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so there is this guy.

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just felt like saying a few things...

so there is this guy, who i dont mind being around with.
but he can be a bit annoying sometimes, especially his lack of control of anger, and he takes everything really badly.

anyways, i have communicated with him over myspace, there was this one time, there was a photo of himself posted, half naked. it wasnt just a casual photo at the beach or something, but instead of it was a picture like with perfect lighting, and perfectly rendered, features him with his eye closed, falls into the artistic direction i guess, but he is WAY too young to be posting those kind of photos in public, and when i say young, i do mean YOUNG.
its kind of similar to a girl posting a photo of herself with a bra or something, its not ok in my opinion.

so out of curiosity, i asked him about the picture. and he told me that he showed it because his gay friends wanted to see it(which he can just simply send it to them, instead of putting it as a display picture so everyone can see). but i think friends should not show each other pictures of themselves without clothing. then he got really upset and frustrated and told me to get a life. i did not say anything offensive at all, seriously. btw he doesnt know i am gay.

so now he is all mad and upset with me, and i am pretty sure he is gay, from this incident, and his regular behavior. its pretty obvious.

but what bugs me from all of this is that, he is can become a bad representation of gays i think, his ability to turn everything dramatic, his feminine behavior, lack of control of his anger.
im just scared that people are gonna think that all gays are like him(he is a bit unlikable)
 
Gee, I wish I could say I haven't met gay men like that but...I have. You know, we are made up of all kinds of people and he is just one slice of the pie. Let people think what they will.

As for the pics, well, check out some of the galleries here. None of us are very shy. :rolleyes:
 
I don't see the big deal ... You cannot dictate your beliefs on others .. and why be so shy ? If this was not a Nude pic ... don't sweat it .
You need to apologize to this guy for interfering in HIS life ... and then try to explain your thoughts / ideas , so he will understand you a little better .
 
You need to apologize to this guy for interfering in HIS life

wait, why?....:confused:
i personally do not think apologizing is necessary for taking interest in some one else's public profile, if thats the case, you are taking interest in my life through the thread i publicly posted right now.
 
He sounds like a perfectly normal teenager. Don't expect a 14 year old to behave rationally or to be able to make connections between current behaviour and future consequences.
 
Hey Tea....

You should just stick to your own knitting. You don't need to be the policeman for the actions of others, only your own.

...and why should you care if his feminity and drama queen antics give a bad name to homosexuals. God knows he'll have more than enough competition and not just from gay guys either.

While you may think that you are a superior (more acceptable) representation of gay, get over it.
 
You should just stick to your own knitting. You don't need to be the policeman for the actions of others, only your own

ok... i dont want to sound rude or offensive or anything, but arent you kind of taking interest in my actions as well instead of your own?

i mean, if you giving out advice, why not follow it first?

and again, i am not intending to sound offensive or rude at all.

He sounds like a perfectly normal teenager. Don't expect a 14 year old to behave rationally or to be able to make connections between current behaviour and future consequences.

its just that in MY opinion, friends should not show each other photos of themselves without clothes, and thats all i said to him, its not like i gave him a whole lesson on how to survive as a teen on the internet or something.

and in my opinion if a normal 14 year old is taught and educated properly, he/she will not post pictures of themselves without clothing on the internet, so it is quite possible for a teenager to make connections between current behavior and future consequences, when i was 14, i would never have posted pictures of myself without clothes in public(unless it was like a casual photo on the beach or something)
 
I don't see the big deal ... You cannot dictate your beliefs on others .. and why be so shy ? If this was not a Nude pic ... don't sweat it .
You need to apologize to this guy for interfering in HIS life ... and then try to explain your thoughts / ideas , so he will understand you a little better .

I think that's good advice...!
 
hey tea

is this guy really 14? like how old are you. he seems 2 be kind of young for you? he's got a lot to learn I think

gw

im graduating this year, i know him through the student council committee, and i am not interested in him, i just came across to him on the internet.
 
ok... i dont want to sound rude or offensive or anything, but arent you kind of taking interest in my actions as well instead of your own?

i mean, if you giving out advice, why not follow it first?

and again, i am not intending to sound offensive or rude at all.




B-But...you posted a thread asking for advice...That sounds like an invitation to butt in...
 
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