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subfer1

subfer1

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I had found a guy who I thought was great, but as weeks progressed I realized he was very dependent on his friends, so he wouldn't go out sometimes and make up some excuse for it, then I'd realize he had gone out with them. It got to the point when one of his friends, who happens to be a seventeen year old, started trying to know every single thing we did and know everything she could from me, so I told her to back off. Then I had a talk with him and he got angry because I was in no place to mistreat his friend, he didn't care that she was nosing around, he only cared that I was mad at her and was worried that I had been mean to her. Then he talked to her and after that, he never spoke to me again. 2 days ago, I found out through facebook that he was looking for hook ups, had uploaded half naked pictures of himself and that he appeared as single. Great fucking way to end the year. ](*,)
 
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I had found a guy who I thought was great, but as weeks progressed I realized he was very dependent on his friends, so he wouldn't go out sometimes and make up some excuse for it, then I'd realize he had gone out with them. It got to the point when one of his friends, who happens to be a seventeen year old, started trying to know every single thing we did and know everything she could from me, so I told her to back off. Then I had a talk with him and he got angry because I was in no place to mistreat his friend, he didn't care that she was nosing around, he only cared that I was mad at her and was worried that I had been mean to her. Then he talked to her and after that, he never spoke to me again. 2 days ago, I found out through facebook that he was looking for hook ups, had uploaded half naked pictures of himself and that he appeared as single. Great fucking way to end the year. ](*,)
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Sorry man but clearly this jerk off doesn't feel the same way about you as you did about him. Cut him out of your life and move on and put this down to experience. This guy clearly saw you as a hook up. If that's not what you want then be aware of the above signs when you get involved again so you can avoid ending up in the same situation. Good luck man.
 
hey man I just checked out your pics too. I love the main one on your page with the new hair cut. You're freaking gorgeous man! Screw that jerk off who messed you around, you should be beating guys off with a stick!
 
awww everything happens for a reason. Like the saying --people come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. Its sad but true but then again love yourself and try to go on without him and then you will def. find someone who will truly value you. If he was trying to hook up with other guys --it was best that you knew about it earlier before you got deeper into him or got something because of his selfishness. Trust me...I am still thinking of my ex who broke up with me over the phone months ago because it was a sin to be with me. We no longer speak...as much as it sucks...I am stronger and have been out there dating. Good luck man!
 
Sorry to hear this but it's happened to everybody! The honeymoon is over and you see them for who they REALLY are. Sucks but better to find out now than years later.
 
I know you guys are right, I go to a psychologist at school, more to talk things out with her than to therapy itself, and I went to tell her what happened the day I argued with his friend and she said: 1. she's a little ho with an attitude and 2. he doesn't seem to down to earth, so after that I guarded my feelings, to be honest I am more angry than feeling sorry, I liked him and all but I kind of saw it coming. Thank you for the nice comments, I just feel like I won't open up that easily now, I had done so with him and it kinda hurt. And btw, I don't have that haircut from my profile anymore, I have shoulder lenght wavy hair now :P LOL should update that.
 
The dude's a jerk. But be careful in that no matter how right you are, you will not be more right than some guys' best friends. That's just how it is for some guys. And if that friend is a bitch, then you're sol.
 
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I had found a guy who I thought was great, but as weeks progressed I realized he was very dependent on his friends, so he wouldn't go out sometimes and make up some excuse for it, then I'd realize he had gone out with them. It got to the point when one of his friends, who happens to be a seventeen year old, started trying to know every single thing we did and know everything she could from me, so I told her to back off. Then I had a talk with him and he got angry because I was in no place to mistreat his friend, he didn't care that she was nosing around, he only cared that I was mad at her and was worried that I had been mean to her. Then he talked to her and after that, he never spoke to me again. 2 days ago, I found out through facebook that he was looking for hook ups, had uploaded half naked pictures of himself and that he appeared as single. Great fucking way to end the year. ](*,)
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For me, that's a GREAT WAY to end the year! :gogirl:

Now you know what type of shit you don't want to have to deal with in the upcoming year! ..|

Make it happen! (*8*)
 
Thanks, I know now that I don'twant nor need shit like his behavior from anyone, but it is kind of frustrating to think of all the time I invested in being with him, how I rearranged my schedule so I could see him and all for the time we lasted. Even worse, his birthday was yesterday (the 12th) and I am pretty much sure that he was calling me like at 1am after I went to bed on friday, I kept answering and whoever it was would hang up, but they would call back shortly, I don't know why, I knew it was him, so on the third call I just said his name and told him to let me sleep and then they stopped calling (I'm pretty much sure it was him). I'm feeling kind of bummed lately, but I know I shouldn't... It's weird...
 
We've all been in that situation before; where the person we think likes us alot more than we actually believe. Unrequited love is something that one never "learns to deal with". At the same time, pursuing a pipe dream will lead us nowhere.

One lesson I have learned about relationships is to ask yourself these two questions at the end of each week.

1. "How many times have I initiated contact with him over this week?"

2. "How many times has he intiated contact with me over this week?"

If any of these numbers is 0 or 1(without a very good justifiable reason), it's time to move on.
 
hey luis- i'm sorry that things turned out the way that they did but there is something to learn from all of this. at least now you know what you're comfortable with and what you're willing to compromise on. don't give up hope because someone as good as you (and cute as hell i might add) will bounce back.
 
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