Straight Co-worker

[Keybladecub]

So I have this coworker who I'm very much attracted to. We started at our job together, he's an older guy, in his 50's I believe, handsome in my eyes, nice round big belly, goatee, great smile.

Anyways, I've been curious to know if he would ever let a man touch him, stroke him or suck him. He's single, we've worked together a good amount in our two years at the job and I've heard him talk about females and such. But my question would be if it was possible,... how would I go about asking or some how hinting at him, if he would basically want a hand/blow job?

There's actually 2 other guys I would definitely want to try and get with but I wouldn't want to get in trouble obviously, especially when ones a supervisor.

 

[Eagle653]

You probably know that, in general, it's playing with fire to come on to people you work with (men or women). The complications can be career-altering.

That said, about the only thing you can do is come out to the co-worker if you haven't already. You could even casually mention what your "type" is. If he's interested too, he could take that as a hint and pursue it (hopefully discretely). If he doesn't, there's really nothing else you should do.

Being any more direct about wanting to give him a handjob/blowjob could land you in all sorts of hot water, up to and including claims of sexual harassment by making him feel uncomfortable and creating a "hostile work environment." Unfortunately, this happens in this day and age.

If you just matter of factly discuss yourself, without hinting of involving him, it would probably be taken as a matter of personal disclosure. How he reacts to this disclosure might include rejection of you, or a "that's nice" attitude, or might lead to things he wants to divulge too.

Again, you're on thin ice and anything you say must be thought out as to any possible ramifications. Personally, I wouldn't do it, but I know every situation is different.

Good luck. Let us know what you decide to do and what happens.

 

[mrpiggie]

hang out with him after work..get a drink..see if you have common interests and earn his trust.

 

[Pierresro]

Be Careful.......

 

[gayvga]

So much risk!
Think about your career.

 

[ballcaphair]

I'm an "only my friends know," guy. One guy that I work with is beautiful, but I'd never come on to him. He doesn't know and I would never tell because jobs are too valuable, especially if you love what you do. My advice is don't complicate things.

 

[mcbrion]

Curiosity killed the cat. And it might kill you, too.
Given the current environment is afire around sexual innuendo/harrassment/rape, you're foolish if you do anything other than think these things.
Do people at work know you're gay, because other than just mentioning that you are gay (which, I'm thinking, you haven't done), there is no way anyone is going to take a "would-you-ever-let..." approach lightly. There's a witch hunt mentality going on, and you picked NOW to entertain these ideas??? Have you not been reading the news where, every other day, someone accuses something of coming on to them? And you want to do it at work? That is living way, way dangerously.