"Straight except for the sex part"

[kaos66iii]

Are you being serious with this post? Because if you are, I would assume that you think every gay or bi man out there has to be a stereotype. If he likes having sex with men then he is gay, or bi, and there are alot of gay and bi guys out there who don't fall into the preceived notion of the queen. And the whole notion that you have to act a certain way to be part of a community is just not right.

 

[Rex]

I've been trying to find a guy like that but it's hard. Most of them are bi and only have sex with guys occasionally or to experiment, atleast the ones I knew of.

 

[kingkhan]

Well, you know... bi now gay later.

I feel sometimes I am becoming gay, cock is just kind of addicting.
But, women to me are just so beautiful and caring and sexy I just couldn't turn that attraction off. Sometimes I think it would be easier to be gay but, oh well.

 

[bulge]

Str8 except for the sex part, there are lots of guys like that. Most of my friends are. They are mostly married, but admit they only married as it was the thing to do then, altough they were onlly attracted to men. They have children and are very caring fathers as well. And yes, they play football, work on cars, cann't cook, etc... and don't identify at all with gayness. In no way. Some are even very fiercely against anything gay. I often tell them homophobia is so gay.

 

[phillypornlover]

I actually do know a guy like this. He likes to blow me on occasion.

That description doesn't really fit me but everyone seems to assume I'm straight until I tell them otherwise. Even had a few women think I was joking with them when I told them I was actually gay. I'm a masculine guy, and I don't go to gay bars or clubs or anything like that (don't go to bars or clubs in general really). As for that list, I actually don't watch or play sports, I don't know shit about cars, I can't cook (except for scrambled eggs or things I can put into the oven), I'm not very good with an iron, and I'm not a beer drinker. But these things can apply to anyone, gay or straight.

I've been trying to find a guy like that but it's hard. Most of them are bi and only have sex with guys occasionally or to experiment, atleast the ones I knew of.

Unfortunately I'm usually attracted to this type of guy, but haven't had much luck. Had a fuck buddy thing going with a guy who was a little more like me, but he was seriously closeted (like "come over after 2am" closeted). Not sure a relationship would work with him. And another guy I met who might fit this description even more, was married. So that went nowhere.

 

[KevinRG]

Know any guys like that? They are stereotypically straight guys in their lifestyle, but they have sex with guys instead of girls. I know one, never had sex with him, but he watches a lot of football, works on cars, can't cook, doesn't know how to iron a shirt, drinks beer, willing to wrestle as foreplay, then has hot sex with a guy, then goes right back to the next football game. If you passed him on the street you would never in a million years guess that he loves cock. Know anyone like this?

I do know a guy just like you described above. He only comes over when he's horny. There's nothing in it for me really. After he cums, he usually just get up, get dressed and leaves. It gets tiring after a while.

 

[PhoenixRandall]

Still sounds stereotypical to me - not all gay or bi guys are feminine. Gay does not equal purse carrying, eye-liner wearing, sashaying freak...but unfortunatley the young guys that so uncomfortable with who they are have helped to solidify that stereotype.

THe majority of my gay friends are all as masculine, 'straight' acting, etc. as you describe. You wouldn't know any of us were gay until you started peeping into our bedrooms at night.

Football, sports, cars, beers, etc. and the liking of these things have NO bearing on sexuality - at all!!

I'm sorry the purse wielding fems of the world have earned and maintained the stereotype for the rest of the gay community, but you have to see past that bullshit and realize that we aren't all freaks!

 

[hotlatinchulo348]

Still sounds stereotypical to me - not all gay or bi guys are feminine. Gay does not equal purse carrying, eye-liner wearing, sashaying freak...but unfortunatley the young guys that so uncomfortable with who they are have helped to solidify that stereotype.

THe majority of my gay friends are all as masculine, 'straight' acting, etc. as you describe. You wouldn't know any of us were gay until you started peeping into our bedrooms at night.

Football, sports, cars, beers, etc. and the liking of these things have NO bearing on sexuality - at all!!

I'm sorry the purse wielding fems of the world have earned and maintained the stereotype for the rest of the gay community, but you have to see past that bullshit and realize that we aren't all freaks!

lol Exactly!!!

 

[boxerdudeuk]

Still sounds stereotypical to me - not all gay or bi guys are feminine. Gay does not equal purse carrying, eye-liner wearing, sashaying freak...but unfortunatley the young guys that so uncomfortable with who they are have helped to solidify that stereotype.

THe majority of my gay friends are all as masculine, 'straight' acting, etc. as you describe. You wouldn't know any of us were gay until you started peeping into our bedrooms at night.

Football, sports, cars, beers, etc. and the liking of these things have NO bearing on sexuality - at all!!

I'm sorry the purse wielding fems of the world have earned and maintained the stereotype for the rest of the gay community, but you have to see past that bullshit and realize that we aren't all freaks!

TOTALLY. that's me in a nutshell. you wouldn't know unless you saw in my bedroom.

 

[pjboy]

There are also a lot of bi guys like me who have the physical/sexual attraction to other guys, but only develop emotional feelings for the opposite gender. It kinda make us Bi when it comes to sex but straight when it comes to relationships.

 

[Telstra]

Well, you know... bi now gay later.

... bi now pay later

 

[Telstra]

Str8 except for the sex part, there are lots of guys like that. Most of my friends are. They are mostly married, but admit they only married as it was the thing to do then, altough they were onlly attracted to men. They have children and are very caring fathers as well. And yes, they play football, work on cars, cann't cook, etc... and don't identify at all with gayness. In no way. Some are even very fiercely against anything gay. I often tell them homophobia is so gay.

ONLY attracted to men ?
jeee they should not get married, but yeah life is too complicated.

 

[Bi Married Male]

That is the only type of gay guy I will have sex with. I am also like that. You can find them on craigslist or at adult book stores. . Butch with wedding bands on and won't stop a guy from coming in a private booth to suck his cock or even reciprocate on occasion. It's all so hot...Then back to being straight again till the urge comes again. With craigslist you have to specify that type and trust me they will come!!!

 

[Sofa-King]

I usually prefer girls when I'm in a relationship, and I mostly hang out with straight guys. Only a few people know I'm bi, cus I don't want my friends to know.

I don't find many guys physically attractive like girls, and I don't really like kissing guys. Its just the sex that I like, so I guess I fit your question

 

[Telstra]

That is the only type of gay guy I will have sex with. I am also like that. You can find them on craigslist or at adult book stores. . Butch with wedding bands on and won't stop a guy from coming in a private booth to suck his cock or even reciprocate on occasion. It's all so hot...Then back to being straight again till the urge comes again. With craigslist you have to specify that type and trust me they will come!!!

private booth is sooo un-comfortable with no washing ?
I guess no where else to have fun accept small space like booth.

 

[954dude]

I do know of two guys in particular. Hard working attractive men that don't disclose their sexuality and always get hit on by women. Yet, they only sleep with men.

Both have admitted to liking the fact that people consider them straight. Apparently, those in their life don't look down upon them. Doesn't help that they are closeted.

It seems to make them happy. I couldn't live like that myself though.

 

[Raincoat Massacre]

Are you being serious with this post? Because if you are, I would assume that you think every gay or bi man out there has to be a stereotype. If he likes having sex with men then he is gay, or bi, and there are alot of gay and bi guys out there who don't fall into the preceived notion of the queen. And the whole notion that you have to act a certain way to be part of a community is just not right.

Geeze newb, chill out....