Some gay guys are just demented

[Capchino747]

I had written a thread earlier about maybe contacting an ex for some sex but instead my bordem led to this. A female friend at work hooked me up with a guy who is an assistant manager at the food court on the 1st floor of the building where i work as an SAP Consultant. We hit it off and agreed to dinner fri. in Black Hawk Colorado (and maybe some gambling) I started disliking him when he told me he hated animals and made comments about me not eating meat plus he was a bit too girly and bragged about having a lot of money. Another thing he said was that he was sore from taking a big black Damien Kyle. I had already gotten a room as i was hoping for sex and this was a casino town so i thought what the hell- but when we started to get ready for sex i laid him on his back and he seemed to have a huge mouth and slobbed a lot and he must have been telling the truth cause i slipped in like walking thru and alley. It took so long that i had to pretend to shoot. he was so excited afterward he told me we were meant to be and said he would take care of me and i would be his house husband. I just smiled and we went to the casino where he offered to give me $5 to play and kept whispering in my ear -annoying me. So as we left one casino to try another i met a friend which asked me for my cell# and we exchanged and we parted ways when the guy im with demanded i throw away the number or he would dump my ass and my "free ride would be lost" -So i just told him that i had noticed he was sporting a few hickeys on his back and would rather not be friends or anything else but he got mad and told me he may out me at work. He then explained he made a lot of money and could help me but he expected his ass kissed (I thought i was in the twilight zone) I told him i had three dogs and didn't need to be cared for but agreed to have a few more drinks and talk. He was getting so drunk that i was concerned and asked him if he wanted the room as i had to leave but he didn't even have a car so i set to drive him home. He was shocked when he saw my car and asked me how much money i made. Told. me he was waiting for me for So long and asked to spend the night but i was done so i dropped him off at his apartment and went home to my dogs. He left me 10 VMs Sat. 31. The mutual girlfriend called me today and tried to get me to see him and then also mentioned him outing me. I think im done with her too as much as i truly loved her friendship i consider this a threat and don't like the idea of her hooking me up with this crazy. She and i are part of a group of friends (most are straight) and there could be some fallout.
Anyone ever had 1 crazy date with someone you couldn't stand. anyone have any thoughts. He has left me threats and kisses on my VMs and after only one date.
.

 

[treanir]

Wow, he's definitely got power issues.

 

[Capchino747]

i kinda feel sorry for him cause who would ever want him around as lover. i can't ever even eat at the food court cause he's nuts

 

[Capchino747]

lol! this guy was skeletal skinny - just another lost soul

 

[Swellegant]

This is exactly why we do not date people at work. Or near work. Or who even know where we work.

Don't cut off your friendship with the girl who set you up; you need her on your side to broadcast what a dick this guy is. He can out you as gay, but you can out him as a loose-sphinctered nutbag and maybe save someone else the worry that you just went through.

 

[cardshark]

Yikes! You should not have slept with him! Next time, get to know the person first.

 

[bigdaddyhorse]

I can't believe you were hoping for sex with him after the initial meeting.

 

[Capchino747]

i swear this guy don't give up -just wants to meet once more and my friend feels sorry for him. Geez what a jinx!

 

[2243]

You consider yourself demented for having sex with him?

 

[zingerz]

that is a bit twisted, but next time paragraphs.

 

[Capchino747]

sure im an ass for sleeping with him and i regret it terribly.

 

[landers]

Some people are just demented, gay or straight. Although I've had to rescue my straight friend from a lot more bad dates than she has me.

 

[Croynan]

Yikes! You should not have slept with him! Next time, get to know the person first.

for some reason these comments all seem to make sense. seems to be you got just what you bargined for and you used poor judgment in doing so.

eM.

 

[Capchino747]

he came by and spoke with my house sitter and claimed i had asked him to horse back riding. she had no idea who he was but knows the horses are my neighbors so she asked him if he would like her to call me and he left. My friend and i agree that he has lost it and she has asked him to leave me alone. i initially was going to meet with him and my friend one more time but i was able to show her how many times he left me VMs and she got scared. I don't understand why he even likes me So much cause i only spent 4 hours with him. Im sure he's harmless but what a pain.

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

Fishy, fishy, fishy.

 

[StlKj]

You seriously need to start paying more attention to your instincts about a person.

Never dated a crazy, but did have a crazy chick fixate on me after giving her a ride home from a wedding rehearsal and talking to her on the phone a few times as friends. Found out she had begun telling people we were not only dating, but engaged. She was writing my last name as hers at work, and describing the wedding we were talking about having.

I immediately told people we both knew the truth so they could tell others, and then I never took another phone call from her again. I heard some time later that she got married to some guy pretty soon after she began dating him.

Poor sucker.

 

[Capchino747]

A half hour ago i checked my VM and he tld me he left me something with the receptionist and I kind of panicked and rang the Boulder police but they told me to make it clear to him i want mo contact with him and then comein and file a report and apply for a restraining order. I would hate to do that to him so maybe i will try to reason with him. I just have to stop the calls. I've never had anyone act like this toward me.

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

They told you to come in and file a restraining order? I thought that was done at the court house.

 

[metta]

Gesh....that is just crazy. There has to be a better way to meet people than that.

It's a nice reminder for me on why I'm very careful on who I let into my life.

 

[Capchino747]

the woman i spoke to on the phone seemed botherd and just gave me some general information but she didn't mention the courthouse. I was basically told to tell him to stop forcing contact and if he didn't i could take further steps. Im not afraid he a fatal attraction or anything dramatic like that but he may just be trying to prove some point.