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So... what is a date?

BlueLantern

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Well. I hope this don't turns in another hit-and-run thread >.<

essencially, the thing is this, I meet a guy on-line that turns out to live nearby (really nearby) and we have a lot in common (like a again, REALLY a lot, not only in things we like, there is several coincidences too).

Anyway, he sort of agreed in go eat ice cream and talk this weekend (no specifics in the exact time).... and I am not sure if it is sort of a date >.<

Not sure what signs I should look for here. Today he was talking about how he doesn't like orgy that some os his friends are going to do (and he actually said that he felt disgusted by the concept) and how he would rather prefer to stay on-line and chat with me like he did.

Any help?
 
Didn't realize that you had got to the sex part already!! Tho I assume he is getting ahead of himself. He either agreed or he didn't agree to meet for Ice-Cream. If you go for Ice-Cream its a date if he sends it over by Courier then he has more money than sense.

If he just wants to stay on line and chat I wouldn't classify that as a date. A date to me would be going out of your way to enjoy someone elses company sharing and enjoying where life takes you.
 
he sort of agreed in go eat ice cream and talk this weekend (no specifics in the exact time)
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Not a date yet. Even when you meet to eat ice cream... not a date yet. At the moment, it sounds more like a casual and even somewhat grudging time-out from the safety of his sexless interweb fantasy life. If one of you picks up the tab, then it is closer to being a date. If you immediately fall in love, or proceed to go back to his place or your place and have hot monkey sex for the next three days, you can call it your first date. But if you bore the crap out of one another and then never see one another or bother to continue the virtual on-line 'relationship' you currently have, then it wasn't a date.
 
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I am not sure if I should open a different thread about this...

...but the guy says that he don't want sex... like at all, something about a former boyfriend trauma, I din't had a chance to ask more.

strangely, it doesn't bother too much. I like him, and can like him as a friend even if it is a "special" friend.

I also need to find out what "sex" is to him >.<

part of me is paranoid... I can't avoid thinking that he is not atracted to me or that this all a practical joke.
 
part of me is paranoid... I can't avoid thinking that ... this all a practical joke.
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Can't disagree with you there.
 
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