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Still Thinking About the Amazing First Date I Went On

erobert said:
Went out on a second date which I thought went fine and just texted me this morning saying he "doesn't feel comfortable with our age difference", 19 and 25 is a bit of a difference but not that big of a deal to me since he's pretty mature for his age (or I thought he was at least).

What a major disappointment because things started out so promising.:(

Trying not to feel hurt though or be mad at him. Haven't texted him back- not sure if I even should. Now I feel like some creepy pedo or some desperate old guy, jeez. But he initially messaged me, maybe he was just looking for sex all this time...idk... Well, I have to fall back on my the saying everything happens for a reason.

On a positive note. I do however have a date with a friend of his. Who is 24, I'm sticking to guys + or - 2-3 years my age to avoid this in the future.
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Totally bullock! You shouldn't feel that way. I'm 19 and have been going at it with a guy who is 29. I'm smitten by him and I don't feel any guilt or creep what so ever.(Though I only like older guys so I'm sorta bias in that regards)
 
The date with his online friend felt more like hanging out. We went back to his place and watched a movie. I felt like I was overstaying my welcome because he fell asleep- not a good sign. Feel like a bit of a fool now but I'll recover from this day.

Chance, yeah going to view an apartment tomorrow in Forest Hills. Very nice place and I'm ready to put a deposit down. I'm overdue for living in the city.
 
erobert said:
Went out on a second date which I thought went fine and just texted me this morning saying he "doesn't feel comfortable with our age difference", 19 and 25 is a bit of a difference but not that big of a deal to me since he's pretty mature for his age (or I thought he was at least).

What a major disappointment because things started out so promising.:(

Trying not to feel hurt though or be mad at him. Haven't texted him back- not sure if I even should. Now I feel like some creepy pedo or some desperate old guy, jeez. But he initially messaged me, maybe he was just looking for sex all this time...idk... Well, I have to fall back on my the saying everything happens for a reason.

On a positive note. I do however have a date with a friend of his. Who is 24, I'm sticking to guys + or - 2-3 years my age to avoid this in the future.
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Yeah, I was going to warn you about this after reading your first post, but it seems like it already happened and you've moved on. As men in our twenties, a 19 year-old is not boyfriend material. Been there, done that.
 
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