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so would you do it?

  • Thread starter Thread starter GL
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so would you do it?

  • heck yeah!

    Votes: 5 15.2%

  • gosh no.

    Votes: 22 66.7%

  • i don't know...

    Votes: 6 18.2%
  • Total voters
    33
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today while wasting time on grindr i was propositioned by a really good looking guy. he made it plain that he was only looking for a fuck buddy, nothing more. me being a gay man who is not yet dead i thought, "sure. why not?"

we chatted some more but something was nagging me. i finally asked him if he was single and he dodged the question. i asked him again and he finally said he has a boyfriend and is in an ltr. i tell him thanks but no thanks. as much as i found him attractive i just didn't want to be a third wheel.

now personally i am comfortable with my decision although i wonder why i am attractive to the married/partnered/ltr guys and not nice single men? but that's neither here nor there. if you were faced with the same situation would you go with it or not?
 
No. Don't want to mess with anyone in a relationship. I wouldn't want that to happen to ME, so I won't do it to someone else.
 
why ask> would you do it?

like if you nots wants do it why ask other would ya do it?

go eat turkey now

but no worry answer as like me go forgot why ask it anyway

think it why same time chattys Kool

has great time!..|
 
I don't know; probably not, but never knowingly been with someone who was in a RL at the time.
 
I'm sure I hooked up with guys who were attached without knowing it. There seem to be a lot more preliminaries these days, so people ask all kinds of questions.

Given the climate today I probably would not. I'm a romantic. With all the back and forth chat, I'd probably start crushing and then feel shitty when I found out he was attached.
 
I wouldn't have asked the question. But, knowing he was in a relationship, I would have declined.
 
jizzeater said:
I wouldn't have asked the question. But, knowing he was in a relationship, I would have declined.
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That's what I was thinking. I wouldn't have asked the question. I would have just assumed he was single and not looking to be tied down.

What a dirty liar. [-X :badgrin:
 
No. You wouldn't have been the one cheating. I don't actually see why that makes a difference; if you had gone through with it, it would mean you'd have just had low standards.

I'd like to think I have at least enough attraction power to find someone who is either a) unattached or b) in some kind of kinky relationship where the guy's boyfriend likes to watch.. I don't want to settle for some dude skeezing around behind his boyfriend's back. Nobody needs to be that desperate.
 
Yeah, probably...he'd be the one breaking his vow or whatever, not me.
 
I wouldn't do it either. 'Treat others the way you want to be treated' always pops into my head whenever I'm contemplating doing something that could possibly hurt someone else.

Especially when it comes to monogamous relationships, :nono: to cheating with someone else.
 
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