Straight brother in law

[bayern20]

But I agree with crzyrazn

I believe people are basically immoral. The reason is simply that we all have a negative trait that tends to go against morality. So while we aren't all rapists, serial killers, thief's, cheaters, we are all immoral in some respect.

And while there is obviously a fine line between committing murder and cheating, I believe that the essence of people is in the act, not so much the degree. Because at the end of the day morals and having a favorable view of the world rests on thinking its generally good, when the opposite is really true. Humans are selfish, we are built that way, and we do whats good for us. Even charity is selfish.

 

[unclaimedblessing]

We are all human and we all occasionally fuck up.
Since the two guys involved still seem to feel ashamed or embarassed over the incident which happened a few years ago, there probably will not be a repeat performance and it's best to try to forget and forgive.

Perhaps some of the more critical remarks here are from people like me who have know guys with absolutely no scruples who have indiscriminate sex almost like collecting trophies without the slightest concern for those they hurt.
That doesn't seem to be the case here.

 

[DVM26uk]

Call it morals or whatever, but personally I wouldn't have gone there. I'm no angel and I'm sure I'll see a lot of you in hell but to be frank if you love your family you don't fuck with them.

 

[racer2438]

You should said no and left it at that.
just remember this could come back and bite you in the ass.

and when shit hits the fan in family, it makes a hell of a mess.

you should have said no.......................

 

[Sceilig]

How can people actually believe this sad fantasy?

 

[sevengun7]

I don't think I could ever pull that. I used to think about my brother-in-law's brother-in-law, he was cute and closer to my age, but even that idk if I could bring myself to do, haha. To each their own man!

 

[Janeiro dos Reis]

People, people, people, How far up your butts do you have your heads. The only two Jubbers who made sense were Crzyrzn and Moltenrock. The rest of you were spewing hypocritical piety. Join the real world people. Whether the story is true or concocted is irrelevant. The situation stated is not beyond the realm of possibility ( I hasten to add that it would never happen in my family, but it is only because I do not find any of my brothers-in-law the least bit appealing). So, cut the guy some slack and lay off the judgements. That's all I have to say on the subject. I will not be responding any further on this subject. Peace to all and have a Happy New Year everyone.

 

[steve621]

I'm actually amazed that the person that started this post is still on this website after all the horrible words he had recieved from most of you guys. In my opinion, he had already know that it is morally wrongful (or unethical) ofcourse, but I do not think his intention of sharing this story was to ask to recieve a stampede of harsh and awful words. I think, all he asked for was to see if there is anyone out there who might have done the same thing...so he can find more opinions from those who have to later decides what he should do.

It is very nice of the few that actually gives personal opinions on the matters..but there are just some replies that are so nasty that it should be sent in a private message.

Think of it this way... When you've made a mistake and is confused, Would you like the whole world to scream your wrongfulness to your face?

Talking about respects for his sister and their marriage and all that, I think you guys should start with respecting another person's feeling.

LOL, I know I'm not as smart as others and should not be giving advices...but I just hope JUB can be a better place where jubbers don't get so ashamed and scared to ever log back on again.

very nice sentiment - beautifully said -

 

[doido22]

wow wow !!!

 

[breion]

I would never dream of doing anything with my brother-in-law. OK, not true, I've dreamt about it many times. He would have to initiate it though.

I did go in the pool nude with my brother-in-law and his best friend once though. Damn good thing it was at night, because at the sight of those two fine male bodies, I was standing in the pool with full erection.

 

[bankside]

Yup. Frankly now that gay marriage is making it's progress across the country I see so many homos buying into the b.s. dream that they can meet someone, marry them, and live happily ever after more and more and it's damn disturbing.

Fuck! Straight people cheat in marriages on average 62% of the time. Previously us homos sat down with our various partners and decided what worked for each of us in a relationship. I see so many 18, 19, and 20 year olds running around blathering about wanting to marry someone forever it's disgusting. Look, a lifetime of monogamy and fucking the same person and only person works for about 20% or 30% of the population if you are straight, and maybe 10% to 15% for gay people, but for the vast majority that recipe isn't one for success.

Damn a Gay June Bride magazine is going to be forthcoming soon. All a scam built up by marketers. Virtually every one of my married, str8 friends are fucking miserable, and yet I see moronic, idiotic, 19 yo Jubbers blubbering about how that's the only recipe for happiness.

Makes me puke.

Except that is what his brother-in-law signed up for. Stupid or not, he didn't vow to his bride to "love, honour and cherish you until your brother goes down on my dick." So, he didn't have to marry the woman, but once he did, he signed up for the rules that go along with it. He had no business accepting blow jobs from his wife's brother, and the brother had no business offering. I hope she finds out and dumps both of them.

BTW, if gay people want to get married, nobody's putting a gun to their heads either. You can't "market" the brains out of people, and I think your nostalgia for days gone by of "sexual liberation" is affecting your judgement of how well things really worked for people before.

If there is a line-up of gay guys waiting to wed, it is because they want to. Maybe they will turn out to be wrong, but since the general population hasn't gotten any smarter or dumber over the last 40 years, they are the same kind of people today, who lived in the age of hook-ups and "negotiating what works for them." They are the same people who would have found some other way to be unhappy in the days before equal marriage rights for gays.

 

[tila123]

wow. this thread got BLOWN UP. lol

interesting story.
doesnt seem true to me
but hey, at least it sparked an interesting topic.
tho i have to agree where I have thought about it and wondered what it would be like, i would NEVER do that to my sister. it would kill me to think i could cause her that sort of pain.
so... no.

 

[nathie2008]

I would never do anything like that to my sisters boyfriend or husband or whatever...

but if he wants to that is his business at the end of the day you people who critcise clearly know it is wrong so keep that to your self also you may not have done anything to a family members partnet but you have deffinately done something your not proud of but you dont tell your story..

WHY??

because you know you will get critised aswell...

AT THE END OF THE DAY GET OVER IT
what "cumpump69" does in his time is HIS time.. Get the F**K over it

OK!!!

 

[shotgun17]

DOnt fuck it up

 

[bankside]

A) I'm not afraid of criticism. It happens anyway.
and
2) What I do on my time is my business. Sometimes it involves reading posts and calling it like it is.

 

[buddy1970]

Really now since stones are being cast, have any of those condemning the OP ever slept with a married man?

I've had sexual encounters with a few married men (anonymous and hook-ups), and I can honestly tell you that I regret it. Granted, these guys would have done it with someone else if not with me, but the fact is that I contributed to the rottenness of their marriages; I got myself involved in the stickiness of their broken personal lives. I would rather not do that again.

This type of activity leads to divorce, a modern scourge. Just read this guy's take on his parents' divorce to understand what adult children of divorce go through. I had enough of my own childhood trauma not to wish any sort of trauma on any other children. I'm just glad that I don't find any of my brothers-in-law the least bit attractive.

I condemn no one. I just recommend staying away from married men, period.

 

[cmizer]

now im wodering if u have to brush ur teeth after sucking a cock if u dont will u get cavities while u sleep

i say he made a mistake, his bro-in-law is probly a homo so his sister shud be glad she has two homos in the family its every girls dream lol

 

[MarkDW]

How's the weather up there on those HIGH HORSES ???

 

[pmich25]

As titillating as this story sounds, i'm going to call bluff.

Guess what i slept with Chris Evans last night... he was sooo good. He just kept begging for more..i couldn't help myself.

 

[dezello]

Why is everyone being so judgemental? Yes it happened and it shouldn't have but it happened. Personally, I wouldn't do it but these things happen. Everyone does something they shouldn't. People get caught in a moment.