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So there's this guy....

If you have mutual friends you can just use that as en excuse. And if you don't, well, he probably still won't find it creepy since he doesn't know you're gay. I've had complete randos add me and I don't think anything of it.

If he DOES read more into it than that then he probably is gay, and he'll likely be reading very good things into it.
 
No, why would he think that? Sometimes even random people add each other all the time.
Just do something like what I did. I msged him first before I added him. I was like ''are you....from math class?''. He replied and THEN i added him.
It won't be awkward -- just go for it.
 
friendlyboy90 said:
No, why would he think that? Sometimes even random people add each other all the time.
Just do something like what I did. I msged him first before I added him. I was like ''are you....from math class?''. He replied and THEN i added him.
It won't be awkward -- just go for it.
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It makes sense but I have a very good reason for not adding him on facebook
 
Fair enough. Don't do anything you don't feel comfortable doing. Your gut instinct is almost always right.
 
SilverWolf said:
When did I ask him 3 times if he's gay?. He denied it 3 times when talking about kissing other men
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I reply what if he ends up kissing a guy? He replies he doesn't care its just for fun and he would still do it... Well I said something that I cannot remember but he replies he's not gay. I say every gay man in theater says that. He just smiles. I say if your gay I don't mean to offend or anything. He just smiles and laughs. He's not gay he says.
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So you didn't ask him 3 times but he denied being gay 3 times? But you inferred it more than once and how is that different?

Don't you think it's creepy that you don't know this guy all that well and you're joking about his sexuality? Meanwhile, if he joked with you, you'll probably said what he said.

Sounds like you have the situation under control. I was just wondering.
 
spencer said:
So you didn't ask him 3 times but he denied being gay 3 times? But you inferred it more than once and how is that different?

Don't you think it's creepy that you don't know this guy all that well and you're joking about his sexuality? Meanwhile, if he joked with you, you'll probably said what he said.

Sounds like you have the situation under control. I was just wondering.
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I think its odd a guy would use a poster to as an excuse to joke about kissing guys with someone he barely knows so yeah my desire for him to be gay/bi kinda made me more focused on his sexuality than I would be otherwise
 
If there was an ad in the back of a magazine for girls to do porn and I told my buddy, hey I'd like to do porn. (if he didn't know I was gay) He wouldn't infer that I was thinking I was going to the girl doing porn with men.

He was focusing on being on stage and kissing and being on stage half naked with other women being half naked.

He was placing himself on stage with women. You were placing him on stage for the part on the board and that's why you brought it up. I don't think it was as odd as your questions. He just didn't say, I was talking about being half naked on stage doing a love scene, not making out with men. Probably cause he didn't get what you were even suggesting or why you thought it was odd when he said what he said.
 
spencer said:
If there was an ad in the back of a magazine for girls to do porn and I told my buddy, hey I'd like to do porn. (if he didn't know I was gay) He wouldn't infer that I was thinking I was going to the girl doing porn with men.

He was focusing on being on stage and kissing and being on stage half naked with other women being half naked.

He was placing himself on stage with women. You were placing him on stage for the part on the board and that's why you brought it up. I don't think it was as odd as your questions. He just didn't say, I was talking about being half naked on stage doing a love scene, not being making out with women. Probably cause he didn't get what you were even suggesting or why you thought it was odd when he said what he said.
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Well thanks for killing my fantasy

No that makes sense
 
looseliam said:
Good response or not, a man that can make you laugh is a keeper - friend or otherwise.

Get to know him, and take it from there.
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I agree with this guy. Get to know him better and if he isnt gay, youll have a great friend to hang with and you can never have enough of those!
 
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