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Staying Soft in the Locker Room/Shower

Along the lines of reciting the lyrics to "the animaniacs," here is something that has helped me when I popped an unwanted woody: try counting backwards from 100 by 3's or 7's or something.... something about the mental effort always made me de-tumesce (spelling? means "go limpy").
 
torontoguy22 said:
This is sort of embarrassing, but I'm 19 and have been working out at my university gym for over a year now. For some reason, every time I start undressing or start showering, I get a hard-on. Even if nobody is around me, it'll still happen! It's really quite annoying. I don't have a problem being naked in the locker room, but it's the fact that I can rarely stay soft that makes me most uptight. Whenever I shower I'm forced to use the private stall, lest I get a boner in the open shower area.

What the hell is wrong with me?! I'm pretty sure all gay guys don't pop a woody in the locker room, even though there are many good-looking guys in there. Do you have any suggestions on how to avoid this problem??

Much appreciated! Oh and I'm not out if that's at all relevant.
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Ahhh! Don't worry about it.
Actually that's the key.
Use the towel generously to minimize the perception of exhibitionism.
Other than that, just relax and be you and soon you will be putting on much less of a show. It will take time but this is the easiest way to deal with it.

"Outness" is of course related but in a complex way that leaves me unable to comment other than to say that the previous advice is still the way to go.
Learn to relax. Learning some meditation techniques will help. Ask someone such as a school therapist or get a book on it. It's easy!!
 
Just Think About fucking your grandma, i know its sick, but it will help.......
 
At the age of 18 a man with a hard-on is a good thing. walking around in the men's looker room naked with a hard-on. I like being around naked men in the looker room. It is the one place a man can look at the others naked men. The guy setting on your left is naked and the one on your is naked and the one in frount of you is naked. You have three cocks to look at without any of them saying anything about it. So what it your cock is hard, if you look, you are not the only guy with a hard-on. When you get my age you will be glad your cock still gets hard. *|* *|* ..| :=D:
 
torontoguy22 said:
This is sort of embarrassing, but I'm 19 and have been working out at my university gym for over a year now. For some reason, every time I start undressing or start showering, I get a hard-on. Even if nobody is around me, it'll still happen! It's really quite annoying. I don't have a problem being naked in the locker room, but it's the fact that I can rarely stay soft that makes me most uptight. Whenever I shower I'm forced to use the private stall, lest I get a boner in the open shower area.

What the hell is wrong with me?! I'm pretty sure all gay guys don't pop a woody in the locker room, even though there are many good-looking guys in there. Do you have any suggestions on how to avoid this problem??

Much appreciated! Oh and I'm not out if that's at all relevant.
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So now we find out the real reason you didn't come to the 2007 Toronto Jub meet and nude pool/spa party. I told you that it would be OK if you wore the blue speedo in your avatar which even shows your religion.:D
 
sheep said:
So now we find out the real reason you didn't come to the 2007 Toronto Jub meet and nude pool/spa party. I told you that it would be OK if you wore the blue speedo in your avatar which even shows your religion.:D
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lol shit, you caught me :)
 
After watching the Bubble Boy scene where his mom gets him to recite the pledge of allegiance to get rid of his hard-on I tried it myself and repeated it over and over in my head and it worked. It's not linked to anybody attractive singing it, there's no sexy voice or anything. It works for me. Or you can just come up with something else to distract your mind, like some other song or something, that isn't related to something else that's sexy. :D
 
U dont understand all the hoopla. All the younger guys manage somehow and for the life of me I dont know how, to change clothes under a towel lest anyone see them in their [gasp] underwear. When they get ready for the pool, they retain the underwear and put on unsexy board shorts. So no woodies at least that are visible.:confused:
 
Whenever I get an unwanted hard-on I think of Queen Elizabeth II being licked out by her Corgis. Or Margaret Thatcher. Is there something wrong with me?

Seriously, I have seen hundreds of hard-ons in locker rooms over the years, and not once have I heard anyone comment on it. It just happens sometimes, s'all
 
Hey men, celebrate every boner you get, even at the gym. If you live long enough, you'll probably see the day that you wish you could pop one as easily as you did when you were 19. If someone at the gym says something about your boner, just tell 'em you're just trying to piss off those guys that make viagra.
 
To tell the truth, I think we all have been there at one time or another. If there is a problem, truth be told it isn't you, it is the world that we live in. In a world where things like homophobia, racism, classism... the list could go on, are prevalent, it is a shame we have to worry about such things. Irregardless, even many straight men get an erection while in the locker room, it is a simple fact, going all the way back to the dawn of man, sex is sex is sex. It wasn't until recent centuries did we begin to consider homosexual actions immoral.

For your situation, I don't suggest thinking of things like "old vaginas or your parents having sex", though good ideas, if your erection doesn't go away when you try to think of those things, you may begin to think that those things turn you on. Then you have a whole other problem on your hands. Simply relax and try not to think of where you are or whom is around you, but think of what you came there to do, CHANGE YOUR CLOTHES/SHOWER/ETC... Unless of course you went there with ulterior motives, then alas I shan't be able to help you. Hope this helps a little. Cheers!
 
You are a man. Men at 19 had better get hard. So what if you have erections. Between 12 and 20 I had erections at various times--in class, in the men's room (really annoying since I can't piss when I am hard), getting changed in the locker room, etc. Yes, at 25 I get them too but usually with someone else in the shower or in bed with me.
If men are next to me at a urinal, I often get an erection. I still can't pee when that happens.:mad:
 
Thats it Jack...
I've got a hardon.
And a date with your sister.
So this one is just practicing.
 
Think about Chairs. The shiny wood gleaming against a hard UV light drifting above it. The smooth corners still bearing the touch of an ultra grainy sandpaper sheet.
Or as you're feeling hard quickly and rapidly yank the water hose to turn it cold.
 
lol ... simply try not thinking about sex at all ..
 
I wonder if he doesn't have a handle on the situation now that 3 years have gone by. Maybe he'll give us some feedback.
 
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