STD testing and how to get it anonymously.

[PoppaJunk]

I've searched a long time for an exclusive NSA blowjob bud, finally found one!

We both want to test first to remove any risk and be able to enthusiastically suck cock with piece of mind. This will be our first time BTW, we've both had handjob buddies in the past but nothing more. I know HIV and the hepatitis(s) are the big ones, which others? Secondly how to go about it anonymously? Planned parent hood? County health dept? We both have good insurance but dont want to go through our primary care physicians so would a regular walk in clinic work, just ask for a blood draw that tests for everything? Do they even have a standard type of test that checks for all that in one draw?

 

[TourDeFrance]

If this is really the first time for both of you, then the likelihood of either of you having anything is slim to none.

If either of you have been sexually active (with men or women) then obviously get tested for HIV. The others you should routinely get tested for are chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis. All sexually active people should be vaccinated for hepatitis A & B.

Not sure why you wouldn't just go through your regular doctor... Getting tested is really not a big deal.

You can also use services like http://www.justgettested.com. You simply order your tests online then go to any Lab Corp draw location. It's really simple.

Many county health departments will do all of for very cheap or even free.

 

[PoppaJunk]

If this is really the first time for both of you, then the likelihood of either of you having anything is slim to none.

Not sure why you wouldn't just go through your regular doctor... Getting tested is really not a big deal.

Sorry, should have clarified: past handjob buddies were our only m2m experience and this this will be our first experience giving/receiving bowjobs from another guy. We're both in our late 30's, married, etc... so we've been sexually active but not with a lot of people. Myself only three women in the last 13-14 years.

The reason for testing anonymously, or through different channels, is we dont want to raise suspicion by using our regular doctors which our wives also use.

 

[Aargos]

I got STI / HIV tested for my first time a few months ago. I searched for a place through the health section of my university website. They had a few Off-campus testing contact numbers and addresses.

I made an appointment, and they said it would be a $20 charge, but they never ended up charging me for the test. I got blood drawn to test for HIV, and I was able to find out the results in about 20 minutes. I also peed in a cup to test for chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, and a bunch of other stuff. Those results took a little longer to receive (about a week).

With anonymous HIV testing, no identifying personal information is associated with your test results and therefore no information will be added to your medical record. With confidential testing, the results go into your personal medical record. These records are kept strictly private according to federal law. No one besides your healthcare provider may see your medical record unless you give written permission or your records are subpoenaed by a court of law. If you have health insurance through a family member, they will not see your test results, but may be able to determine what the charges are for.

 

[TourDeFrance]

The reason for testing anonymously, or through different channels, is we dont want to raise suspicion by using our regular doctors which our wives also use.

Sorry but I have to say it, that's just gross and wrong!

You obviously don't have an open relationship with your wife. If you want to be with men, then divorce your wife and be with men.

You really can't have your cake and eat it too.

 

[hotatlboi]

The Home Access kits are one option for anonymous testing.

http://www.homeaccess.com/

You get a packet and collect the blood sample yourself then mail it to a lab. You can the results anonymously by phone like a few days later.

 

[PoppaJunk]

Sorry but I have to say it, that's just gross and wrong!
You obviously don't have an open relationship with your wife. If you want to be with men, then divorce your wife and be with men.

You really can't have your cake and eat it too.

Lol, so divorcing the wife and abandoning the family is the honorable option? You also dont take into account that if I were to divorce the wife I'd just wind up married to another woman again. I dont find men attractive nor can I develope emotional attachments to guys. Divorce would be stupid. Being safe and uncompromising in that regard is the far better option if one is going to procede.

 

[TourDeFrance]

Lol, so divorcing the wife and abandoning the family is the honorable option? You also dont take into account that if I were to divorce the wife I'd just wind up married to another woman again. I dont find men attractive nor can I develope emotional attachments to guys. Divorce would be stupid. Being safe and uncompromising in that regard is the far better option if one is going to procede.

How about you honor your commitments to your family.

You said you're not attracted to men. the WTF are you messing around with another dude for?

What you need is therapy, not a BJ from a dude.