I'm just curious on how to met guys like myself. Im straight but bi curious.. Not sure what i'm into but looking to try anything at lease once. i know im bi becuase a nice dick turns me on. i just dont know how to find someone thats normal and real. i hate craigslist becuase its shady and i got all old people emailing me
So tell me your story on how you met your first and what you did?
Thanks and if you can post a pic of your cock i would love it
My first was my childhood best friend. And that came from being at the right place at the right time so to speak.
We always had that type of friendship where people thought we actually were a couple. I mean his mom when he started dating his now wife was shocked because she thought he had been with me for years and made peace with that. She felt it went without saying because it didn't change how she felt about either of us and she was happy someone loved her son and made him happy.
In was only in hindsight that I saw what everyone else saw and realized what amazingly special woman my friend's mom was/is.
We were friends 10 years before anything overtly sexual happened between us and I'm sorry to say it was because alcohol lowered our inhibitions. And things were weird right after because in that moment I saw what I wanted, which was him and the life we apparently already had.
He didn't agree. He told me he loved me like he's never loved anyone else or ever will again and he wished with all he had that he was gay or at least bi so he could be with me because as it stood, he couldn't get into the sex. He explained that he loved me and was attracted to various aspects of my person, but it was the equipment that held him up and that he was so sorry. But I couldn't have him apologize for who he was anymore than he could me. Luckily, we worked past it and are close friends who consider each other family now.
Sorry, it wasn't my intention to hijack your thread. I have tried to replicate that comfort/experience without much success. There's craigslist which I agree is too shady, but there are some exceptions. Manhunt is another choice and gay.com is another. Everyone of those place are gonna have creeps and trolls just looking to conquest and go.
What would be the most sensible thing to do is evaluate what you want. You say normal, but what is that to you? Does a normal guy watch football and drink beer? Does a normal guy have a wife and kids? You where I'm going with this?
Basically say:
Hey - I'm Bicurious with limited M4M experiences. I'm looking to explore this part of my sexuality with someone who is on or near my same level. I'll try anything once- when the time is right. In the meantime I'd like to take it easy and explore my comfort levels. - Or something to that effect. Let them know what you want, what you're willing to work with, and what will be a deal breaker.
Following that line of reasoning you should be able to post even in craigslist and find a diamond in the rough.
Words like "straight" "bi curious" "inexperienced" are all buzz words on predatory creeps' radars. Pepper those words in among other words and sentences that signal to them that while you may be curious and inexperienced, you are by no means helpless prey who doesn't know what he wants or needs.
Hope to see you around here awhile 
