So is my friend..bi?

[hiphopjamez]

oh I'm 19. I don't know what I want! I'm so confused...aghhhh...I feel like I care if he remembers or not but other times I don't so its just annoying..

 

[TX-Beau]

...I don't know what I want! I'm so confused...aghhhh...

OK, So you're young so you get some slack.

Advice, figure out what you want. Can you picture yourself dating him and introducing him as your guy to all your friends and family? Or do you just picture him on his knees with your cock in his mouth?

If you can't picture the first, either you're not ready to date a guy (and this is a moot question) or you don't want to date him.

If all you think about when it come to him is sex, well you kind of have your answer.

It's not easy I know. Closet issues, which you both have can really muddy the issue - so think of it this way. If you can go about your life and not obsess, that suggests that it's just the sex. If you find yourself obsessing and playing the "is he isn't he" game and it plagues your mind, that suggests something more.

"Cause I've gotta tell you, you've had sex with this guy several times and that really answers the first question you posed.

You can wallow in angst about this, or you can be pro-active and make a plan. It's up to you. But if all you're going to do about this is just wallow in the ambiguity, there's no point to giving you advice, because there will never be a resolution.

It's your life. Seize it.

 

[aijalon18]

Do either of you metabolize alcohol well? Or do you have the traditional alcohol intolerance many of us Asians have? You may have heard it called "Asian Flush". Your own personal drinking is of concern and even more so if you / both of you have ALDH2 issues with alcohol.

OMG One of my roommates is Korean and the first time he got drunk in our apt and turned red I was so freaked out. I thought he was gonna die. His appeared in blotches and then a minute later he was completely red.

 

[spencer]

While this will probably offend you, I hope you don't approach school like you do this situation.

Agree with your plan with him is, though.

 

[hiphopjamez]

While this will probably offend you, I hope you don't approach school like you do this situation.

Agree with your plan with him is, though.

I don't get it.

 

[stripes]

I drank A LOT and everybody else smoked (not cigs). I then smoked later. Then 4 hours later I threw up in the car

if you smoke then drink you should be fine. but drinking THEN smoking is vomit city that's my advice

 

[Lube]

oh I'm 19. I don't know what I want! I'm so confused...aghhhh...I feel like I care if he remembers or not but other times I don't so its just annoying..

It sounds like you're madly in love with him but won't admit it.

You have a lot of issues to deal with.

Accept that you're bi/gay. Be happy with it.

Love yourself.

 

[hiphopjamez]

It sounds like you're madly in love with him but won't admit it.

You have a lot of issues to deal with.

Accept that you're bi/gay. Be happy with it.

Love yourself.

I don't think I"m in love with him...at all.. I am curious to see how he feels about all of this though.

 

[Lube]

I don't think I"m in love with him...at all.. I am curious to see how he feels about all of this though.

Oh, so that's why you care if he "remembers"?

So what if he is bi or gay? Why do you care to know (as opposed to having pretty strong suspicions)? (I'm not being accusative, just curious)