Your views seem pretty honest and down to earth. Maybe you could go have a talk with some of my "straight" friends who mess around with another guy, proclaim that they "liked it and would do it again", and then totally freak out and go nuts.
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Straight but likes sex with guys
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Peterdragin
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I got tired of explaining why I was bisexual, so I just tell 'em I'm queer that likes to fuck women!
bijockdude
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Hey guy I don't like to include sex in a description; I a bi passionate as it truly depends on the person and the connection and jump on it love a smooth pink hole be it an ass or a pussy..and prefer a smooth sac
you just did
I'm with ya. I'm "straight" but do get very turned on by guys. I would like to be fucked (never have been), and I wish we men were as fortunate as women in that we could be openly bi without fear of ridicule from both gays and straights.
sigh.
sigh.
Spiff
Reality goggles required
I identify myself as Superman. I can't fly nor am I faster than a speeding bullet. No matter. I still identify myself as Superman, so I am Superman. So there.
You're also an asshole.
I generally prescribe to the idea that having sex with a man doesn't make me gay. My attraction to men is what makes me gay. I like kissing women. I'm not attracted to them, but they're softer and some of them are really good at it. It's not about attraction, it's sensory. I've never gone farther with a woman, but I could, and maybe one day will find myself in a situation where I do. Unless my attraction to them has changed, I'll consider myself gay, because just because I'm trying something or finding that someone of the sex I'm not attracted to is good at working my body doesn't mean I'm now attracted to them. I'm attracted to what they can do. My body can't tell the difference, just my mind, which is why men are hot to me - because my mind wants them. My body will take whatever feels good, and both sexes are capable of that (with time, experience, dedication, talent, etc...). That's why I'm not surprised you liked to get fucked by guys, because while women can simulate it, a penis is pretty specific to men, and men will often naturally dedicate themselves to learning how to use it. Doesn't make you bi - it makes you annally-aware, if you will. If you legitimately find yourself attracted to the men attached to those penises, or inside those bodies, then you may want to consider your sexuality more, if you want a label. I do agree that labels aren't necessary, but they are often nice. As humans, we naturally categorize and gravitate toward groups with which we feel aligned. It's easier when they're labeled, though we must beware how we limit ourselves.
Anyway, I hope that's helpful.
Anyway, I hope that's helpful.
AlmondMilk
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Yup! F labels! I have to say that's kinda hot, haha.
Enjoying sex with men and women is BI saying your straight is in denial, maybe your living straight, but having gay sex, like me, once you admit I'm BI you'll feel better, even if you only admit it to yourself, It worked for me, I'm married with kids and love being fucked by men
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You know, it takes some to break that curse. I'd be much happier if guys like you were open about yourself rather than "shamefully" secret. Then we can open this dialog again and get on equal footing.
There's a difference between being ashamed and being concerned about the consequences of honestly.
I am not ashamed that I enjoy penises and fantasize sometimes about having one up my ass anymore than I am ashamed that I like to bury my face between my girlfriend's legs and eat her until she can barely move.
But the level of consequence if other people knew is entirely different. If the latter were to come to light, I am sure some people would consider it "too much information".
If the case of the former, I'd lose friends, possibly family members, and maybe even my girlfriend, the love of my life, DESPITE the fact that she herself has on more than one occassion expressed her own curiosity while under the influence.
It's not fair, but I am not prepared to be a martyr.
Interesting.. is there a particular reason you don't like dating men? Is it you think they will act feminine? There are butch guys out there too..
I totally agree with the people who say that sex doesn't make or break your orientation. I think orientation and sexuality should be two distinct terms. Who you have sex with is not necessarily who you want to romantically involve yourself with. I tend to get with curious guys more than I really should, but it's easy, NSA, and really, really hot. That doesn't mean I want to date them. Why should it be any different if you like a penis as opposed to a vag sometime? It really shouldn't matter. As long as you're aware of what you're interested in sexually and also what you're interested in romantically, there shouldn't be any real issue. I think that if this were the prevailing attitude, a LOT more straight guys would fool around with guys because let's face it, we want to have sex a lot more and it's a lot less fuss.
