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I have only been dating my current boyfriend for about a month and a half, and I think that he's cheating on me. :(
He was at work yesterday and I he left his mobile at home, and I heard it go off. It went again every so often for the next ten minutes, so I went to see who was txting him, it was someone called Paul...
He was saying stuff like that was hot yesterday and so on...
Then I checked his sent messages and he had been sending txts back as well, and now I just don't know what to do, I think that this has been happening for a few weeks.
Can anyone offer a way to solve this without it ending in a really huge fight?:confused:
 
RB's got the right idea. Let him know his phone kept ringing, so you checked to see if it was important, and you saw what the message said. Then just say, "Can we talk about that?" Give him a chance to explain.

Lex
 
As others stated, you must talk about it. He may want an open relationship while you want a monogamous relationship.
 
trobert said:
As others stated, you must talk about it. He may want an open relationship while you want a monogamous relationship.
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And since you've only been dating for a month and a half, it's probably a good opportunity to have a state-of-our-relationship talk.

It's entirely possible that he thought you were both free to see other people.

If an open relationship isn't what you want, then you need to say that. And if he's not willing to be exclusive at this point, then that may be the nail in the coffin for this relationship...
 
Thanks, I'll do that as soon as he gets home from work (or wherever the hell he is).
I'll let you know how things go.
 
Well, it all worked out, we did have a bit of a arguement, I almost broke my arm, but we're ok, Paul's gonna stop txting him.
So we are ok so far, probably just a bump in our relationship
 
gayboy12 said:
Well, it all worked out, we did have a bit of a arguement, I almost broke my arm, but we're ok, Paul's gonna stop txting him.
So we are ok so far, probably just a bump in our relationship
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Argument? Almost broken arm? Explain.
 
KaraBulut said:
Argument? Almost broken arm? Explain.
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Well, we went to the kitchen and he grabbed my arm and I wriggled free and walked outside, he was yelling at me and I turned round to talk to him tripped over backwards and landed on the concrete tiles!
It hurts but its not broken!
The arguement was just me and him over reacting!!oops!
 
>>>The arguement was just me and him over reacting!

Leave the drama llama outside next time. :)

Lex
 
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