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What do I do about not feeling good about my life?

Following a horrific experience on a guy on I met on a "hookup", I decided to take control of my life. I started with completing my post-high school education. I did that by enrolling in summer school, of which I'm completing (two courses for a total of 7 credit hours) next week. I'll be starting school again for the Fall semester at another junior college. I plan to transfer to a four-year university after only two semesters, of which I'll have my Associates in Business degree.

I was happily involved in a two month relationship with a great guy, until it "collapsed".

So now, I'm at home lonely on a Saturday night with no one to call, and no one calling me. I hate this miserable life of mine. I wish I wasn't born.

That is all.
 
And that therapist that we recommended you see...?
 
InnovativeBoxx said:
What do I do about not feeling good about my life?

Following a horrific experience on a guy on I met on a "hookup", I decided to take control of my life. I started with completing my post-high school education. I did that by enrolling in summer school, of which I'm completing (two courses for a total of 7 credit hours) next week. I'll be starting school again for the Fall semester at another junior college. I plan to transfer to a four-year university after only two semesters, of which I'll have my Associates in Business degree.

I was happily involved in a two month relationship with a great guy, until it "collapsed".

So now, I'm at home lonely on a Saturday night with no one to call, and no one calling me. I hate this miserable life of mine. I wish I wasn't born.

That is all.
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just imagine there are alot of people in the same situation as you or worst.
 
People don't get surprised that if they don't work at getting an education or a good job, they won't have one.

But they seem downright puzzled that if they don't work at getting a good and active social life, they won't have one.

You've got your education/vocation back on track. Next step - your social life. Start taking steps to meet more people, talk to more people, make more friends, increase your social circle. Talk to people in class more, stay open and chatty, maybe join a club or two.

Making friends (and having boyfriends) doesn't just happen. You gotta go out there and do it. :)

Lex
 
G-Lexington said:
People don't get surprised that if they don't work at getting an education or a good job, they won't have one.

But they seem downright puzzled that if they don't work at getting a good and active social life, they won't have one.

You've got your education/vocation back on track. Next step - your social life. Start taking steps to meet more people, talk to more people, make more friends, increase your social circle. Talk to people in class more, stay open and chatty, maybe join a club or two.

Making friends (and having boyfriends) doesn't just happen. You gotta go out there and do it. :)
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Well, you're right Lex. I guess I faced the music: People aren't just going to approach me, but I'll have to engage them. I'm going to be a bit more interactive at school and finally make friends.

And, I have been seriously thinking about joining a gym. Does that count? There's a Bally's and 24 Hour Fitness near the school, so I think it would be good for me socially as well as physically.

Your opinion?
 
It depends, actually. You probably want to do a tour of each of the gyms first, and keep your eye not only on the equipment (and the hot guys, if any), but at any and all interaction between the people working out. Is there no chit-chat? Does everyone have headphones on? Do people seem totally engrossed in their workouts? This might be a great gym to work out at, but if you're hoping to meet people there, it probably isn't a good sign.

Lex
 
G-Lexington said:
It depends, actually. You probably want to do a tour of each of the gyms first, and keep your eye not only on the equipment (and the hot guys, if any), but at any and all interaction between the people working out. Is there no chit-chat? Does everyone have headphones on? Do people seem totally engrossed in their workouts? This might be a great gym to work out at, but if you're hoping to meet people there, it probably isn't a good sign.

Lex
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I suppose you're right. Well, I think I can find some club or organization to join here shortly. Nevertheless, I do need to join a gym to get in better shape.

Note: I've never been to/joined a gym before and I appreciate any advice from anyone about what to do when joining any gym for the firs time.
 
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