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I'm sure you get this thread all the time. I think I've been confused since puberty that's about the time would dress up in Lingerie just to feel sexy and curious about what it felt like to be a submissive woman. Then there was high school when you would stare extra long at the guys who had the thicker dicks in the showers. Then in my early twenties I started watching a lot of gay porn and finally after fantasizing about big sweaty muscular guys having their way with me I decided to get online and do something about it. I found a guy and we met at a motel. He was much bigger than me ( which I like) I'm 5'9 140 4.5" cock and he was 6'4" with at least an 8" cock. It really hurt I was almost in tear by the time he got it all the way in. After most of the pain went away it was a very enjoyable experience. The next guy was older and he was also hung but I was mostly ready this time. After it was over we were lying on the bed and he asked if I was out or not. I told him no that I was straight and possibly bi. He told me he thought I was gay in denial. I hear all the time don't label it but could this just be a phase for me and I just need a good women to straighten it out? Or am I gay in denial and just need to take the plunge and start going out on dates with guy?
 
Coolhand7 said:
I'm sure you get this thread all the time. I think I've been confused since puberty that's about the time would dress up in Lingerie just to feel sexy and curious about what it felt like to be a submissive woman. Then there was high school when you would stare extra long at the guys who had the thicker dicks in the showers. Then in my early twenties I started watching a lot of gay porn and finally after fantasizing about big sweaty muscular guys having their way with me I decided to get online and do something about it. I found a guy and we met at a motel. He was much bigger than me ( which I like) I'm 5'9 140 4.5" cock and he was 6'4" with at least an 8" cock. It really hurt I was almost in tear by the time he got it all the way in. After most of the pain went away it was a very enjoyable experience. The next guy was older and he was also hung but I was mostly ready this time. After it was over we were lying on the bed and he asked if I was out or not. I told him no that I was straight and possibly bi. He told me he thought I was gay in denial. I hear all the time don't label it but could this just be a phase for me and I just need a good women to straighten it out? Or am I gay in denial and just need to take the plunge and start going out on dates with guy?
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I say do whatever you want to do.
 
Who do you feel you have the most emotional connection with? Women? Guys? Both? Who do you dream of waking up next to? That would at least help you determine your direction and whether or not this is a "phase."
You can't know this soon (never mind what the other guy told you about you being gay and in denial). Try what you suggested: going out on a date with a guy and see how you like that. Going on a date is different than just having sex with a guy.
Right now, you could be just like a million other straight guys, who, now that same-sex hookups are looked at as less scary (except if it's new to you), find out they want to know what it's like to be with another guy. And a lot of guys have "delayed adolescence": things they didn't do with other guys (circle jerks and all that) when they were teenagers.
 
Idk it use to be both but lately I’ve felt a stronger connection to men! I’ve been asked out several times I just keep chickening out. I just keep thinking what would people think if they found out! The closet is my safe place any man is welcome to join me in there😉
 
Coolhand7 said:
I'm sure you get this thread all the time. I think I've been confused since puberty that's about the time would dress up in Lingerie just to feel sexy and curious about what it felt like to be a submissive woman. Then there was high school when you would stare extra long at the guys who had the thicker dicks in the showers. Then in my early twenties I started watching a lot of gay porn and finally after fantasizing about big sweaty muscular guys having their way with me I decided to get online and do something about it. I found a guy and we met at a motel. He was much bigger than me ( which I like) I'm 5'9 140 4.5" cock and he was 6'4" with at least an 8" cock. It really hurt I was almost in tear by the time he got it all the way in. After most of the pain went away it was a very enjoyable experience. The next guy was older and he was also hung but I was mostly ready this time. After it was over we were lying on the bed and he asked if I was out or not. I told him no that I was straight and possibly bi. He told me he thought I was gay in denial. I hear all the time don't label it but could this just be a phase for me and I just need a good women to straighten it out? Or am I gay in denial and just need to take the plunge and start going out on dates with guy?
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If you read through what you've said, there is a lot of submissiveness to your exploration of your sexuality. It's a recurring theme.

So far, you've taken a passive approach to not only your sexual encounters but also to your overall sex life.

If you want to break this pattern, then yes, you should start dating guys. Take control and figure this out so that you can move on with your life.
 
KaraBulut said:
If you read through what you've said, there is a lot of submissiveness to your exploration of your sexuality. It's a recurring theme.

So far, you've taken a passive approach to not only your sexual encounters but also to your overall sex life.

If you want to break this pattern, then yes, you should start dating guys. Take control and figure this out so that you can move on with your life.
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I agree with you,please note,figure out what you want.
 
Umm, you didn't mention any experience with women whatsoever. At the end of the day a label is up to you and others will label you, and you will label yourself and perhaps you won't have a label and occasionally enjoy dressing up as a woman and being fucked by a big dick. Sometimes straight men need a dick to get through life now and again while living completely heterosexual vanilla lives.
 
I’m not gay! I just love making out with men and sucking juicy cock and being penetrated balls deep while his strong hands grip me!
 
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