Straight friend is making inquiry into gay sex with him?

[natedogg323]

Simon,

I would stay out of that mess. You sound like you want to do the right thing and not ruin a "happy marriage". Even if its not happy and even if you all think he's gay, its still between him and his wife. I'm sure you've talked with the guy about his sexuality Its sad though that just cause his wife is severely overweight that he might not love her. Maybe you should be trying to help her get some medical attention for her weight?

Keep us posted.

 

[CGHJ]

I apologize too...and in a simple statement of opinion, it seems like a bad situation. I could be wrong, but something just doesn't feel right - and that may be moral or situational.

Okay, back on track I agree. I think even with the best of intentions, and even though I can see where it could conceptually be OK...I've been around long enough to be wary of a situation like this. Even if the first time they do it it's great and everybody's happy...it's only curing the symptoms, not the disease. They should not be married, he should just come out of the closet and get on with his life. She's probably afriad of being alone and is willing to watch her husband smoke pole as long as she has someone to watch TV with...but that's just avoiding reality.

 

[simon]

He sent me a picture of his dick. asked me what I thought? It is nice, 8"@least.! Then we talked privately, he wants me 2 tell her No! Then in the same breath wants me 2 meet him @ a motel. He wants to suck me and be the top. He is sexy, & only 25. I told him I will tell her Noway! He said she is just testing him,to see if he is gay? I'm thinking hard about the motel tho? I'm gonna tell her he's not my type and that he Loves her,not guys .!

 

[looseliam]

Alright ladies and germs. The topic at hand seems to be getting away from some.

While this isn't an on-topic forum, let us stick to the spirit of the thread.

I hate to sound like my mother (or look like her for that matter), but if you've nothing nice to say, keep it to yourself.

I now return you to your regularly scheduled thread.

 

[quasar]

...I just dont take crap from anyone in here!! Got that?!

And neither do we. You are the weakest link - goodbye!

 

[simon]

OMG! My apology 2 one and all. I was asking for you my "brothers" opinions on this subject? I don't want you 2 fight with eachother and get banned?! I am truly sorry 4 even posting this question! I Love all you guys and respect your advice, good or bad?

 

[CGHJ]

He sent me a picture of his dick. asked me what I thought? It is nice, 8"@least.! Then we talked privately, he wants me 2 tell her No! Then in the same breath wants me 2 meet him @ a motel. He wants to suck me and be the top. He is sexy, & only 25. I told him I will tell her Noway! He said she is just testing him,to see if he is gay? I'm thinking hard about the motel tho? I'm gonna tell her he's not my type and that he Loves her,not guys .!

Danger! Danger! He's about to lie to her, then cheat on her, and then you're going to lie to her. 3 strikes and Karma is up to bat. Run! There's plenty of dick in the world, you don't need to stick yours in this blender, no matter how tempting it might be.

 

[CGHJ]

OMG! My apology 2 one and all. I was asking for you my "brothers" opinions on this subject? I don't want you 2 fight with eachother and get banned?! I am truly sorry 4 even posting this question! I Love all you guys and respect your advice, good or bad?

Hey Simon, don't you worry about it. You has a legit question we were happy to help you with...hopefully we were some help. We're certainly not fighting with each other...in fact, we banded together to reject an infection! The system works

 

[ladygrey]

OMG

this is why I love JUB. Normaly, I just walk quickly by people like you, maybe even surpress a shudder, but on Jub, I can safely puruse your life without catching anything dangerous(not really funny in light of today's news stories).

But I must offer my opinion......

Namely, get the hell out of there as fast as you freaking can. WOW! Can you say "divorce lawyers"? Also, how about "Ted Bundy"?

I mean, the guy is always HARD when he talks to you? WTF? If someone walked up to me with a huge boner, I'd be more freaked out than interested. How do you know they aren't going to kill you and dump the body over the freeway?

This has bad, wrong, and crazy written all over it. Just say no. FOR THE LOVE OF JUDY, just say no.

and then run. And change your name. Possible even move.

*shudders*

 

[lyconthrope]

"danger will robinson, danger!"

"just say no"

their issues are their own, dont let yourself get sucked in (so to speak) especially since it started out as asking you to do something where the 3 of you would be present, and has now changed to "dont tell the wife, meet me in room 69"

 

[Piquechampion]

Say what????

 

[simon]

I'm gonna go with not doing anything him? Although it is tempting 2 be with him? I love both and can't hurt them! He is GAY and needs to tell her! She's just fat and eating all the time? She made him sit with her &watch the porn. After that she said they had great sex! He just blushed told her to shut up! She think its funny? I just wonder how they do it? Nevermind, that'd be something I don't want to picture?!

 

[CGHJ]

I'm gonna go with not doing anything him?

Wise man. It's too bad cuz he sounds cute, you would end up regretting it later for sure. There's lots of hot guys out there...and plenty of porn

He does need to admit to her that he's gay though and go on from there. She already knows.

 

[Ninja108]

Stay the heck away from this. Only one way this will wind up and big hint, you won't come out on top.

 

[PreTTy PeTe]

ok let get this right

he hot and his wife weighs a quarter of a ton.

they're having sex and marital problems.

you think

now simon you go and get yourself a cute rentboy and forget about this mess

 

[KennyD]

If you get involved with him sexually in any way while he is still married ... then they break up etc ... they will BOTH blame YOU .
Stay out of it and mind your own business ... If he wants to cheat with you; tell him that you are interested ; BUT not until they are LEGALLY seperated and working on divorce ....
If you got with him now ... the wife could legally come after you for "Alienation of affection" IF she wanted to be a bitch ....
Good Luck !!

 

[woaini]

I guess this couple is open-minded~ so it may not be a deal to them~~

 

[natedogg323]

I guess this couple is open-minded~ so it may not be a deal to them~~

It might be ok with them NOW. But after the fact peoples feelings change. Not too mention that Simon would have to live with himself knowing that he had sex with a married man. If they get a divorce it'll be on his conscience forever. Unless that kind of thing doesn't bother him? All I'm saying is there is sooooo much that can go wrong with this. I'm all for Simon helping the guy realize he's gay. If the chick wants him to help, WITHOUT SUCKING HIS DICK, then he should do it.

 

[yuty]

FOUR HUNDRED AND THIRTY- FIVE POUNDS?!?!

I theorize that the poor man is one of the few humans in the world who's genetic code rewrote itself into a homosexual out of sheer disgust....

She's probably bed-ridden for god's sake. Her shins and knees simply can't sustain the weight...

 

[dfwjacker]

I agree with whoever said this sounds like the beginning of a Jerry Springer episode.

Anyway... She's the one that brought up the subject. If you really want to do it, just be honest and tell her you want to mess around with her husband without her around. What's the worst that can happen? She can say no, but she can't really be offended. After all, she's the one that asked you to suck her husband off.