straight couples turn me off!

[RenaissanceMan]

only guys really understand guys!

I know there's lots of guys who don't understand me...

I like seeing couples who are in love, yet keep their love-making private. I don't like when I see a couple who are getting really mushy and their eyes make them seem like they're having an orgasm somewhere deep, deep inside. Then it's REALLY awkward for anyone around...because you really can't relate to that particular "wonderful moment" with those two particular people. (I'm talking about those people who don't just make out or what not...but seem to be having tantric sex on the subway...though making out is unnecessary too).

Equally annoying are fake preteen relationships...

 

[justsimon]

Well, straight or gay, seeing any couple getting into the heavy shit in public is a little off-putting. I don't mind seeing the occasional peck and things like that, but if I see a couple sitting on a bench in the middle of the mall going at it, it's just a little rude and disrespectful, in my opinion.

I ignore it, though. I mean it's not something that's gonna ruin my day or anything. But ya know? Take it home. Not everyone wants to see it and there are kids about.

Ditto........

 

[kurtwild]

Great attitude

Heterophobics, Homophobics, etc.....I hate them all

no man,im not heterophobic,it just seems to me that they dont fit together!(there is a girl in my univerity,she is my friend,she is straight but agrees with me.there was a beautiful guy who wanted her and i dont know how,but after talking with him she made him date me!)

 

[kurtwild]

i dont know.
i love it when i see to hot guys kissing.it seems beautiful to me and sexy and they make me happy!

but if there is a girl in the pic then it ruins it all!jak!

 

[teh_nathan]

I don't quite understand that (but who am I to judge) - if someone's happy with who they're with, that's their thing and it's none of my business.

 

[kurtwild]

i know its none of my business but i still find it very ugly!

 

[teh_nathan]

I'm going to say this again. This has got to be the lamest, most non-intelligent thread in the whole history of JUB. It's stupid, judgemental, shallow, just plain idiotic...

What two people decide to do with their lives is absolutely none of our business - and we call ourselves gay (or some of us bi) and we don't like homophobia - this is the complete opposite - heterophobia - and it's just as bad.

Try to think about this (with your brains, that's why we have them) and think about how wrong it is to do this. How exactly do two people doing what makes them happy really impact on your daily life? It doesn't.

It took two straight people (or maybe otherwise for all I know, but living a straight lifestyle) to conceive you in the first place.

 

[kurtwild]

ok man,take it easy.if you think the thread is stupid then just stop visiting it.


and too girls kissing seems ugly to me too!

just to guys is fine!
only that turns me on.the point is that there are so many straight couples!

i think they brainwash people to be straight.education and advertisments and movies and everything tell them what to do,they learn them to be straight.

why?its ugly!dont they get it?

 

[Candyapple]

ok man,take it easy.if you think the thread is stupid then just stop visiting it.


and too girls kissing seems ugly to me too!

just to guys is fine!
only that turns me on.the point is that there are so many straight couples!

i think they brainwash people to be straight.education and advertisments and movies and everything tell them what to do,they learn them to be straight.

why?its ugly!dont they get it?

No they don't, because astonishingly enough, it's not 'ugly' TO THEM. They enjoy it, because, guess what, they're straight, they LIKE kissing the opposite sex. And guess what else? YOU may think kissing girls is disgusting and ugly, but a majority of men in the world disagree with you.

People are brainwashed into being straight? Really? How does that work then? How come it didn't work on you? How does that fit in with 'sexuality is not a choice'?

I'm straight, and a woman, and I have to tell you that the theory that I've been 'brainwashed' is offensive. I couldn't possibly care less if you think that kissing girls is nasty, but you have to accept that other people don't agree. If you don't like to see straight couples kissing, DON'T WATCH THEM. Look away. I hate watching people eat each other alive in public too, but they're pretty easy to avoid.

 

[kurtwild]

not brainwashed,e?if you knew you were,then you wouldnt be.

as far as i can remember in all the fairytails my dad was reading me there was a good girl that finally was getting the good prince!
it was never a boy getting the prince?why is that so?
the advertisments show happy families,a nice woman married to a nice man and they have 2 happy children!wow,thats how life should be?

why dose it seem totally creapy to me?

also movies that are allowed for kids have never something to do with gay people,why is that?
children books with gay protagonists are being banned from the libraries!
is being gay,dirty?who says that?
why will children get scared if they see a gay couple and not if they see a straight one?

why is the church teaching us that gay people are sinners?who said that?


Watson said that kids are Tabula Rasa,so if you d give him a kid he could make it exactlly how he wanted to.

i insist,people are taught to be straight!

 

[RenaissanceMan]

i insist,people are taught to be straight!

Someone needs a lesson in biology...

There are straight animals...they didn't read fairytales when they were little, they're acting by animal instinct.

 

[slnattak]

I agree that you should simply live and let live, but it's not entirely true that all gay people come from straight people. My dad is bisexual for, instance, and my mom is straight.

Kissing girls is a bit 'disgusting' to me personally (because it always feels like I'm kissing my sister), but fingering and having sex with them isn't. I can say I'm gay, which is generally true, but girls can be great to me if they know how to be a bit forceful.... I just don't really have good synergy with girls - excuse me, women, that are too submissive and expect the guy to do everything.

I think I'm attracted to dominance and certain souls, rather than the gender of the person itself.

Sexuality is complex, fluid, changes rapidily...which makes some people uncomfortable for some reason. But...my heart beats fast, and I get excited, if I meet the right person. I think gender has little to do with love, affection, and sexual desire. I believe we're all bisexuals very, very strongly - since most people seem to be attracted to some superficial label instead of the real person inside.

 

[RenaissanceMan]

first of all, i do not consider myself an "animal".

there are straight animals, but also gay animals.
animals are not couples, but have sex to reproduce, and they dont get married or something.

In a scientific context, you are an animal anyway...a rather intelligent and "cultured" animal, but an animal none-the-less.

My point was: at some point, a man and woman ARE going to get together by instinct, not by any brain-washing or learned behaviour (at least definitely not by reading books or watching movies). It's ridiculous to say this behaviour is taught, except maybe to satirize people who say "gay behaviour" is learned.

besides, animals live in groups of the same sex and in not in married families.

Not all animals do this (ex. gorillas). They don't live in "married families" because marriage doesn't apply to them...but they definitely form analogous "families".

The only brain-washing I can imagine there being is culture: how men SHOULD act, how women SHOULD act (ie. form monogamous relationships, men should be masculine, women feminine, man should in some sense serve the woman, the woman should serve the man in other senses, etc.). Sexuality at the core is too strong to be swayed that easily by society, but how that sexuality is played out in life can be.

if you think the thread is stupid then just stop visiting it.

and the worst comes when they start kissing and making out! i really have to look away!

I guess there's nothing you can do but keep doing this (take your own advice and look away). Many are doing the same with you. Everyone's even. Everyone should be happy.

 

[kurtwild]

i have never felt attracted to a girl and i never will!
i love dicks!
and not everyone in this world has to reproduce.

besides the difference between man and animals is their brains.
lions are strong, eagles can fligh high and man has no other strength but his brains!
the man can think and choose!

and many many animals,especially some species are very gay.and i mean that they even kill females if they near them.

i was allways good in biology,allways had an A!

anyway the point is that i love boys on boys!and cant stand girls with boys,and im really really trying to look away,but i cant walk with my eyes closed.they are everywhere!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Riverrick]

i have never felt attracted to a girl and i never will!
i love dicks!
and not everyone in this world has to reproduce.

I do understand how you feel Kurt. They rammed girls down our throats the entire time we were growing up and you just get so sick of it that it feels good to shout from the mountaintops that we love guys and don't care an iota about girls.

And because we're so sick of it, its pretty easy to turn all of that anger towards anything straight. I know because I feel that way myself frequently.

 

[Danugh]

If the guy isnt hot then i dont care but if he is hot then im like "lucky bitch" in reference to the girl that gets to ride him and wake up in his arms day after day and have him penetrate her and pump sperm into her and get her pregnant and have a fmaily and get married and live happily ever after.

 

[Riverrick]

Okay...to give you guys some comfort and stop your "drowning in selfpity"...


Imagine....there are women with unhappy relationships...Imagine, some men are real assholes...drug abuse, violence, cheating, or to quote newboy "pump sperm into her" ( < that`s so romantic ) and if she gets pregnant he says: Goodbye my love

And to be married, to have kids...that`s not a guaranty to live "happily"

It`s hard work to have a good relationship...straight, gay or whatever...

I know it`s not easy for all of you...but please...a bit more objectiveness.


And please don`t get me wrong....I LIKE gay men...I just don`t like certain attitudes.

I appreciate your insight and, of course, you are completely correct.

But the forum serves also as a place to just get some feelings out. And as a gay man, sometimes that means lashing back at the straight world and being totally selfish and self absorbed when we do it. Other than in the company of gay men (which a lot of these guys have no access to), where else can they do such a thing? And why should they not do it here?

I think the more these guys say this stuff the less its going to affect them later. God knows there's stuff I need to get out and move past too.

 

[kurtwild]

I do understand how you feel Kurt. They rammed girls down our throats the entire time we were growing up and you just get so sick of it that it feels good to shout from the mountaintops that we love guys and don't care an iota about girls.

And because we're so sick of it, its pretty easy to turn all of that anger towards anything straight. I know because I feel that way myself frequently.

thanks for understanding mate!
you are probably right!
i dont wanna be mean i just really feel turned off.dont do it on purpose!

 

[kurtwild]

If the guy isnt hot then i dont care but if he is hot then im like "lucky bitch" in reference to the girl that gets to ride him and wake up in his arms day after day and have him penetrate her and pump sperm into her and get her pregnant and have a fmaily and get married and live happily ever after.

im not jealous of them. im sooooooooooooooo glad im a guy.
its just that i pitty men.
see,for me a pregnant woman and a "happy" family seems creepy and i dont like it.
i think that men and women have different critirials for happiness.
(there are ofcours exceptions but just a few.)