Okay so last night i was at this party and one of my friends who i always got a vibe from, that he was bi, left to stay the night at my house we were pretty drunk. Well we got to my house and went to bed and just talked for a while no one knows im am bi, so later in the night he rolls over and starts feeling me up. I ended up blowing him. After that we went to sleep, the next morning we woke up and acted like nothing ever happened. So know i dont know what to do i want to hook up with him again but how do i go at it
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so what now
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I'd say you both know the score, so just pick up the phone and ask him.
Just get drunk again and let him stay at your place again!!
It will work for now, but sort things out before both of you end up alcoholics (after 3-4 times i mean). If next time you will try it and he doesnt want to, then he just tried it once.
You both know you both are interested in men. That's a given. It matters not that you were "sleeping" or "drunk." He knows you're into guys as much as you know he is.
Whether he's willing to discuss this, or act on it, while awake and sober is another thing. If you're interested in hooking up with him, ask him and be direct. If he refuses, then move on. If he denies anything happened, or "doesn't remember it" then move on because he's not willing to deal with it and he'll be a head-case that you don't need to fool with.
Good luck!
Whether he's willing to discuss this, or act on it, while awake and sober is another thing. If you're interested in hooking up with him, ask him and be direct. If he refuses, then move on. If he denies anything happened, or "doesn't remember it" then move on because he's not willing to deal with it and he'll be a head-case that you don't need to fool with.
Good luck!
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While the three beer queer approach works for some guys, it is emotionally exhausting after awhile, particularly if the next time you see him he's got some beaver draped over his arm and blows you off instead of...well you know.
It is the trouble with being bi though, isn't it? The two of you likely will never be able to be honest with one another.
Eagle gave you all the advice you need.
It is the trouble with being bi though, isn't it? The two of you likely will never be able to be honest with one another.
Eagle gave you all the advice you need.
I have to agree the Beer approach is a real pain and emotionally exhausting but as an ice breaker it would work for a while at some point you will need to talk.
So you now have a couple of choices one get him drunk and have some fun or two talk to him about it then have some fun.
rareboy is probably right he would never admit it
So you now have a couple of choices one get him drunk and have some fun or two talk to him about it then have some fun.
rareboy is probably right he would never admit it
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Jesus the games people play.
1. You're not out, where do you think this is headed no matter how he feels about it.
2. Since it took beer for him to grope you in the dark, and since he's not out - nor indeed do you even have a confirmation he wants more - do you honestly think he's a good prospect for an emotional investment? Lust is not love, or even affection, he got off, then you got out, and now he doesn't want to remember it. What does that tell you.
3. Settle for the drunken fumbling and reconcile yourself to the knowledge that that's all you're ever going to get.
OR:
4. Be a man, come out, put yourself in a position where you're not a dirty little secret, and no one else is yours. Find a target rich environment, and save yourself any further need to make another thread like this one, and the thousands of others on here just like it.
1. You're not out, where do you think this is headed no matter how he feels about it.
2. Since it took beer for him to grope you in the dark, and since he's not out - nor indeed do you even have a confirmation he wants more - do you honestly think he's a good prospect for an emotional investment? Lust is not love, or even affection, he got off, then you got out, and now he doesn't want to remember it. What does that tell you.
3. Settle for the drunken fumbling and reconcile yourself to the knowledge that that's all you're ever going to get.
OR:
4. Be a man, come out, put yourself in a position where you're not a dirty little secret, and no one else is yours. Find a target rich environment, and save yourself any further need to make another thread like this one, and the thousands of others on here just like it.
