So my bf

[bleedlikeme]

Okay, ive been with this guy for about 10 weeks now.
I knew he still had his grindr account so I decided to install it.
He gotta annoyed and told me to delete it which I did.
But then I reinstalled it, and saw he had uploaded a pic of himself where u could you see his underwear.
I'm like "wtf is going on you tell me to delete my profile and yet you have a pic of your underwear on there".
His response "oh it's cropped you can't see anything" - BAD ANSWER.
He was then like "I didn't realise, sorry" and changed it.

Needless to say I'm still pissed - how can he have such double standards.
He spends more time on grindr than what he does hanging out with me.

I think I deserve to be treated better than this.
What do I do?

 

[sixthson]

I don't know what grindr is but it really doesn't matter because after only 10 weeks of dating, he is spending more time there than with you. The handwriting is on the wall.
Do you want to wait for a year or two before you read it?

 

[TX-Beau]

Leave. If you aren't getting what you want, you told him, he ignored you. walk away.

 

[Seasoned]

The only person you can change is yourself. I'm concerned that you reported that he told you to delete your grindr account. Your not his child. Boyfriends ask, not tell. He's in control and that is not a good sign at 10 weeks.

 

[Nomenclature]

I don't know what grindr is

If I understand correctly, it's an iPhone app that gay men used to post sexy pics of themselves and hook up with local guys.


I don't understand why a guy would have a use for that kind of site if he was in a relationship.

 

[GhostPhoenix]

Here's what a google search turned up. Very interesting.


http://www.grindr.com/Grindr_iPhone_App/What_is_Grindr.html

 

[KaraBulut]

I think I deserve to be treated better than this.
What do I do?

You already know what to do. The question is whether you'll do it.

While you're dumping him, also dump the iPhone and all the apps. Enjoy real life while you can. You can go back to the virtual world when you're old and gray and nodding in front of the little glowing blue screen.

 

[rareboy]

You already know what to do. The question is whether you'll do it.

While you're dumping him, also dump the iPhone and all the apps. Enjoy real life while you can. You can go back to the virtual world when you're old and gray and nodding in front of the little glowing blue screen.

Couldn't say it better.