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vegetaishott2003

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The_Pianist said:
You've found a guy you really connect with on a lot of levels but there's a problem in bed; he suffers from retarded orgasm due to meds he's on.

He can get hard, but just has trouble cumming. You've been together for a four to six weeks and he's only maybe cum once or twice, and only after REALLY working at it and it took a long time for him to get off.

How long before you, frustrated, dump him?

What?

Well of course it's a fear of mine. Why do you ask?
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Maybe there's another way you can pleasure each other.....maybe by licking nipples or by oral or even by watching str8 men fuck women.....I gotta say some of my exes loved watching str8 porn:confused:
 
Yeah i wouldnt do it either...

I mean u cant put the blame on him
 
It totally depends how HE deals with it.
If he is fine with it, I would be too.
 
I dont think you should just dump him because of a sexual defect. This could be the love or your life or something. There are many other things that could make the relationship great.
 
Sex isn't all about cumming. I could quite easily cum in about 10 minutes if I really tried but it would be no fun. Sex is better when it lasts longer anyway, I like to play for hours ..|
 
When I was bed-hopping ( !oops! ), I was with a few guys who had delayed ejaculation--I think it was due to antidepressants. It didn't bother me in the least. In fact, it was among the best of love-making sessions because it wasn't over in 10 minutes. It was very sensual and intense over sometimes an hour or more. And, it allows other sensual touches and physical expressions other than just jacking on a dick to make it cum--although that usually happened eventually. In fact, those guys taught me more about real love-making than any of the others I'd been with.

If I was still sleeping around and someone told me "I take a long time to cum" I'd probably think "oh good."
 
Vitamin B12.

Seriously.
 
The_Pianist said:
You've found a guy you really connect with on a lot of levels but there's a problem in bed; he suffers from retarded orgasm due to meds he's on.

He can get hard, but just has trouble cumming. You've been together for a four to six weeks and he's only maybe cum once or twice, and only after REALLY working at it and it took a long time for him to get off.

How long before you, frustrated, dump him?

What?

Well of course it's a fear of mine. Why do you ask?
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when I finally find a guy i connect in all levels and would potentially be my partner, this is an issue we will work together. My relationship wont solely be based on sex. That didnt work in the past.
 
It's the same with my boyfriend. I've asked him about it and he just tells me to don't worry and he doesn't mind. It bothers me a little bit because I want him to get as much out of it as I do. But it's like what others have mentioned here, if he is fine with it, then it shouldn't really be a problem for you.

Be happy that you've found someone that you care for and cares for in return. I know I sure am(*8*)
 
I have trouble getting off sometimes because of the medication I have to take.

It's never really been an issue for me or the other guy. And seeing/ making him get off is all worth it for me anyways.
 
A person is not an orgasm.

Anyone I feel strongly enough about to get sexual with is someone I want as part of my life for a good long time, like forever. So, no, loss of some aspect of sexual function isn't a reason to dump someone, IMO.
 
Ger-Ger, I'm pretty much in the same situation as you. When I was with my ex, it really seemed to bother him that I didn't always cum, and no matter how many times I reassured him that it didn't bother me, he made it clear that he wasn't pleased.

He said that it made him feel bad that I wasn't getting off, but I knew that this wasn't entirely true.

Of course, that was one of our most superficial problems, and it was certainly not the cause of our breakup.

If someone truly understands you and cares about you, then he'll understand that you both need to accept the side effects of your medications. If it's really a problem for him, then he isn't right for you.
 
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