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[natedogg323]

This whole thread is a disgusting display of what the gay community is turning into. After 3 or 4 posts the OP decides to finally admit that the guy he's fucking around with has a new born child and a fiancee. AND ALL YOU PEOPLE KEEP SUPPORTING HIM AND TELLING HIM HOW HE SHOULD ENJOY WHAT HE HAS???? He is breaking up a newly formed family!! This disgusts me......

 

[GospelofBrendan]

wow i really didnt mean to upset you nate... i really do appreciate your input on the matter, alot of it has to do with the fact that i have really low self esteem, and i dont get approached that often and when i see him just the fact that he wants "that" from me makes me feel somewhat special i guess. I really have no intent on breaking up their family, cause i would never want that. He is my friend and i do want whats best for him ya know?

 

[JABEEE]

i know its weird, that he wants to fuck me, but he wont make out with me. i guess kissings a little more personal. i know he doesnt want me as his bf, but i think he thinks hes kinda stuck cause the fiancee and they just had a baby in feb. so i dont know its all too much to handle sometimes. thanks for the input tho

That's a pretty shitty thing for you to be doing to his fiance and child.

You're not being a good "best friend" to him by doing that.

 

[sentirpromesas]

im sorry but it takes two people to cheat...ur no better than he is...it saddens me that so many guys support this situation...had it been a GAY cheater everyone would have been "dump his sorry ass!" but since he is supposedly straight everyone somehow sees him as a sexy catch...so fucked up...

 

[natedogg323]

wow i really didnt mean to upset you nate... i really do appreciate your input on the matter, alot of it has to do with the fact that i have really low self esteem, and i dont get approached that often and when i see him just the fact that he wants "that" from me makes me feel somewhat special i guess. I really have no intent on breaking up their family, cause i would never want that. He is my friend and i do want whats best for him ya know?

Gospel..

Your personally not upsetting me. I mean as far as I know this is the first time we've talked. I'm upset with what your doing with him. I'm absolutely disgusted with your friend.
I know what its like to have low self esteem and never be approached for sex. I haven't been with anyone in over 2 yrs. I understand the temptation and the lure of being asked to get with a guy, especially a "straight" guy. But I CANNOT condone cheating with a guy who has a fiancee and a new born. I've been cheated on and it ruined my life. I have the worst trust issues. I don't trust people now. It broke my heart into a thousand pieces.

But Gospel you can do the right thing. You can break this off with him and be the bigger man. You have a chance to change the course of your actions. Cause trust me, eventually she will find out! Its only a matter of time. Think about it.....

My real disgust is with all the people in this thread that are supporting you and telling you to enjoy it and how to get him to do more with you. Those people disgust me. Major props to the other three guys that stood up and told you to stop this!

 

[Candyapple]

My real disgust is with all the people in this thread that are supporting you and telling you to enjoy it and how to get him to do more with you. Those people disgust me. Major props to the other three guys that stood up and told you to stop this!

One of the guys is a gal...

Agreed - why did one guy post about what a 'lucky guy' the OP is???? Or someone telling me to 'get real'??? Oh, OK, if other guys do it, then it doesn't matter? Or one poster telling the OP that he's happy for him? Happy??? Why are you happy that a man with a baby is behaving like this?

Is the fantasy of sucking off a straight guy so awesome that you're willing to totally disregard the fact that the guy has a baby and a fiancee he's cheating on? Why?

Does getting your rocks off mean so much that you don't have to give a damn about anything or anyone else? If it feels good, do it...doesn't matter who you might hurt in the process...having an orgasm and sucking off a hot guy takes priority over everything else in the whole world.

Sentirpromesas made a good point too, that because this moron (the guy getting the BJs) is cheating on a WOMAN, somehow it becomes 'hot' and 'sexy'. "You're sucking off a str8 guy, WOOT!!!!! What a stud you are! Keep doing it! Tell us all about it!! The bitch obviously can't please him like you can!"

The attitudes here disgust me. Kudos to the posters who don't support this guy's actions.

To the OP: I'm sorry you have low self-esteem. But being the sperm receptacle for a lying, cheating fuckwad isn't going to help. Stop messing around with this guy. Otherwise, you're going to devastate the lives of his family.

Will it help your self-esteem issues if you break up his family?

Do you think his little kid deserves that?

 

[natedogg323]

One of the guys is a gal...

Agreed - why did one guy post about what a 'lucky guy' the OP is???? Or someone telling me to 'get real'??? Oh, OK, if other guys do it, then it doesn't matter? Or one poster telling the OP that he's happy for him? Happy??? Why are you happy that a man with a baby is behaving like this?

Is the fantasy of sucking off a straight guy so awesome that you're willing to totally disregard the fact that the guy has a baby and a fiancee he's cheating on? Why?

Does getting your rocks off mean so much that you don't have to give a damn about anything or anyone else? If it feels good, do it...doesn't matter who you might hurt in the process...having an orgasm and sucking off a hot guy takes priority over everything else in the whole world.

Sentirpromesas made a good point too, that because this moron (the guy getting the BJs) is cheating on a WOMAN, somehow it becomes 'hot' and 'sexy'. "You're sucking off a str8 guy, WOOT!!!!! What a stud you are! Keep doing it! Tell us all about it!! The bitch obviously can't please him like you can!"

The attitudes here disgust me. Kudos to the posters who don't support this guy's actions.

To the OP: I'm sorry you have low self-esteem. But being the sperm receptacle for a lying, cheating fuckwad isn't going to help. Stop messing around with this guy. Otherwise, you're going to devastate the lives of his family.

Will it help your self-esteem issues if you break up his family?

Do you think his little kid deserves that?

Amazing post yet again, CA!!!!!!

 

[ctrust]

im sorry but it takes two people to cheat...ur no better than he is...it saddens me that so many guys support this situation...had it been a GAY cheater everyone would have been "dump his sorry ass!" but since he is supposedly straight everyone somehow sees him as a sexy catch...so fucked up...

I agree 100% right there. I'm actually quite shocked that people here are more outraged at GospelofBrendan than his "straight" (yeah, right) friend. Don't get me wrong, I'm not defending GospelofBrendan's actions. Clearly he is doing the wrong thing. But he's not the one with the fiance and a baby. I'm sorry but his "straight" buddy is totally selfish and doesn't seem to care that much about his new family to begin with.

GospelofBrendan, as much as I don't agree with your actions, I will agree with you on one thing - that you definitely have some serious self-esteem issues. I honestly hope you find a way to help yourself and realise that you're worth a lot more than you give yourself credit for.

 

[PhoenixRandall]

I've been in the same situation with one of my best friends for the last 7 years. He is straight (not bi or gay or whatever) . The main difference between he and i versus the situation described above is that we have discussed every aspect of what we are doing and why we are doing it. It is not an affair. He is not leaving his wife. I do not expect him to and I continue with my life in the meantime. We're very open in our discussions on the topic.

Is it wrong for us to be doing this? Yes. and No.

Everyone will have an opinion and a judgement and most of them, on either side of the argument are correct....in their opinions and value system. I agree with the folks that say it is wrong....I also understnad the personal side of it that makes it ok as well.

Try to look at it from more objective position....he and I have discussed the 'why's and how's and when's' - we've discussed the consequences and benefits. We've discussed the future. We're ok with what we're doing....

Hopefully this helps the kid that is starting out in this arena. Think about what you are doing....hopefully it is for more than just a cum squirt, but that is up to you. Think about all sides of this situation, including the ones that are putting you down for it. Make the right decision based on A LOT of open communication with your friend.

 

[AngelFromAbove]

I've been in the same situation with one of my best friends for the last 7 years. He is straight (not bi or gay or whatever) . The main difference between he and i versus the situation described above is that we have discussed every aspect of what we are doing and why we are doing it. It is not an affair. He is not leaving his wife. I do not expect him to and I continue with my life in the meantime. We're very open in our discussions on the topic.

Does his wife know? If not, then it is an affair, by definition.

 

[xXblatinoXx]

Although I feel that fucking around with and engaged man who just fathered a child is wrong; I also feel that the blame should also be put on his friend for keeping this little "relationship" going. He knows that he has a fiancee and a child but obviously he must not care that much if he`s fucking around with Brendan. So it sounds to me like all his friend wants is to get off and if he`s not gonna get it at home he`ll get it elsewhere - pointblank.

And this "affair" has been going on for so long ... y stop now? The damage has already been done so mind as well keep going until you either get sick of having this guy use you for sex or until you get caught. If his family gets torn apart fuck it -- he doesn`t deserve a fiancee or a child in his life if all he`s gonna do is cheat on them. That`s how I see it.

Remember: you can`t save everyone`s feelings BUT ALSO karma`s a bitch.