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[NormalGuy123]

Hi guys. Ive recently come out of a relationship and realised i was bi just before i got with her so never really got much chance to experiment. Now im single i am looking to try and meet new people and have experiences. Thing is though i dont find guys attractive but i am attracted to dick? Is that wrong? Or will the being attracted to men part come later?

 

[MusicMan321]

to JUB and everyone is different of what they feel comfortable being in their own skin and knowing what they like

 

[NormalGuy123]

Thanks good to be here

 

[jjonn3]

Thing is though i dont find guys attractive but i am attracted to dick? Is that wrong? Or will the being attracted to men part come later?

Yes - no - maybe?

We are all different - and it is not just our own nature - but also a lot of our "nurture" - the attitudes we grew up with about gays and gay sex.

When I first started fooling around with guys when younger none of us were gay or bi - myself included if you had asked me - we were just horny guys looking for an outlet. No one kissed or dated and I never would have thought I was "attracted" to a guy. But as time passed my interest in cock did not pass - and I started realizing sometimes I was thinking "he is a good looking guy" and my acceptance of myself being attracted to guys got better.

Now I am bi - still keep that part of my life on the DL - guess it always will be - that is just part of how I grew up - but I can accept that I do enjoy sex with men and I can see them as attractive and sexy.

Where will you end up? Who knows - and it really does not matter. What is important is you are accepting the fact you are attracted to dick and not denying that part of yourself.

 

[LoveMyPeppermill]

Thing is though i dont find guys attractive but i am attracted to dick? Is that wrong? Or will the being attracted to men part come later?

It could come later, sure. Or you might end up discovering -- and it might be a total surprise to you, but it would still be just fine -- that you're into women and you're into dick and you should try being involved with a trans woman who hasn't had below-the-belt gender reassignment surgery.

A good way to test this might be for you to go someplace like Pornhub or Xhamster and watch some porn featuring transwomen. There's plenty of it there, so check some out and see if you find it a turn-on.

Good luck!