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Straight Friend just blew me, and I didn't cum. What's wrong with me?

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So I have a friend who's in town. He comes periodically to visit and we've fooled around before as kids, but never as adults. And we legit don't talk about anything we did as kids. It was mostly jerking each other off and blowjobs as preteens/teens.

But any way flashforward 10 years later, we're both in our late 20s, he's hella hot, but in a REALLY bad relationship with the mother of his child. Who lives with him, refuses to put out, and gives him shit for looking at other girls. He's in town on leave to visit family and friends, and he's crashing at my place for the duration of the visit.

To put this night into context, we've been drinking, finished a bit of Crown I had in my freezer, we compared dick sizes, and after a bit of ego-boosting about who has the bigger dick, he offered to trade blowjobs because we're both in a severe dry spell.
When he walked into my room, he's gonna be sleeping on the couch in the living room, he saw I was already jerking off and immediately started sucking my dick. But I never came.

He was doing a good enough job, the fact that he was my straight friend that I've been dying to hook up with for while had me boned up hard, but I just never came.

I suggested we switch, and I was literally in heaven as I sucked his fat dick. It was smaller than I remembered, but had the same exact taste. He came super fast, I swallowed, and we switched back to him sucking me. I was hoping the fact that I just hooked up with and swallowed this hot straight boy's cum would push me over the edge but it didn't. I just told him he could stop. But when he walked back down stairs to the couch I told him he still owed me one. But anyway to make a long rambling post short, Why didn't I cum with a hot straight guy, marine no less, blowing me?
 
Anticipation on your part killed it for you.
Next time will be different........ :badgrin:
 
You were probably too anxious and nervous and it prevented your orgasm. The next time you will be more relaxed and I am sure you will have an explosion lol !
 
Do you have trouble orgasming with a gay guy when you are being sucked?
 
probably a combination of alcohol and nerves. next time try not to drink as much if at all. youll have better luck

Steven
 
Do you have trouble orgasming with a gay guy when you are being sucked?

No, but I LOOOOVE getting head. This is seriously the first time I've never cum from some one sucking me. And you guys might be right I could have been too excited that it was finally happening. It's literally been years since I've had a shot with him. The idea of that alone probably had me too anxious. I just hope he and I can hook up again before he leaves town. A lot of planning and maneuvering went into this I would hate to have lose out :D. SMH you guys should have seen the text messages leading up :lol:
 
probably a combination of alcohol and nerves. next time try not to drink as much if at all. youll have better luck

Steven

I don't think it was a case of whiskey-dick, or I would have never got it up lol. And I'm not so sure I could cut alcohol out of the equation if I'm gonna get another shot.
 
Try sticking a finger or dildo in your ass so you get some prostate stimulation while getting sucked.
 
You clearly have anxiety about this. Plus, you place a superior value on him being 'straight' and 'a Marine.' Otherwise, you wouldn't have mentioned it, which means you feel like you have something to 'live up to' ("Wow, he's straight and a Marine (aka, 'more masculine')...I have to prove I can keep up'". Or something along those lines).

Sounds like you have a form of 'performance anxiety' when it comes to a straight guy, but not a gay guy. Stop idolizing the straight guy, and you might find you can then just enjoy the experience for itself, not as a subconscious "whose-dick-is-bigger" mindset that compels you to try to 'keep up with him' (e.g. he orgasms and you don't, so he wins this imaginary 'contest' that's in your head). You got him to orgasm; why doesn't that even strike you as really cool?
 
You clearly have anxiety about this. Plus, you place a superior value on him being 'straight' and 'a Marine.' Otherwise, you wouldn't have mentioned it, which means you feel like you have something to 'live up to' ("Wow, he's straight and a Marine (aka, 'more masculine')...I have to prove I can keep up'". Or something along those lines).

Sounds like you have a form of 'performance anxiety' when it comes to a straight guy, but not a gay guy. Stop idolizing the straight guy, and you might find you can then just enjoy the experience for itself, not as a subconscious "whose-dick-is-bigger" mindset that compels you to try to 'keep up with him' (e.g. he orgasms and you don't, so he wins this imaginary 'contest' that's in your head). You got him to orgasm; why doesn't that even strike you as really cool?

Admittedly you may have a point, he's always held a special place in my heart and memory. He was the first guy I ever messed around with so I've built him up in my head and I've always wanted another chance. But the moment has passed. He's left town again, his leave is over. And sadly before anyone asks we didn't get another chance for "Round 2" so to speak.
 
Well, there's always next time. Just chock it up to anxiety.

I rarely cum from a bj, especially if the person is particularly skilled....it's too relaxing to me, like sleeping in a hammock on a warm, sunny tropical beach with a cool breeze blowing against your naked skin.

Meanwhile, stock up on pineapple and cranberry juice.
 
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