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Somnambulism

NotHardUp1

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Last night, I went to make a grilled cheese sandwich, so I went to the kitchen, and when I picked up a remnant piece of a loaf from the top of the toaster, I was stunned to find the plastic wrapper fused and had left a mark on the top of the toaster oven.

As a rule, I eat less toast or English muffins in summer than in winter. It has been weeks since I can remember toasting anything. I'm always careful to remove any bread stored on top of the toaster before using it, and I've never turned it on with anything atop.

In a household, one would just assume someone else blundered, but I live alone. I stared at the bag and the toaster, and it seemed to click in place. I must be have been sleepwalking.

There have been two other incidents over the last two years that would suggest it, but were vague so had not occurred to me. The first was when I yet lived in Albuquerque, but right after I had a friend's son letting a room for a few months before getting a place together with another young friend. I took him in as a favor to his mom who had previously housed him before selling her house and leaving town with a new husband. At the time, I came to the kitchen a few weeks after he had left, and I found a chip missing from the granite countertop at the front of the sink surround.

I was devastated. I had the countertops replaced after I had bought the house a couple of years before. It was so nice, and I had tons of counter space there which I sorely miss in my new home. It really rankled me that the boy (32 years old) had damaged it without telling me. It seemed likely that he had struck it with a pan or utensil, but it was conjecture on my part. As it was butterfly granite, it also seemed possible that the installer had damaged it and that it had latently popped off. The chip should have been in the sink if that were the case, but I never found it.

I shrugged it off and paid a professional to repair the granite prior to listing the house for sale.

The second event was after I moved into the home I live in now. It has an older kitchen, with a wall oven and microwave combination which is older but ok. A couple months after I moved in, I opened the oven and the glass inside the door had a large crack in it and a noticeable chip in the middle of it from a strike point. I had seen teens cross the property recently from the woods behind my lot, so I figured they might have come in the house when I was gone to work. It seemed possible, much more possible than me not noticing the oven damage during the house tour prior to buying the home. I specifically remember opening the oven to check it out back then, and could not have missed the crack.

It all has me a little spooked. I don't believe it is as likely that I have had intruders as I have been sleepwalking. After reading up on it, most sleepwalking occurs in childhood, and I certainly had it then as well as my siblings. It also has a genetic component, so that is true in our case. In adults, it usually coincides with sleep deprivation, stress, or some other sleep disorder.

My fear is that I am in danger. All three incidents indicate I went to the kitchen. Thankfully, I only have electric appliances, so that makes open fire a less likely event. However, I have a central stairwell that is right in the hall on the way to the kitchen from my bedroom. And, I have a pool behind the house not 12 feet from my bedroom door.

I'm going to find a reputable sleep clinic and see about having a study done.

Do you know of any sleepwalkers in your family or home? What did they do about it, if anything? I have even heard of people driving in their sleep.
 
How do you know that it wasn't ghosts?
 
"I live alone" I had to stop here this thread is lowkey a tearjerker. One of my worst fears is getting old alone and I fall down the stairs and nobody knows and I'm trapped and it take me 3 week to die.
 
Tape a string across your bedroom doorway and see if you walk through it.
 
How do you know that it wasn't ghosts?

I don't think ghosts would have damaged the sink at my old house. It's kinda pointless. And ruining a second-hand toaster oven is hardly the way to spook someone. Plus they haven't bothered anything in the cheese drawer. Ghosts always go for the cheese.

I'm not a person frightened of the supernatural anyway. So, if they're here and botching up toast, it figures that I'll spend my days with ghosts who have dementia or Alzheimer's.
 
Tape a string across your bedroom doorway and see if you walk through it.

If I find out I actually do have the disorder, I'll probably bar the stairs, as well as put some motion detector in the hall that triggers an alarm. That said, sleepwalkers are notoriously difficult to wake.

The stairs are my greater concern. If I went swimming, I'm not likely to do anything but wake. Plus, I would have to step down three steps to get out the back doors, so that seems like I'd have to be looking, even if asleep, else stumble and fall.

If I trip down the stairs, it would be serious. When I lived in Arkansas last, I was caretaker for an estate where the man of the house in his 90's had fallen down a staircase. He died soon after.
 
My brother used to live with a girlfriend who was a sleepwalker. One night, he woke up to find his girlfriend missing. It wasn't unusual for her to do odd things when she was asleep. He went out to the livingroom and found her there.

She had awakened, dressed herself completely, packed a suitcase, and took it out to the living room to wait for the taxi she had called to take her to the bus station. When she woke up the next morning, she had no memory of doing any of it and had no idea where she was going.

(In case you think it was subliminal, they stayed together for another 3 years, and there were as many episodes of sleepwalking as there had been before.)
 
You should get a motion activated camera to see if you are a night wanderer.

I haven't walked in my sleep since I was about 10 (that I know of)...
 
You should get a motion activated camera to see if you are a night wanderer.

I haven't walked in my sleep since I was about 10 (that I know of)...

Yeah, I thought about that too, but it seems expensive when I can just test other ways. I know I talk in my sleep, plus snore. Hell, I'll never get a mate now.
 
You should add nocturnal incontinence to your repertoire. It'd be like a breadcrumb trail.
 
I don't think you'll fall down the stairs. Sleepwalkers are pretty competent. They can even unlock doors and go outside. My roommate will hold conversations with me while he's asleep.

And from frankfrank's post, that's true. There's even been cases of having sex and driving. (No not at the same time) I personally have shopped Amazon while asleep on Ambien.
 
Yes, I'm fairly aware of the range of activities. I don't think I'll have to worry about having sex.

But, people have also been known to jump out windows, so they don't always see or behave competently.

That said, I'm not stressed about it, just tuned in that I might need to take some precautions.
 
Yeah, I thought about that too, but it seems expensive when I can just test other ways. I know I talk in my sleep, plus snore. Hell, I'll never get a mate now.

A camera is the only way to know what you actually do if sleep walking is indeed the case. They're not all that expensive.
 
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