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Hey all. So I'm a bi-curious guy from NY, have never had any experience with guys but have been curious for a while. Posting on this site (posted in the showoff section) has been my first foray into anything, and although I'd like to experiment with a guy, I'm not really sure where to start. I'm seeing a girl and don't want anyone to find out, so I can't just go out and meet guys. Is craigslist safe? Any other options for me?
 
I grew up in an age where we did not have all of the different types of media site. I just met guys in clubs or day to day life. I like meeting people face to face. More trust that way.
 
i meet people on adam4adam. works well enough. but use common sense and dont meet anyone if you feel like they are not who they say they are.
 
Quacktastic said:
You think this an okay thing to do behind your girlfriend's back?
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That's a fair point. We've only been seeing each other for a few weeks and nothing "official," so I wouldn't really consider her my girlfriend or consider this cheating on her.
 
smileyweirdo1 said:
That's a fair point. We've only been seeing each other for a few weeks and nothing "official," so I wouldn't really consider her my girlfriend or consider this cheating on her.
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Fair enough. Many married men seek men from hookups, so that's what sprung to mind. With you it is obviously fine.
 
I'm in agreement with BillyT.

While I didn't grow up in his time, I think meeting someone face to face is preferred.
To take it further, from my own experience, "experimenting", especially for the first time, should be done with someone you are completely comfortable with and can trust implicitly.

A very close friend is ideal, but there are instances in certain situations anywhere really, where you can just get a sense for a dude and if he'd be up for some new experiences. Subtly and discretion are obviously key, but trust is a huge second. Start talking to dudes wherever you go, ones that catch your eye. If they are giving you a second look or giving you the same look your fighting not to give off as you glance at them, you pretty much know that with some good casual conversation, a little beer and possibly some porn (or sports) you can get the ball(s) rolling. PUN very much intended.

Think of it this way, it's like jacking off, only you're not alone.
 
Go to a gay club to meet up with gay guys.
 
Where are you from? If you are from upstate near the Albany area you could always check out River Street Club. I have found that Bathhouses are a good place to go, you can see lots of hot action and if you choose to participate you can. You can sit around nude. Generally if you say no they walk away. Check out bathhouseaddict.com for etiquette and FAQ's. I think there is a second club in that area as well. The other option is certainly gay bars as discussed. Once the weather is nicer there are nude beaches and swimming areas, again, depending where you live.
 
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