Straight + Gay porn?

[hotlatinchulo348]

Does the type of porn you watch and look at define your sexuality? I first started out looking at straight porn and it turned me on and got me off. Then I stumbled upon the world of gay porn. Now I look at straight porn about 30% of the time and gay porn 70%. In real life I know that I want to find the girl of my dreams but I can't help but wonder if the porn I look at will effect that in any way. What do you guys think?

 

[TaigaStar]

First off, welcome to JUB!

You seem a lot like me in that regard. The primary porn that I watch is gay, although there are some straight porns that I watch. There are some who will try to tell you (and I've heard it, believe me) that you're "gay and just need to accept that." Frankly, the type of porn you look at does not define your sexuality as a person.

The only way the porn you loom at may affect the search for the girl of your dreams is that it might put her off a bit. I believe that that is something you should point out if you ever become close to someone (it makes life a lot easier when you're not trying to hide your gay porn from your wife), but that's your own call to make. When I told my fiancee, she just said "If that's what you like, then that's what you like."

If you ever want to talk, just PM me.

 

[biboy1239]

i used to watch straight porn now i only watch gay but i defenitly makes u more and more interested in trying gay activites

 

[XLeatherX]

First off, welcome to JUB!

You seem a lot like me in that regard. The primary porn that I watch is gay, although there are some straight porns that I watch. There are some who will try to tell you (and I've heard it, believe me) that you're "gay and just need to accept that." Frankly, the type of porn you look at does not define your sexuality as a person.

The only way the porn you loom at may affect the search for the girl of your dreams is that it might put her off a bit. I believe that that is something you should point out if you ever become close to someone (it makes life a lot easier when you're not trying to hide your gay porn from your wife), but that's your own call to make. When I told my fiancee, she just said "If that's what you like, then that's what you like."

If you ever want to talk, just PM me.

Just curious, what is it about gay porn that turns you on more than str8 porn?

What do you like about gay porn that you don't like about str8 porn?

Have you ever seen bi porn? I've seen some of that and I like it but I focus on watching the guys.

I've never met a straight guy who actually would admit to liking gay porn so that's why I'm asking you this.

Have you ever been with a guy? If you haven't isn't it frustrating just watching men have sex on screen but you've never tried it?

For me I started out watching str8 porn and I'd just focus on the men and then I got into gay porn (there are some bi porns I like but very few) and it would have killed me to only ever watch gay sex and naked men on screen but never be able to have sex with a guy.

 

[TaigaStar]

Yes, but only at that particular moment. While you're masturbating to gay porn, you are gay, as soon as you cum and lose interest in porn, you are now celibate. You only exist in the present tense, if yesterday you sucked a cock, yesterday you were gay. Today if you eat pussy, you are straight.

Everything else in life is like that, why not sexuality?

But, going with you're argument, someone who is white becomes Roman if they speak Latin, or Japanese if they speak Japanese. I disagree with your statement based solely on the fact that I don't see the world operating in that type of system. I feel that sexuality differs from person to person as everybody is different.

 

[The Homosepian]

rofl.. dude i'm tha same way..

 

[enderwiggen]

To the OP... I am very similiar. Sure, I enjoy the porn. Sure, I have my fantasies. Do I ever want to fulfill them.... nope. For me at least, part of the appeal is that they are completely imaginary. I can make whatever I want happen within the world of imagination.

In the end though, I am only interested in real life women when it comes to a life long committment. Yeah, I may see a hot guy and maybe wonder what he looks like without the clothes, but I dont want to really pursue it. It's just not my thing.

 

[Spiff]

Straight guys like to watch lesbian porn. Those poor guys are now at risk of becoming lesbians.

 

[ejbonk]

Il ike BI Porn.But there is alot more Gay and str8 Porn on the shelves in the stores and on-line. So,for me I spend my money on what I want at the moment. be it bi,gay or str8. At the moment I'm buying gay pron.I think mainly because I'm getting all the man on woman sex I want,but I'm not getting the Man on Man action I want .

Gay men have gotten so picky lately.LOL

 

[slnattak]

Some straight guys really like gay porn, and some gay guys really like straight porn. It's true, it has no bearings on your actual orientation.

I find out I like both. If the guys are hot, it doesn't matter what the women looks like, me being a gay guy and all.

The hottest porn for me tends to be guys but in the straight porn style where it's cartoonier. Cause I just kind of like that, it's funner to me. Like play rough. I also love bukkakes, but can't find good gay bukkake vids.

I love to be slapped, choked, and throat fucked and spat on. Actual pain isn't hot though it's just sick, but I do find the whole macho leather bit fun too as well as the enthusiastic twink getting DPed in some seedy bar bathroom. It's all good. Once people set aside their notions of feminine/masculine and what makes them 'gay/straight/bi' they can have some real hot sex.

Who cares if you're girly or manly. Just act like you fucking like that cock, baby!

 

[slnattak]

But on second thought...to the straight guy above:

I can see how gay men can like straight porn, but I'm not sure how it could naturally work in the reverse, unless one gay man had to to appear girly or something- but like I said before, that turns me on as well. But mannerisms aside, they're both guys, both have the guy body parts- something that shouldn't turn a straight guy on. Right? After all, lesbians don't do anything for me.

I might believe you if you can show me some lesbian stuff that will turn me on. If you can show me a lesbian porn (no men WHATSOEVER) that can make my cock hard, I will believe you- but until then, I really do have to wonder if you're not bisexual or gay.

Poor dykes. Nobody ever thinks what they do is 'real.'

 

[Seifer20]

Naw, the porn you watch doesn't dictate your orientation. Hopefully it has some impact on your beliefs. Someone would have to kick your ass if you watched gay porn but you then turned around and bashed gay people.

(Not saying you do, just thinking of that American minister guy... course, he was doing more than watching the porn)

 

[hotlatinchulo348]

Hmmm thanks guys....I guess I'm just going to have to figure things out. Lol

 

[7abiib_azzubb]

I identify as gay but love straight porn.

 

[TaigaStar]

I might believe you if you can show me some lesbian stuff that will turn me on. If you can show me a lesbian porn (no men WHATSOEVER) that can make my cock hard, I will believe you- but until then, I really do have to wonder if you're not bisexual or gay.

On the Klein scale, I rank as "bisexual with heterosexual tendencies." I identify myself as straight because I have very little interest in pursuing anything beyond friendship with another male. Any attraction I may have is on a purely superficial level (which also makes me picky with the type of porn I enjoy). Actually, it's even more complex than that, too. If you knew me better, or knew me in person, you'd probably see the complexity of my personality (and vice-versa as people are generally very complex as individuals).

While I do look at a lot of pictures of guys, I gotta admit there is something extremely hot about two chicks banging each other... (Tecnhically, isn't this also gay porn?)

Also, I know several guys who say they are 100% straight and have made comments about guys' dicks in the straight porn they watch. Yah, I find that weirder than saying "I consider myself straight and get off to to guys fucking each other."

 

[azirish]

I'm bisexual, but I do enjoy gay porn and "straight" porn...which means male/female and some "pseudo" so called lesbian porn,aka "lesbian" porn for the "straight" audience. I've spoken with and chatted with a number of self indentified "bi" guys, who are scared of even looking at gay porn. To each is own, I guess...but for me it isn't a big stretch. I love guys, so the porn watching part is perfectly in line with my thinking.

 

[naughtypiscesboi84]

Once upon a time I made out with a girlfriend of mine. Hot and heavy make out session and that is all we did for like an hour. Was I a lesbian that day?

No, but if you enjoyed it alot, it could make you bi. Or, as I heard it put elsewhere, "just plain sexual." A kiss is one of the most intimate acts two human beings can engage in. Perhaps even more intimate than the act of sex itself.

I've been reading your other posts in different threads, and have been thinking, "Hmm, she gets kind of hot from lesbian porn." That's how it started off for me. I started getting hot off gay porn.

Both sexes have something different to offer. I'm sure you've probably read my big rants about the different ways a guy makes me feel as opposed to a girl. Maybe it's not that way for you. I'm just saying, keep an open mind.

Oh, yes, and for the record, lesbian porn did indeed make me a lesbian!

 

[budroe]

There is a lot of truth in what you say and I myself find it clarifying as well as comforting in a sense to hear . Yet something gnaws at me. This does not always play out so neatly in real life. Yet at times I am myself persuaded more in one way than another. The different parts of a person can be @ odds. Internal division is perhaps what makes life interesting but painful too.No easy answer to these questions.

 

[budroe]

There is a lot of truth in what you say and I myself find it clarifying as well as comforting in a sense to hear . Yet something gnaws at me. This does not always play out so neatly in real life. Yet at times I am myself persuaded more in one way than another. The different parts of a person can be @ odds. Internal division is perhaps what makes life interesting but painful too.No easy answer to these questions.

My response was to BIKER 1957.

 

[trinket]

Also, I know several guys who say they are 100% straight and have made comments about guys' dicks in the straight porn they watch. Yah, I find that weirder than saying "I consider myself straight and get off to to guys fucking each other."

I remember hearing some radio blurb a year or two ago about an academic study which claimed in "straight" porn (they screened and analyzed and measured all this stuff, heh), there's actually technically more emphasis (in terms of angles, camera time, etc.) on male genitalia. I thought that interesting, though it's not always like you can separate it from the female genitalia during sex.

Guys talking about other guys' dicks while viewing straight porn (and let's face it, they're kinda hard to not see while watching it) can definitely be an "admiration" sort of thing - how big they are, how long they last, etc. It's like seeing a Schwarzenegger film and having guys go "Shit, he's fuckin' ripped! That must've taken a lot of work to get to." Being comfortable enough with one's self to appreciate and admire their fellow gender doesn't equate with gay in the same way that many women would admit to looking another woman up and down and quickly checking them out when they enter a room or meet them for the first time (some sort of biological "sizing up the competition in the room" thing it's said).

I have heard of straight guys in fulfilling straight relationships who love gay porn, because they're not having to sit through women who often don't remotely look like they're enjoying it, wail like a banshee with obviously uninspired and rehearsed "lines", or are ridiculously pimped-out in way too much makeup and slutty clothes, etc. Not to mention sometimes some ridiculous semblance of a "plot" to get through. I'm not saying gay porn is any more "authentic" or reflective of "real life" by any means, but the guys just get right down to it, guy viewers can identify with the buildup, and they most often ultimately aren't faking their orgasm. Some guys even say they love and respect women too much to see them in ridiculous, uncomfortable, slutted-out situations in porn, so gay porn is a chance to just see two hot, physically admirable (and maybe inspiring, like if the viewer's workout routine needs some tweaking ) guys going at it that steers clear of "straight" porn conventions. It's all pretty interesting and there are so many shades of reasons and feelings in the viewer.