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Staying Soft in the Locker Room/Shower

torontoguy22

torontoguy22

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This is sort of embarrassing, but I'm 19 and have been working out at my university gym for over a year now. For some reason, every time I start undressing or start showering, I get a hard-on. Even if nobody is around me, it'll still happen! It's really quite annoying. I don't have a problem being naked in the locker room, but it's the fact that I can rarely stay soft that makes me most uptight. Whenever I shower I'm forced to use the private stall, lest I get a boner in the open shower area.

What the hell is wrong with me?! I'm pretty sure all gay guys don't pop a woody in the locker room, even though there are many good-looking guys in there. Do you have any suggestions on how to avoid this problem??

Much appreciated! Oh and I'm not out if that's at all relevant.
 
I'm 18, and I've played football and baseball for the past three years at my High School, so not only did I shower in the locker room, but I was surrounded by hot guys showering too. So obviously, I was always terrified that I'd get hard. Here's a tip that helped me sometimes. When you feel yourself getting aroused or hard, think about vaginas. Old vaginas, if need be. An immediate turn-off.
 
for most gay men with limited sports experiences, the locker room is as mysterious and erotically charged as the ladies room is for straight guys.

like superboi, i played lots of sports, and was exposed to locker rooms even before i figured out i was queer. usually, i was pretty wiped and was only interested in getting my sweaty uniform off, and taking a warm shower. i made a point of always looking down, and minimizing my naked time. never had a wood problem, probably because I was so circumpsect.

however, occasionally i'd catch a guy who seemed 'excited' out of the corner of my eye, and i'm pretty sure most of these guys were straight. it's just normal physiological response for a package that's been cramped up in a cup, especially in the setting of surging adolescent testosterone. sometimes, it just happens for no reason.
 
Rub one out before you go to the gym. This may prevent the boner. Good Luck.
 
superboi122 said:
I'm 18, and I've played football and baseball for the past three years at my High School, so not only did I shower in the locker room, but I was surrounded by hot guys showering too. So obviously, I was always terrified that I'd get hard. Here's a tip that helped me sometimes. When you feel yourself getting aroused or hard, think about vaginas. Old vaginas, if need be. An immediate turn-off.
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Well he is bi-sexual. So maybe think about mom and dad gething it on. That would sure as hell get mine down. :eek:
Just think about something that makes anything related seem pretty unatractive.
 
I think it's mind over matter....at least for me. I'm so afraid of getting a hardon in that situation ... I don't! In the event one starts, I think about how I might get beat up or think about something totally non-sexual.
 
Hey at 19 a hard on is just a hand shake away::badgrin:
 
Boners happen. Straight guys get them too.

If you get wood in the locker room, just hang your towel off of it like a towel rack. If anyone notices they will laugh and say "dam he's hung!"
 
OK.....so THIS IS a mens shower room
in the gym.

Lets see if you pop a woody while we're
all watching you.

Go ahead.....we're watching you !
 
torontoguy22 said:
This is sort of embarrassing, but I'm 19 and have been working out at my university gym for over a year now. For some reason, every time I start undressing or start showering, I get a hard-on. Even if nobody is around me, it'll still happen! It's really quite annoying. I don't have a problem being naked in the locker room, but it's the fact that I can rarely stay soft that makes me most uptight. Whenever I shower I'm forced to use the private stall, lest I get a boner in the open shower area.

What the hell is wrong with me?! I'm pretty sure all gay guys don't pop a woody in the locker room, even though there are many good-looking guys in there. Do you have any suggestions on how to avoid this problem??

Much appreciated! Oh and I'm not out if that's at all relevant.
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A healthy young CANADIAN male. Nothing to be worried about. Keep it "up"

There is nothing "wrong" with you.

If someone comes in, just turn away and turn on cold water.

Most guys, gay or straight, get erections in the showers. now and then, Nothing abnormal.

You are ok, kwel.

Don
 
Think about how tired you are so the little man in the pants doesn't rise up. Of course this only works after the workout session. For the changing into gym gear bit, I either have my shirt or pants on at any one time. I'm never just down to my underpants.
 
I'm 27 and the exact same thing happens to me (ie. I tend to get erections even if there's no one actually there). Who nows, maybe I'm an exhibitionist on some deep down level.

Typically, I just face away from people while showering, and then walk around wearing a towel with some strategic concealing folding. Even if someone sees me hard, they don't say anything, regardless of what they might be thinking.

Look at it this way, it's better to get hard at unwanted times than to not be able to when you want to.
 
I took weight lifting in college when I was in my 30s, and one day the cutest guy in the class came into the shower room where I was taking a shower and stood right next to me to take a shower, even though it was a huge room and he could have easily gone anywhere else. I couldn't help but get an erection standing next to him, but it didn't bother him at all. Everyone knows that it just happens, sometimes from the hot water of the shower.

OTOH, you might meet someone in the locker room that will help you take care of it. I've had that happen as well.
 
Axalon said:
I'm 27 and the exact same thing happens to me (ie. I tend to get erections even if there's no one actually there). Who nows, maybe I'm an exhibitionist on some deep down level.

Typically, I just face away from people while showering, and then walk around wearing a towel with some strategic concealing folding. Even if someone sees me hard, they don't say anything, regardless of what they might be thinking.

Look at it this way, it's better to get hard at unwanted times than to not be able to when you want to.
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Could it be the smell of guys who were there that's making you hard? Coming to think of it, I get stiff too when I'm just changing or in the showers and no one else is around.
 
in high school i didn't get them but after i fooled around with a guy in the showers at the rec center at my college i started getting them. When i do i just go in a stall and jerk it
 
uofaguy7 said:
in high school i didn't get them but after i fooled around with a guy in the showers at the rec center at my college i started getting them. When i do i just go in a stall and jerk it
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Be careful not to get caught. I love jacking off in the shower (stalls) too especially with the smell of other guys around.
 
Dude,

This is not a problem. Every dude gets a hard on, even if he doesn't want one at that moment.

Men are not going to be offended or anything. They have the same equipment and they know that it has a mind of its own.

If it happens, so be it. Do your stuff and move on. Nothing to be ashamed of.

SC
 
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