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So I know this is a long shot I'm bi (which no one knows ) and my straight friend is super hot and I really wanna give him a BJ but I don't know how to ask him with out risking our friendship ! The crazy thing is I was thinking about just telling him the other day and while I was at his house his GF starts telling me that she had a dream that me and him were messing around and she caught us and that she didn't really care until she told us we needed to stop in her dream she said I was blowing him which blew my fucking mind and I swear I'm not making this shit up it was like fate or something !!! Anyways any help is appreciated I don't know what to do !
 
What was the reaction your friend had to what his GF said?
 
BillyT said:
What was the reaction your friend had to what his GF said?
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He didn't really say anything kinda just got quiet I mean he lets me give him back massages every once in a while and I mean he gets down into his underwear infront of me all the time and from what I can tell it's huge :0 never been naked thou
 
Ask him.

And don't whine if it ruins your friendship.
 
I'm bi (which no one knows )


Are you SURE about that? a straight man/guy would have protested vehemently about her dream....She knows.
 
She sees something...or senses it...or both....and her sharing that dream was a way for her to leave a door open for both of you.....

I wouldn't open it though...there are so many potential consequences....one of them is losing your best friend. For instance....If she is playing a manipulative game which is likely...you both lose unless you both "get it"....
 
Honestly, they both know.They were giving you an opening to be honest with them about it.

As for how to ask him..... DON'T!

He's your friend, she's his girlfriend. If you truly value the friendship sacrifice your desire to engage in sexual activity with this individual.
 
There are plenty of hot gay guys you can suck. All you want is a trophy to brag about while making yourself his bitch. Wise up. He has a GF. It is a no-win situation. To profess you value his friendship more is bullshit.
 
Willie Boy said:
Honestly, they both know.They were giving you an opening to be honest with them about it.

As for how to ask him..... DON'T!

He's your friend, she's his girlfriend. If you truly value the friendship sacrifice your desire to engage in sexual activity with this individual.
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I agree with Willie Boy, don't do it.
 
The subject will come up again. Be prepared with a decision whether to disclose that you are bi. It seems clear that your friends girlfriend thinks you are gay and perhaps sees you as a threat; may be trying to drive a wedge between you. He may test you with a sexual approach. Safest course is to deny you are gay. Possibly admit to him but assure him no one knows it and you will never come on to him. Do not ask to blow him; it will cost you a friend.
 
Why not come out as bi?
 
She knows. He may not have a clue. But she knows and is testing / outing you /
 
Thanato178 said:
I'm thinking about it just trying to build up the courage to do it :/ I know once I do it things will change to be either a lot better or a lot worse
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Coming out to him will change things but giving him a blowjob won't? :confused:
 
Thanato178 said:
No obv it will but I wanna come out but I don't want them to freak out the blowjob is a fantasy
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Remember that in fantasy you can control all the variables but translating this to reality is not something anyone can control ....

Something to consider...

I think men who understand the difference between love and lust..and fantasy and reality....and accept and appreciate all four of them for what they are have the best sex lives....
 
Girls often see their boyfriends gay friend as a competitor, just as they would not want their BF to hang out with another girl. And she may have an exaggerated fear that you will give him a disease. Best not to come out. If you do, wait until it comes up and tell him not her. Once she knows she will pressure him to drop you.
 
Thanato178 said:
No obv it will but I wanna come out but I don't want them to freak out the blowjob is a fantasy
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It's always odd to hear someone described as a "best friend" but they don't know that you're bi and that you are afraid that sharing something about yourself.

Since your friend has a girlfriend and you realize that your feelings toward him are largely a fantasy, then you really don't have that much to lose if you tell him. Bottom line: if he can't accept you as bi or that you have a sexual interest in guys, then he's not that much of a best friend, is he?
 
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