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So so weird.....

get him drunk again :p, and remember not to drink too much yourself (lol)
just joking :p
 
Weedme18 said:
Oh yeah, I forgot to mention that when it's just me and him alone he is really shy, my gay friend told me that if he did like me then he most likely wouldn't tell me (my gay friend has known him a little longer than I have) because for one he is shy and for two he is only out to me and him.

I don't know if I want to put the effort into another guy like this, one who isn't out yet and in the process I could fall really hard and just end up hurt. Advice will be appreciated.

Peace out.
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Get close to him without the intention of dating. No expectations, just befriend him. Once that mutual understanding is met...then proceed in moving further.
 
Just work on friendship with him first. He will become less shy as he feels more comfortable with you.
 
BTW, if that's you in your avatar, whoever you choose to date is lucky!
 
Keep one other thing in mind though...if you don't take the risk of getting hurt, you may lose the right one.
 
Ditch the high school drama and talk to him. Say something like "I heard X told you to stay away from me. She's my ex for a reason and she doesn't dictate who you hang out with."

Next you need to talk to your ex and tell her to mind her own business. Make sure she is clear on the fact that she is an ex and will always be an ex.

Only you can decide if you want to pursue anything with a guy who is bi and not out.
 
Just let him know you're interested. "Next time you feel like hooking up with a guy, definitely give me a call, OK?" And then just leave it at that. Don't bring it up again. No pressure. He'll know. :)

Lex
 
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