Str8 Friend in need of money.

[Greginsumter]

The other day I had a call from a friend of mine who is married with 2 kids. he is 22 and very hot. We worked together untill he got laid off due to work slowing down. He knows I am gay as I am as open as one can be. Here is my question, He told me that he would strip naked for me for $100 but no touching as he needs the money, Should I do it or leave it alone?

 

[Greginsumter]

I offered to loan him the money and let him pay me back when he could but he said he did not wanna get into debt with anyone. I always help freinds out when they need it.

 

[Greginsumter]

Well I was kinda but he said it was his way of wpaying off the loan. Hell I have no clue what to do really. that why I am here

 

[Greginsumter]

Yes he is.

 

[palbert]

Give him $100.00.

I'd do that rather than demean myself: in a way he is prostituting you.

 

[Greginsumter]

Thanks for the help guys. I think I will just go by his house and put the money in the mail box so he has no way of saying no and has to do nothing in return, hard to say no when I am not there.

 

[Junior42]

I agree with what was said. I have friend who was recently furloughed and he has two sons, and if he came to me looking for financial help and I could afford it I would just give him the money. If he pays it back great, if not so be it. My friendship with him is more important then the loan. I would not want the money or striptease to get in the way of that.

 

[Benvolio]

Thanks for the help guys. I think I will just go by his house and put the money in the mail box so he has no way of saying no and has to do nothing in return, hard to say no when I am not there.

Make sure to tell him is a gift and not a loan. A loan can easily destroy a friendship as he begins to avoid you because he cannot pay you.

 

[justdra]

Just be weary of the "return for more". It is nice of you btw. He couldn't strip in front of me and say no touching so you did best, lol.

 

[yhtang]

Thanks for the help guys. I think I will just go by his house and put the money in the mail box so he has no way of saying no and has to do nothing in return, hard to say no when I am not there.

Did you drop off the money in his letterbox? Did he guess it was you? What was his reaction?

 

[Greginsumter]

I dropped the money, Not sure if he knows it was me or not and said in a note no need to repay this is what friends do.

 

[RRUGER]

wow you are a nice guy i know several gay guys that would totalling reduce the guy to being a slut. LOL

i would have loved the see the package heehe

you did the right thing, we all should learn from you but i kinda feel str8 guys should get the thought that every gay guy wants you...its gettin old and annoying , i feel insulted. i am bi and i definately dont want every girl and guy

 

[itsmeagain]

you're a good guy. Don't let him use you.

 

[Ninja108]

DOn't let yourself be used and vice versa.

 

[Suncatcher78]

Have to agree and agree with above. If he's (and U as well) really a friend, then why even ask this question or pondering on the idea of should I or shouldn't I? A friend DO NOT let a friend do or ask such a thing, for some cash, yes. Give him the money with love and asks nothing in return, well, except NOT to make a habit. Help him to help himself.

 

[trojanboy]

Make him into a slut.

 

[radioian]

Give him some money to help him out,if you can afford to help,tell him not to worry about paying it back

 

[appleploughman]

Or just tell him to pay it forward.

 

[MoufOfKhaos]

Thanks for proving the stereotypes are true. Swell friendship you two have.

 

[Greginsumter]

Thanks for proving the stereotypes are true. Swell friendship you two have.

Well for one I was asking a simple question, I take it you have NEVER been in a place that you needed advise?