So WHY do straight guys do IT?

[neruda]

Fuck for the camera?
I mean - it could hurt, be dangerous and also be very embarrasing before a girldfriend.
Is it ONLY money .... or is there a deeper self fulfilment thing?
I mean they REALLY do seem to enjoy it dont they?

 

[treanir]

I think he's talking about gay-for-pay sites.

Why do those straight guys do it? My guess is because they're not straight. And don't have girlfriends.

 

[SilverRRCloud]

Ever0 of these guys will have an answer.

It pays off more than flippin' the burgers.

They were 'suddenly short of dough' (and someone was about to collect).

They always wanted to try, but never had a chance.

They always wanted to do the porn. Here was an opening. (Enjoy the pun, if you wish.)

It is really up to you, to buy their stories or not.

IMHO, str8 dudes do not mess around with other dudes and, if they choose to experiment, which many do at some point, they would make sure that no one around is having a full size camera crew recording the event for posterity and general public joy.

A str8 dude is not only str8 because he screws girls. He defines his sexuality as not to include other males in his sexual escapades. It is only one half of what you do, and the other half of your being str8 is what you do not, if you have any control of the situation, you are in.

The rest is marketing and web dollars.

SC

 

[b_o_n_n_i_e]

because they're horny as hell and would do anything for money?

so much for being straight...

 

[Orlandude]

I think he's talking about gay-for-pay sites.

Why do those straight guys do it? My guess is because they're not straight. And don't have girlfriends.

I tend to agree. It's all web "marketing" and all about $$$

 

[Fire]

I tend to agree. It's all web "marketing" and all about $$$

Uh, no. The guys on on websites you're talking about are straight, if they weren't they wouldn't say things like, "Gee, I sure hope my girlfriend never finds out about this, heh heh!" and "Shit, dude, you give better blowjobs than my girlfriend *wink wink*" every minute or so while fucking, simpering to themselves and half-holding back a chuckle like no one is watching.

Plus if they don't touch the other guy's dick, that means they're straight, but touching another guys dick doesn't necessarily mean they're gay, I mean, I can touch minge all I want and it's not going to make me straight like the ancient curse of some mummy's cursed monkey's paw.

 

[quasar]

I wonder if straight guys have the same conversation about women who do lesbian scenes? Are they 'gay for pay'?

I've never understood why there is this obssession about these guys' sexuality. Why is it hard for us to believe that they can give and receive a blowjob, get screwed and still be straight. A straight friend of mine, loves being screwed - with a dick or a dildo - and loves receiving a blowjob, but it's the sensation that he likes, it's not a physical attraction to me that is turning him on. He gives blowjobs, not because he likes it, but because he feels he should return the favour. He certainly doesn't get turned on by gay porn!

I also think that there are a lot of straight men who are extremely comfortable with their sexuality and have finally realised (as women have done for years) that their body can be sold as a commodity to the highest bidder.

And given a choice between watching a gay muscle mary who sounds like he's swallowed helium pretending to be a 'frat dude', or the real thing - I know what I'd prefer.

But then I also believe bisexuality to be a true sexuality, so I what do I know...

 

[treanir]

The guys on on websites you're talking about are straight, if they weren't they wouldn't say things like, "Gee, I sure hope my girlfriend never finds out about this, heh heh!" and "Shit, dude, you give better blowjobs than my girlfriend *wink wink*" every minute or so while fucking, simpering to themselves and half-holding back a chuckle like no one is watching.

I do hope you're being sarcastic.

If not, consider this: I was in a play once where I had to speak out my love for yes, a girl. And I'm g-a-y. So why wouldn't those 'gay-for-pay' guys be acting?

 

[IBFree-Key]

I think because they always wanted to try it and getting paid to do it is an added bonus and/or they really need money quick, fast and in a hurry.

 

[Zeremonie]

Men willing to have sex with men for money and on camera no less does not equal straight for me. Bisexual maybe. Omnisexual maybe. But not straight.

 

[UrbanBOYS]

They are definitly Bisexual.

 

[Soilwork]

ok.. this is THE last time I get into this arguement.

Many of the guys don't get off on the sex... they get off on the attention. they get off on the fact that people are watching them have sex.

THAT is the thrill for them, and they dont' care if it's with men or with women.

For these guys that I like to call the "Type P Personality", the turn-on for them is the fact that people are seeing them naked and having sex.. they're being watched.. they're being loved and admired.

SURE, it's kinda narcissisitic... but that's the way it is.

yes, some are bi.. some of those guys you see on those "GAY FOR PAY" sites and gay and out in real life.

But the straight guys who do it do it for the thrill of being a porn star.

 

[lonestar]

I really don't think the "str8" guys on the pay sites are str8. I think they are just gays in search for some money.

It's hard for me to believe str8 guys would let another guy fuck them on cam, for some bucks.

 

[dannybye]

Im married with two sons my wife and I have not had sex in 4 yrs and IM attracted to guys am I straight.

 

[pjlikesporn]

Before I started sleeping with guys, I had had sex several times with six different women. I wasn't even paid for it. Does that make me not gay?

 

[D-Base]

Huge deal of those supposedly str8 guys aren't straight at all...

 

[lonestar]

Im married with two sons my wife and I have not had sex in 4 yrs and IM attracted to guys am I straight.

Married, with children, and you're attracted to guys, but you're straight?

 

[kev]

I don't see this as a gay, straight, or bi issue...why does anyone do it?

 

[slobone]

Oh, Jeez, can we make a sticky regarding the fact that being straight (or gay) isn't defined by sexual contact, it's about sexual ATTRACTION.

Yeah, really. Some of these guys are narcissists and like all the attention. Some of them are just naturally horny and curious, have a relaxed attitude about sex, and don't have any hangups worrying about what people think of them. No doubt some have active sex lives with women and some don't.

I think the money is the least likely explanation. First of all, we're not really talking about huge bucks on these sites, not even the kind of money professional gay porn stars make, and even they don't make all that much.

If you go on awolmarines.com, for example, which has had hundreds of straight guys jerking off, getting blowjobs, or fucking, including no doubt some actual Marines, you're lucky if you get $100.

And by the way, the guys that run these sites, like Dirk Yates, Dink Flamingo, Pat & Sam & etc., even the aforesaid Bobby Garcia, Matt from Straight College Men, are really good at what they do, creating an atmosphere where guys get really turned on at the idea of showing off for the camera.

So that's why.

 

[natedogg323]

I wonder if straight guys have the same conversation about women who do lesbian scenes? Are they 'gay for pay'?

I've never understood why there is this obssession about these guys' sexuality. Why is it hard for us to believe that they can give and receive a blowjob, get screwed and still be straight. A straight friend of mine, loves being screwed - with a dick or a dildo - and loves receiving a blowjob, but it's the sensation that he likes, it's not a physical attraction to me that is turning him on. He gives blowjobs, not because he likes it, but because he feels he should return the favour. He certainly doesn't get turned on by gay porn!

I also think that there are a lot of straight men who are extremely comfortable with their sexuality and have finally realised (as women have done for years) that their body can be sold as a commodity to the highest bidder.

And given a choice between watching a gay muscle mary who sounds like he's swallowed helium pretending to be a 'frat dude', or the real thing - I know what I'd prefer.

But then I also believe bisexuality to be a true sexuality, so I what do I know...

Amazing fuckin post. That is so fuckin right on!!!