The Original Gay Porn Community - Free Gay Movies and Photos, Gay Porn Site Reviews and Adult Gay Forums

  • Welcome To Just Us Boys - The World's Largest Gay Message Board Community

    In order to comply with recent US Supreme Court rulings regarding adult content, we will be making changes in the future to require that you log into your account to view adult content on the site.
    If you do not have an account, please register.
    REGISTER HERE - 100% FREE / We Will Never Sell Your Info

    To register, turn off your VPN; you can re-enable the VPN after registration. You must maintain an active email address on your account: disposable email addresses cannot be used to register.

  • Hi Guest - Did you know?
    Hot Topics is a Safe for Work (SFW) forum.

So, last night

winterknight

winterknight

Pure in Heart
Joined
Sep 17, 2005
Posts
7,493
Reaction score
1
Points
0
Location
Suffolk
Website
www.goldeneyes.org.uk
I'm afraid I spent most of the night hugging a pillar :(

I dunno. The club wasn't great, but it's the best Ipswich has to offer. Hell, it's the ONLY gay place Ipswich has to offer. But unless someone actually physically drags me out on to the dance floor I'm a complete wallflower. And no-one that I was with was prepared to do that, so I just did my usual thing of feeling like a third wheel all evening ](*,) And seeing other people enjoy themselves when I'm not just makes me even more miserable.

By midnight I just wanted to go home, but I forced myself to stick it out until 1.30 when the guy who invited me left. And then I went home, alone, and spent more money on a taxi to get me there than I had on drinks all evening.

I dunno. Every bone in my body told me I ought to be enjoying it, but I simply wasn't :cry:

And the fact that I got a text message at 3am from my host saying "hey, I'm getting a blowjob" - complete with video to prove it - didn't help matters either](*,)

Any thoughts, anyone?
 
When you get bored, just have another shot...

Repeat until you are not bored
 
Isn't this essentailly the same result evey time you go out?

What does your therapist have to say about your lack of being able to enjoy yourself?
 
Exactly as live says...

I'm under 21, and the only entertaining things that happen around here happen in bars (i.e. bands and such), so I'm stuck going to house parties with people who can't hold their liquor and horrible music.
 
Oh, I'm gonna keep trying. It's part of the reason I seem to have taken on part of the job of getting a UK meet organized (AGAIN).

But it's a long, slow, HORRIBLE process :(
 
Socializing doesn't come naturally to everyone. You have to work at it. You need to be around people in social settings on a frequent basis. Clubbing can be a high pressure situation. There are expectations. It's more like a hunting environment.

Maybe a casual get together like you're trying to line up would be a good thing!
 
For what its worth - the guy who sent you the text sounds like a jerk. Why would anyone send that to anyone least of all someone who feels left out at the best of times.

That was insensitive of him and makes me angry :grrr:

But on the plus side you are still planning to keep trying and from where I am sitting that in itself seems a huge leap forward with you.

When we get to this JUB meet - I will be sure to drag you up on the dance floor ..|
 
Pringle said:
For what its worth - the guy who sent you the text sounds like a jerk. Why would anyone send that to anyone least of all someone who feels left out at the best of times.

That was insensitive of him and makes me angry :grrr:
Click to expand...

Oh, he's a nice guy really. he's just also the world's biggest purveyor of phone porn.

And to be fair, other people did warn me that stuff like that might happen when I gave him my number.
 
winterknight said:
And the fact that I got a text message at 3am from my host saying "hey, I'm getting a blowjob" - complete with video to prove it - didn't help matters either](*,)

Any thoughts, anyone?
Click to expand...

Well, if he is that open why don't u give him a blow job.
 
Erm I am sure some people would love to get that stuff but a FRIEND doesn't intentionally try to make another FRIEND feel bad.

And if he knows you at all he would appreciate this was a dumb ass thing to do.

You seem to have taken it better than I would have done - I would have sent a text back telling him I hope he gets his dick bitten off - but then I am just a bitch :rolleyes:
 
If you could get up to Liverpool, i'd take you out to nice places with my boyfriend (you wouldn't be a third wheel).

I don't much like dancing or clubs but if that's what you think you would like to do then I would make an exception.

I think it just sounds to me like you need a good friend in life. EVERYONE does.

(*8*)
 
winterknight said:
nobody really knows me that well, pringle.
Click to expand...

This is true - but I would know not to send someone that kind of stuff unless I knew it would be well received (well not even then - but you get the point)

You should so work on opening up another gay place in Ipswich :D

You can call it "Winter's Night" ;) - and we could have our UK meet up there :cool:
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top