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Ok I seem to be in a perdicament....

I date girls and and love everything about girls....The situation is I've ALWAYS fantasized about men. I don't know what it is, but I find the male sex, well sexy! I always wanted to swallow my own cum, but I could never bring myself to do it...You know soon as I would be getting ready to cum, I would just cum on my chest. I never thought I could bring myself to actually "swallowing" it....When I finally gained the nerve to do it.........I loved it....I guess what I'm trying to do is ask how do I "meet" another male to "explore" with? I remember when I was younger my friend's brother(who I always "fantasized" about) walked in the room and ended up unzipping his pants and put his limp 7.5 thick cock on the kitchen table. (He always was showing his cock or balls) I was reading a magazine so I didn't know what was going on. Once I moved the mag and saw his cock resting on the table....It kinda changed me....Everytime I masturbate, I go back to that fantasy and "imagine" what woulda happened.

I guess I'm just asking for some advice JUB...:(
 
welll.. finding guys who shag is as easy as admitting that you're not straight, you're interested in shagging a guy and then going out to a place where guys who wanna shag each other shag.

Bars are good.. so are coffee shops in the gay areas or even just haning out in the gay neighbourhood if your city has one.

Um.. where do you live?
 
or you can go to any one of several internet sites and find a boy... just meet in public. I'm thinking this isn't going to help you at all btw, but if it's what you think you want they're out there. Craigslist in your are would probably work. Look under men seeking men. This assumes you're in or near a bigger city. But I would guess you're in NYC. Piece of cake then.
 
If you're in New York City, just go to SoHo and hang out at a coffee place until you see a guy you think is hot.

Then go talk to him.
 
Is it unusual? Not at all. Being gay or bi has nothing to do about how you relate to women, but everything to do with being turned on by guys.

For a soft approach, try going to gay places like bookshops and the like, not to hook up, but as a step towards feeling comfortable about yourself.

Gay bars are fun places even if you happen to go (and leave) by yourself. Don't be afraid to try it.
 
The advice you've already been given is good, but I can understand how the idea of frequenting a gay-friendly place to try and hook up with someone can be quite daunting if you've never done anything like that before. All I can really add is that you do your homework first (maybe the internet can help here) and go somewhere that has a good reputation and is known to be safe. Just relax and be yourself, but at the same time stay alert and don't rush into things.

..... Or you can just come visit me and I'll give you a few lessons! ..|
 
I remember the first time I visited a gay establishment; it scared the pants off me, which in a gay establishment raises more than an eye brow. I had to get comfortable with the actual leering men, whose glances spoke of things I had thitherto never contemplated in such detail. But after several visits I found comfort & much more. And now I'm as happy as a bird!

Good luck!

E.
 
I use to live in NY, but now Im in Co.

I wouldnt even know where to start when it comes to looking for an establishment to visit. Lately I get these urges to experience, but I don't exactly wanna just jump into the situation....I dunno if I'm just curious or what. Anybody know where I can find some "good" establishments in Co?
 
Agreed... CO is a big state and quite varied. Overall it is more conservative than the NE or CA but Denver is rather progressive. Boulder is pretty liberal too although I don't know of a gay bar/club off the top of my head there. But I'm sure at least one exists there with CU and all.
 
hmmm, don't know much about the springs. But it tends to be more conservative as a whole so I'd doubt there is much of a gay scene there. Denver is probably about an hour or so from you (not sure how T-rex is coming along though) and there might better options up there for a weekend or something. Otherwise, hang around colorado college for a while... most liberal school I've ever seen.
 
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