Stop Calling It "Pussy", that's your BUTTHOLE.

[studmuffin]

When I'm fucking a guy, I do NOT want him to refer to his butthole as his "pussy". Why? Because I am a GAY MAN. G-A-Y.

Imagine if a girl was having sex with a guy, and she referred to her vagina as her "cock", do you honestly think straight guys would find that hot?

Listen, if you're a gay guy who gets turned on by a guy calling their butthole a "pussy", then you're not really gay, at least not completely. Just sayin'.

I just finished watching a gay porn video where this guy just keeps saying "yeah fuck my pussy" over and over again, and it's such a HUGE TURN OFF. These porn studios or whatever really need to tell them to stop doing that. It's called GAY porn for a reason.

 

[pozvatop]

Re: Stop Calling It "Pussy", that's your BUTTHOLE.

You're missing the point of it. It's all tied into dom/sub role-playing and the sub being the dom's bitch. I'm sure others can explain this better than I am. It may be a turn-off to you, but it sure as hell is a major turn-on to quite a lot of men, both doms and subs.

 

[mcbrion]

Then don't go home with the guy who has a sensualist, gender-free way of referring to his body (which probably makes him feel like he doesn't have to stay "stuck" in some toxic gay masculine sexuality, and can just let go and be completely free with his body and expressiveness), and quiz the guy you're going home with to be sure he only uses "masculine" terms when referring to certain body parts. Then you won't be so annoyed with those trying to break free of the stereotypes of the last 40 years in gay culture (trust me, the only people who used the word "pussy" in sex before say, 1990, was Black culture, which has been using that word since before I was born, and it never seemed to offend any men or women I knew (as long as the attention wasn't forced on them)). Somewhere around the beginning on the Internet Age, straight men, gay men, straight women, and lesbians started using the word. It was startling to me, since White culture was so uptight about Black slang before the '90s, and suddenly, they're using Black sexual slang ("who's your daddy" in contrast to gay men who were calling other men "daddy" before that).
That word - if my observations hold - ain't goin' away anytime soon. And I don't mind it at all. It tells me a guy isn't an uptight, repressed type. And as a Black man, I sure don't want that in my bed! In my experience, it's a very walled-off way of being sexual and it certainly rules out a type of sensuality in many cases.

 

[Sebazz]

I just came to the Kink forum to tell everyone: STOP HAVING KINKS!

 

[Shelby29]

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That word...ain't goin' away anytime soon... And I don't mind it at all.

I love it when a sexy CD femboy refers to "his pussy." It has always turned me on...but that's just me.

 

[Shelby29]

Re: Stop Calling It "Pussy", that's your BUTTHOLE.

You're missing the point of it. It's all tied into dom/sub role-playing and the sub being the dom's bitch. I'm sure others can explain this better than I am. It may be a turn-off to you, but it sure as hell is a major turn-on to quite a lot of men, both doms and subs.

Yes IT IS a major turn on especially when I'm with a guy and we are both in our panties.

 

[nickslave]

I can call my boy's pussy what I want. period.

 

[nickslave]

Then don't go home with the guy who has a sensualist, gender-free way of referring to his body (which probably makes him feel like he doesn't have to stay "stuck" in some toxic gay masculine sexuality, and can just let go and be completely free with his body and expressiveness), and quiz the guy you're going home with to be sure he only uses "masculine" terms when referring to certain body parts. Then you won't be so annoyed with those trying to break free of the stereotypes of the last 40 years in gay culture (trust me, the only people who used the word "pussy" in sex before say, 1990, was Black culture, which has been using that word since before I was born, and it never seemed to offend any men or women I knew (as long as the attention wasn't forced on them)). Somewhere around the beginning on the Internet Age, straight men, gay men, straight women, and lesbians started using the word. It was startling to me, since White culture was so uptight about Black slang before the '90s, and suddenly, they're using Black sexual slang ("who's your daddy" in contrast to gay men who were calling other men "daddy" before that).
That word - if my observations hold - ain't goin' away anytime soon. And I don't mind it at all. It tells me a guy isn't an uptight, repressed type. And as a Black man, I sure don't want that in my bed! In my experience, it's a very walled-off way of being sexual and it certainly rules out a type of sensuality in many cases.

very wel said. Bravo!

 

[Jack Offer]

I use the terms "bussy" when it's a tender adult young man's youthful boy pussy that I'm fucking or "mussy" when it's a man of a few years, then it's a man pussy. But both terms apply to their asses.

 

[Me Garvin]

When I'm fucking a guy, I do NOT want him to refer to his butthole as his "pussy". Why? Because I am a GAY MAN. G-A-Y.

Imagine if a girl was having sex with a guy, and she referred to her vagina as her "cock", do you honestly think straight guys would find that hot?

Listen, if you're a gay guy who gets turned on by a guy calling their butthole a "pussy", then you're not really gay, at least not completely. Just sayin'.

I just finished watching a gay porn video where this guy just keeps saying "yeah fuck my pussy" over and over again, and it's such a HUGE TURN OFF. These porn studios or whatever really need to tell them to stop doing that. It's called GAY porn for a reason.

I hear ya, but because YOU'RE gay. What about the guy who wants to feel feminine being fucked by a straight or bi male?

 

[MSG_Otter.w/Ardour]

When I'm fucking a guy, I do NOT want him to refer to his butthole as his "pussy". Why? Because I am a GAY MAN. G-A-Y.

Imagine if a girl was having sex with a guy, and she referred to her vagina as her "cock", do you honestly think straight guys would find that hot?

Listen, if you're a gay guy who gets turned on by a guy calling their butthole a "pussy", then you're not really gay, at least not completely. Just sayin'.

I just finished watching a gay porn video where this guy just keeps saying "yeah fuck my pussy" over and over again, and it's such a HUGE TURN OFF. These porn studios or whatever really need to tell them to stop doing that. It's called GAY porn for a reason.

 

[rareboy]

Oh for fuck's sake.

Relax.

This forum is for kink shaming.

 

[MSG_Otter.w/Ardour]

I share the same sentiment Studmuffin; however I have decided that it is a "me" thing. I have a tendency to affix 'labels' to so much. I find that I categorize a great deal too; I think its a social-engineering kind of thing. I think we are encouraged to 'label' and to be categorical in our perceptions and interpretations. It's a bit how I figure things and how I process information. It's also helped me be more aware of, and to overcome some of my socially structured bias.
If I'm watching Anything that continually annoys me personally, I simply stop watching. There is certainly a niche for that behavior, and it 'does it' for someone... good for them.
I am a self-reflective kind of chap; so when I find I am in a situation as you describe, after I've "gotten my rocks off" if the intellectual quandary persists, I examine the thoughts and seek understanding. I find it a touch difficult sometimes, because socially, I believe, we are in flux (still my opinion) and there is confusion about 'cultural appropriation' and maybe understanding that perception is a matter of contextual framing. I feel the same way when I watch films where the term "faggot" is interspersed as an acceptable term of endearment. (that is just not for me, and if a sex partner insisted in behaviors/actions that are contentious I wouldn't be a participant again)
It's a rabbit hole, for sure.
Travel deeper... Would You, specifically, be 'put-off' hearing a dude say "suck my clit" when referencing a penis; because, I sometimes think, the Penis is simply an enormous, genetically-altered clit. Look at it from another angle... I used to cringe when someone called me a 'pussy' (framed as a weakness), now I think the 'pussy' as a structure is phenomenal, I mean what a fucking powerful piece of anatomy. Ball sacks, now; EVERYONE knows how sensitive the ball sack is. It is just framing of an individual perception. It's semantics and linguistics.
Just thoughts in a forum...

 

[Matt37]

When I'm fucking a guy, I do NOT want him to refer to his butthole as his "pussy". Why? Because I am a GAY MAN. G-A-Y.

Imagine if a girl was having sex with a guy, and she referred to her vagina as her "cock", do you honestly think straight guys would find that hot?

Listen, if you're a gay guy who gets turned on by a guy calling their butthole a "pussy", then you're not really gay, at least not completely. Just sayin'.

I just finished watching a gay porn video where this guy just keeps saying "yeah fuck my pussy" over and over again, and it's such a HUGE TURN OFF. These porn studios or whatever really need to tell them to stop doing that. It's called GAY porn for a reason.

Totally agree. If I wanted a pussy, I would find one to fuck!