So its going to happen at 3 tomorrow!!!

[bttman]

I met this guy on silverdaddies like a month ago. He is 58 and im 25. Ive never had sex with a man before and im sooooo nervous. Can anyone give me some advice? He is coming over tomorrow!

 

[kidwithathorn]

I'd like to say bring viagra, but I won't....Opps already did.
Anyways the normal crap. Practice safe sex, bring lots of lube, if he wants to bring friends say no, etc.,etc.

 

[Homoerectus]

Hey, us older guys can still get it up and get it really hard when needed. The good thing about older guys is we take longer to get-off and we can ride an ass for a long time. Plus, we really appreciate sex with younger guys. I hope you have a good date. Please post an update here.

 

[Hard4cumshots]

Take your time, use protection, plenty of lube.

Know that at any time if you are uncomfortable you have the right to call it off and gracefully say "thank you, but no"

 

[kidwithathorn]

Hey, us older guys can still get it up and get it really hard when needed. The good thing about older guys is we take longer to get-off and we can ride an ass for a long time. Plus, we really appreciate sex with younger guys. I hope you have a good date. Please post an update here.

Don't worry, I was just pokin' some fun. Trust me I know that men in there 50's can get it up quite easily.

 

[Zeremonie]

The Bear forum is in the Adult Content area because Adult Content goes in it: so any content related to daddy & bear porn stars, or links featuring such adult actors is what goes in it.

Your thread is definitely a serious discussion thread and is not an erotic thread. I've moved it to the relationship forum, though arguably it might fit in more than one forum. Contact a mod about moving it elsewhere.

Thanks.

 

[luminum]

Hey! I met a guy on the same site! I'm 20 and he's in his mid to late 50's. We're friends/fuck buddies now and it's been going on for about half a year now.

I talked to him online for a bit, left his name and address and any other relevant information about him with a friend/housemate in case things turned out badly and he picked me up and we had fun and he dropped me back off.

It turned out well for me, so hopefully it will for you. But still, get his information and give it to someone you trust just in case.

 

[Letenant]

The basic comments so far are common sense. Do you want to do more than talk? You can *always* say no, just try to be polite about it

Aso to the 'checking out and in' with a friend, good idea if you're going. If he's coming to you, something similar can work. Just remember to check back in.

One more thing.. you indicated you've used toys before? Going to the bathroom before things can remove something some get anxious about. If you're really in to your tail, even an enema might feel good.

Let us know how you feel about things after?

*bearhug*
Rob

 

[tommyj]

Good luck & let us know

 

[Chris1984]

Anxious to see how this one went

 

[G-Lexington]

It's not uncommon for guys to have their "first time" via online hook up, and it's not uncommon for them to hook up with an older guy.

Lex

 

[theFallenGod]

if this is your first time why jump into it with an online hook-up?

Might I suggest actually going out with this guy and having a real date to see if you guys are compatible....

Your first time isn't going to be the best especially if its with someone random....

 

[Ohiospeedo]

No update? Maybe had too good of a time?

 

[luvthissite]

have a coffee, chat, and say bye until next time. make it clear that nothing is gonna happen on the first encounter. take it easy, slow and build up to a good climax after a few meetings. if you don't like the guy, you won't have gotten him all worked up. have fun.

 

[youngnihilist]

Why do guys looking for online hookups go for older guys so much? Hell, I could do just as well as a grandpa and I'm the same age as the kids.

 

[G-Lexington]

>>>Why do guys looking for online hookups go for older guys so much? Hell, I could do just as well as a grandpa and I'm the same age as the kids.

That's what you think, whippersnapper. Don't make me brain ya with my walker.

Lex

 

[roguehunter]

im only interested in older men, and i cant explain why. i honestly only find men 45+ sexually attractive, is this weird. most likley, but however you find it weird, ive been through that and got over it. i like older guys and im over caring about it, why do people get creeped out when i go out with someone older, i didnt choose to like older men, that chose me. and i wouldnt want anything different.

let us know about how your date went. ive met someone off that site, and im slowly falling madly in love with him. i never thought i could say that about anyone, but i cant see myself without him, and its great. hope you have a ball, because i know i did.

 

[drp4000]

Hey, us older guys can still get it up and get it really hard when needed. The good thing about older guys is we take longer to get-off and we can ride an ass for a long time. Plus, we really appreciate sex with younger guys. I hope you have a good date. Please post an update here.

Is longer really better? I'm young and can go forever, but I wear everyone out. I've been with a lot of guys and I'm kinda wondering about gang bangs. If one guy can take several fucking him, why can't I find one that can take me. I've been with some pretty experienced guys, but they get sore or tired and want to stop.

It depends on what's going on in my head.

 

[billybob109]

Personally i would stay away from him.. He is to old and creepy..

 

[Martkell2007]

Silverdaddies? ew