RIGHT DUDE.
 
Here's My Thoughts.

I believe every1 has a gay side. If a straight boy has said that they havent fantasied about a boy doing sexual stuff to him (or vise versa) then he's lying. I advice you to go with your gut instinct if you want a guy 2 suck you off for fun go for it be open minded. You never know, 1 day you could get married to a women and realise you're gay or marry and man and realise your straight.
 
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