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Pigpen

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Hey guy, so i have this guy friend i am really close with and we hang out all the time, we are practically joined at the hip. whenever we hang out i always say i want to do what he wants to do and he kept trying to convince me that whatever i wanted to do was fine with him. He gave a few examples on what we could do and jokingly (i think) suggested going and beating off in a parking lot. I know for a fact that he and his girlfriend don't have sex so should i jokingly suggest it back and see if he wants to actually do something?
 
I honestly don't know. If you do decide on playing it out, as miguelfukt said, be careful. Yo udon't want to lose a friendship on this.

I mean, is your friendship close enough where he won't just be awkward after you do jerk off together? I don't know... you know the guy better than I do. Maybe it would be best to find yourself a boyfriend lol.I think that'd be safer.
 
i agree that it would be safer. we are the type of friend who can do just about anything and talk about whatever and be ok afterwords. i think ill let him initiate and just respond to his advances, that way i would know for sure. ill let you know if he makes a move or how the comments develop
 
Well if you're just masturbating yourselves and not touching each other, I think it might work.
Be careful and put your friendship first, but I know straight guys who have jacked off together and they're fine.

Its your friend and your call. Do what you think is best and put the friendship first, but I wouldn't rule it out!!
 
The correct answer was, "Fuck yeah, let's do it!" If he then says, "I was just kidding," you say, "No balls!"

You have no idea how much fun I've had following this simple formula.
 
so a few new developments in the situation of my good buddy. recently we have been joking a lot more about jerking off together. like we are comfortable enough to joke about it in front of some other people. but while we were going back and forth today he slyly looked over at me and said... "you know deep down you really wanted to" so basically I'm really thinking about going for it sometime soon. :P any tips for getting us alone and on topic or a no pressure situation that would let him initiate?
 
No, no, a thousand times no -- unless you no longer want to be friends.
 
CGHJ said:
The correct answer was, "Fuck yeah, let's do it!" If he then says, "I was just kidding," you say, "No balls!"

You have no idea how much fun I've had following this simple formula.
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OMG!! You're a genius!

Why didn't I think of that?
 
ok if you have gotten closer is it still the same basic friendship like aside from jacking off or whatever
 
Thrasher12 said:
OMG!! You're a genius!

Why didn't I think of that?
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Experience, my friend, experience ;)

Pigpen said:
ok if you have gotten closer is it still the same basic friendship like aside from jacking off or whatever
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It always has been for me, in fact, I've been closer friends with every guy I've done this with...but only because I don't make a big deal of it afterwards. It's fun times and nothing more.
 
It always has been for me, in fact, I've been closer friends with every guy I've done this with...but only because I don't make a big deal of it afterwards. It's fun times and nothing more.
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I guess it's worth a try then haha
 
Be sure not to look disappointed when he wants to talk about girls afterwards, it's all part of the process. Acknowledge his inherent straightness and he'll feel more comfortable. It's the guys that are like, "wait, didn't that mean something deep and profound?!" that fuck it all up.
 
These guys who like to joke with other guys about either jacking off or other sex acts are opening the door as wide as possible for you. The way they are doing this is because it gives you an out if you decide to take them up on their come-on's. If for some reason when you take them up on their offers of playing around, they happen to get serious and say they were just kidding around, you can do the same and blame them if they can't take a joke.
 
so yet again more things have come up that make me question what i should do. I tried the no balls thing and it worked. we discussed pubic hair and joked around that we should shave them into funny things like the japanese rising sun or silly things like that. i told him he wouldn't do it and pulled the no balls line, he then said ill show you that i do it. he then said he didn't think he could show me in person but he would send me a pic. we have talked about a lot of "gay" things lately and he has said he is comfortable having people assume he is gay but feels awkward acting gay but privately we joke around about it a lot and he is comfortable sitting close like directly beside me so we are touching and playfully touching each other but never in an inappropriate place, he like me to pull on his toes and pop them... never had a guy friend who wanted me to touch his feet and he does the same thing to me if im sleeping and he tries to wake me up or make a point plays with my toes and kinda jokes about it. just wondering if i should bide my time and go for it at some point or just keep it underwraps and if he wants to let him go for it. he does have a girlfriend but they don't anything like anything ever so maybe he could use a hand i just don't know what i want to do and what i should do
 
Keep letting him make the first move. I don't think your friend is straight at all. Matter of fact I think he is way into you. The person I really feel sorry for is the girlfriend. He's totally wasting her time.
 
really? you guys would say or think he is into me? I don't think so but that could be the case, like he does have a girlfriend and they are "in love" and they seem pretty together and look to be staying together to me like they have a few years invested so idk. if he were into me that would be awesome :P but i would have to say i don't think he is, at least not enough to drop her for me. but regardless i would still love to be physically closer to him more often i am very attracted in certain situations to him and i dunno he seems to be the same way towards me but i think the idea of being gay or whatever freaks him out and makes him uncomfortable so if all else maybe just experimenting would work but im not sure. I'm very confused by him.
 
If he is as good a friend as you say you should get really serious with him and ask him if he is curious about having sex with a guy. If you are curious also it would be better to talk about it first. That way if you do anything together it would just be exploring your curiosities together. I really think talking about it before doing it would keep the friendship going.
 
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