Str8? Never sucked another guy, but...

[jmadaf]

Is sex with your wife getting rountine, maybe another woman, or is it you have always had these desires, either way two things will happen if you act. First you will not like it and feel guilty, if that's the case chalk it up as experience, and get on ith your life. Second you will love it and not be able or want to stop, then you can call yourself BI or gay. I say watch gay porn and if it gets you hard with no problems, go for it.

 

[mark08]

I'm straight and I've tried it 3 times with 3 different guys. Two of the 3 times were with guys alone and I didn't get turned on by it all. One time was with an ex girlfriend watching me suck her new bf and I was rock hard, one of the most exciting experience I've had.

 

[leomendez93]

Why fucked it all for an orgasm? If you are not interested in men, reassess the situation and your desire. Let me just tell you this. A friend kissed me when I was 42. Of course, I was curious like you and it happened. From there on, it has been a battle as I am also married. I have never been able to forget and the continuous visit to porn site just fed the beast until I started acting on it. Now, at 48, I have been trying to stop but the crap does not leave my mind. I wish, at times, I had never tried it.

 

[medic1]

Just suck some cock.......geez, it's no big deal. You'll probably like it a lot.

No big deal , , the guy is married has children and it is obvious to anyone with an iota of fucking common sense that he is in a
turmoil about what this could do to his wife and children if they ever found out .

Though as you say "geez , it`s no big deal"....................

 

[medic1]

Okay, I was wrong by saying it is "no big deal." But, if you are very discreet and careful, the only way to know if sucking cock is the right thing to do for you is by actually trying it. The paramount importance, of course, is to enjoy the experience with someone who appreciates and will respect your need to be discreet. (it's a real shame you don't live next door to me)

^^^^
This , it takes a lot to post on an open forum that you think you were wrong , .
Like you i to am single , so we really see things from that angle , i believe that if you are in a relationship then for it to succeed you
have to be honest with your mate especially if you are married with kids .

Please don`t think that i was flaming you if you did then i am sorry .
To be honest i think in this sort of situation the best people to help the OP are other married guys with kids (regardless of their age)
My heart goes out to this guy and others who are struggling with the same issue , i just hope that the OP finds our posts and support
helpfull to him .

 

[Georgiadude]

Im in the you're married and made a promise to your wife crowd. How would you feel if you found out she cheated on you? Doesn't matter if its with a man or woman. I understand the urge to try new things and a persons desires can change over time. However, you made a promise to her and you need to stand by your word. You need to talk to your wife instead of trying to find ways to sneak behind her back. If she gives you the green light then Im all for trying it.

Steven.

 

[AsianDream]

lately I've had an overwhelming desire to suck another man's cock.
What should I do?

Go to a gay sauna (bathhouse) – usually plenty of guys willing to let someone suck their cock (the steam room is usually a good place). It’s quite common for guys to be sucked a few times but want to save cumming for full on sex – so don’t be surprised if most guys want you to stop before they cum. Most saunas I know – Sunday afternoon is when you get the most “STR8 married” guys. Another thing on sauna etiquette – never worry about a no and don’t be worried to say no

No idea if it’s a good idea or not for you to try sucking a cock - probably not worth it if you’ll end up feeling guilty about it.

 

[mbamike]

You should discreetly go out and find a guy to blow. There are lots of married guys on Adam4Adam, Manhunt, and Silverdaddies.