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Straight Coworker Flirting

I agree with EternalDarkness: Curiosity really did kill a cat, once. And, goodness knows, we don't need anymore dead cats.

But Tyler, I feel your pain, dude. At one of my 2 jobs (a restaurant) I just quit, there was this brash yet drop-dead adorable country boy, "Jed" (let it be known that I did not quit over him -- I ain't THAT crazy as to leave a job just over a man ..| ). Well, Wednesday night when we worked on the late night shift together, I had just brought our supervisor something she'd asked me to get for her from the walk-in freezer/cooler. We had just gotten through a rush of food orders and, as a result of having to focus solely on those orders, fell behind in our nightly chores (doing dishes, sweeping, mopping, etc). Well we all got to talking and before I knew what had hit me, this dude (which I know for a fact is 100% hetero -- I've met his girlfriend) steps into my personal space, wraps his muscular right arm around my shoulder and neck, gets right up in my face and says something (about which I've completely forgotten). It is all I could do at that point to mentally/internally force my body not to pop wood right there on the spot. My (now former) supervisor (she's bi) and I joked and giggled like schoolchildren when we took the trash to the dumpster back behind the building, later that night.

I still, days later, don't know how I did it, but somehow I restrained the stallion within me so as not to completely scare this straight guy off. Believe me when I tell you that the thoughts of what would have happened if I had the gall to kiss him and what would have happened afterward is enough to give me enough "sweet dreams" every night for the next 2 to 3 months at least. *|*

Judging by what you say, it seems you have a really cool friendship with this guy. Two things: A >> those types of friendships are really hard to find in this life, so B >> don't do ANYTHING that would dare ruin what you already have.
 
straight guys "flirt" with other guys all the time. it's how you show you feel comfortable around someone.

don't tell me you've never flirted with a female friend of yours. doesn't mean you secretly wanted to make out with her.
 
Wrestle him after XBox time, and see.

I agree with star-warrior... "Innocently" wrestling with a buddy has got me laid on several occasions. Just tackle his ass in playful way and see what happens. If you can't seem to let go of each other, both get hardons, and somehow his tongue falls into your mouth, that's a pretty good indication that theres more than just feelings of friendship between you.

Don't worry about him being engaged. It's better it happens now before he gets married. Who knows? Maybe it will even save his wife-to-be some future agony.
 
straight guys "flirt" with other guys all the time. it's how you show you feel comfortable around someone.

Being comfortable is one thing. Fighting off physical arousal and trying to regain self-control is quite another. ;) :D "Oh, kiss me Jed!" :kiss: But I digress.

Anywho, do let us know what happens, TylerKid
 
Been there...done that. Keep it on a friendship basis only...trust me ](*,)
 
straight guys "flirt" with other guys all the time. it's how you show you feel comfortable around someone.

I've noticed that too. And you're right, they are comfortable with who they are and with that person. I wish more people are like that.
 
If they're comfortable with who they are, they'll joke around. If he has feelings for you, let him make the first move. But remember, he's engaged. don't become his play thing.
 
Try to focus on the good: you have a friend who you can hang with and talk to. Sounds to me like you have a little crush, and that's normal, but it's always important to keep your bearings and perspective around a straight guy. Trust me, leads to no good things if you don't.

Try to enjoy the friendship and not focus on the warm fuzzies!

Good advice.

I'm in a similar situation with a guy at work, except he isn't engaged. "Greg" (that's initially what I thought his name) was one of the first people to introduce himself to me at my new job (he's a cook and I'm a server) that I started seven months ago. This guy is gorgeous, he has a "playa" look to him but is school oriented. Our interactions with one another were brief, simple acknowledgements that then proceeded to conversations about one another -- discovering that we have the same exact sense of humor, constantly making one another laugh -- and our personal goals for the future. Yesterday he and I went to Magic Mountain, after he invited me to go with him, and I discovered that even though I have a crush on this guy and with the demented slice of my brain telling me I could probably seduce him into bed, I'm very happy with the fact I have a really good friend. I certainly wouldn't want to do anything to jeopardize that.


straight guys "flirt" with other guys all the time. it's how you show you feel comfortable around someone.

don't tell me you've never flirted with a female friend of yours. doesn't mean you secretly wanted to make out with her.

I agree with this too. The bulk of my conversations with "Greg" for example are very flirtatious in nature. Being that I'm really str8-acting, I find myself flirting with girls all the time, even though I have no interest in them sexually.
 
It's hard to update when you're having hot bunny sex 24/7.

Or when your co-worker's fiancee' is chasing you with a shotgun for screwing up her wedding? :p
 
... I dunno what to do?!?!

There's nothing more to do!

Straight and married all in the same sentence. That seems to say it all right there...bad news! "Covet from afar", take it for what it is, and continue bein' that good friends that you are.
 
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