Spice up things in the bedroom?

[nyguy23]

I've been hooking up with a friend at college for a few months. We've agreed that dating wouldn't be a great match. But he's a good friend, very attractive, and safe...and I would rather hookup with someone I like, instead of pursuing random hookups.

Lately things are becoming a bit routine...I'll come over, have sex, talk a bit, fall asleep together and linger over coffee the next morning. The sex is physically amazing, but things are becoming repetitive, and I'd like to spice things up.

Anyway, we discussed mixing things up a bit and trying new things in the bedroom...but we're both pretty simple when it comes to sex, and lacking on ideas. I'm bottom/vers, but he's a total top, so switching roles isn't an option. Aside from adding someone new to the mix, what ideas do you guys have?

 

[EJMichaels]

This story has some ideas for little games (mostly of the teasing and endurance variety)
http://www.justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=179976 It's a story called "Touching Nick".
That's not the only thing worth trying, but it's the only mostly vanilla idea I thought of. My regular ideas for spice might not be what you had in mind.

 

[hotb0d]

well you can introduce toys, rough it up a bit (spanking, tying, blindfold, etc...). I always like the whole idea of dripping chocolate on someone's body and lick it up.

there are shit load of things you can do if you want to be a bit more romantic...but too bad you guys are just in for the hook-up.

 

[Seasoned]

There are gay sex manuals. Have a look at some of them.

 

[nyguy23]

willilikeit, definitely like the against a wall idea...simple, but would be a little different.

what sort of toys would be fun to play with? I'm not really turned on at the idea of something like dildos. I'd be open to trying some light bondage, but it seems like the tying up process would be a little awkward and kind of interrupt the transition into sex...any ideas for someone with minimal equipment?

Household items? Might be fun, but I can't say I have any great ideas...have you tried anything that worked particularly well?

 

[TKNAKED]

1) use a blindfold. cover his eyes and just go wild on his body never letting him know what is going to happen.
2) take a shower in darkness.
3) massage. put on some soothing music ... keep the lights off or very low and use some good scented oil.
4) spend the day naked with each other.

 

[TickTockMan]

Sensory play if done right can change the way you have sex for the rest of your life. Give it a try. There is nothing like having an orgasm without direct stimulation of the penis.