Straight guy here who is going to fuck himself for the first time!

[ganjman]

I am looking for advice/encouragement.. but first here's the background.

24 hours ago I would of cringed at the thought of inserting anything into my anus. I am a 26 year old professional running my own business. I have a girlfriend who I have been with for a few years now and I love her more than anything in the fucking world. I will be proposing next spring.

I haven't cummed in 5 days because I want'ed to have a ritual tease my cock till I hit myself in the eye jerk off session.. so I hopped in the shower to do my normal routine.. shower... shave my balls.. wash my hair..... then it donned on me.. I just started shaving the inside of my ass cheeks.. then before I knew it I was laying on my back in the living room with a leg up on the couch shaving my asshole. By then I had been online reading about prostate massages all night!

I did all the research I needed to do in order to make this happen. I just basically need help selecting the tool which I am buying later this afternoon. I decided on using a Dildo. but as I'm sure you guys know.. there's a lot different dildos out there.. and my city has a store which has walls of them! I also wan't encouragement, kind words, dirty words.. don't matter!

Now here's the kicker... not only is my asshole completely virgin...I am also a camera virgin... so I decided since I'm doing this I am going to record the entire process from stripping down to rubbing my load all over my body... (and maybe take a lick if I feel daring)

However I am not going to just release any clips from that experience.. because it's going to be special.. I only wan't to share it with the people who wan't to take the time to message me and talk to me about this.

 

[Bi-dad]

Hey mate got aneros.com or google prostate massager there loads of different kinds i have one and i have the most incredible orgasms without even touching my dick you will love it man

 

[ChicagoNormalGuy]

If you really want to hit the prostate, you are going to need something longer than you think you need. Also, not every position hits the prostate, so you might have to experiment a bit. Since this is your first time, you probably want a thin Dildo and lots of lube. You will probably be more comfortable if you feel clean inside and out. The one thing I read that seemed to help when I was first starting anal penetration was to bear down some as if you are taking a crap just at the time of penetration. A couple of cocktails never hurts either, if that is the sort of thing you enjoy.

If you try it the first time and it hurts and you want to stop, no big deal. You'll try again another time.

 

[mbamike]

Don't forget to clean yourself out by douching. This will make the experience more pleasurable.

 

[Deandbn]

Some ideas on butt plugs that will stay in and are comfortable to wear.



The 45mm balls and plug are about the correct size. The balls you can put string on to start so you can get it out, later you can get rid of the strings and just eject them. When you get used to wearing one, you can go on to 2 at a time. They are nice and heavy stainless steel and your prostate will love them. The plug is also excellent, you will enjoy it immensely.

Have fun Bud, you will wonder why you didnt do this years ago.

 

[ganjman]

Thanks for all the info so far! I figure the least I could do is.....

 

[IowaGuy]

YUM great hole, cock and balls. Thanks for posting.

 

[nikey2k27]

in joy fuck your self. have fun with play with u ass. i know many str8 play with there ass for fun.

 

[taylorj03]

Hey, from my experience I always push out slightly when something is being pushed inside me. definitely makes a difference. Good Luck!

 

[parand09]

You would want to work your way up to the Dildo by using your fingers first so you can get more relaxed and also explore that hot hole, then you would want to make sure that you have plenty of lube on hand, to be honest you may feel the pain once you try the Dildo if that is the case then use your fingers some more to help relax the hole some more, i would say once you are able to get 3 fingers in your hole then you maybe ready to ride that Dildo once you start sliding the Dildo in and out of your hole it will relax that hole and you will have a great time exploring, before you even start all of this you would want to make sure that you are cleaned out, you dont wanna have a mess everywhere that would be to gross, I would say do the douche about 3 times in the shower and you will be ready to go, it is awesome feeling once you have a Dildo or even a cock pumping that hot tight hole, now enjoy having that feeling and let us know how it went!!! would love to see some post as well.

 

[FootFag]

Ganjman,
Congrats on discovery of a new enjoyment. I have several bi/straight friends that are into having their ass played with. They are like yourself, happily involved with a female etc. I think most people consider anal stimulation to be a "GAY" thing. Perhaps due to portrayals of dominate and submissive roles... How absurd....bottom line..it is pleasurable. Why deny the body of pleasure. So once again, Congratulations on your new found discovery...happy playing

 

[Scottf]

Hey dude, like you I'm straight yet had thought about what anal would be like. When I first mentioned it to my girlfriend she suggested that we try it, we got a Dildo/buttplug like thing, though I only remember using it the once, we both found it hot, me reciving and she liked watching my pleasure and jerking me off at the same time. We 'updated' to a strap on, though only like a beginner one the 5 inches seemed daunting at first but felt so good when I got used to it (I have a very tight ass). More recently we got a massive 8 inch strap on which I'm still unable to handle for a prolonged amount of time but it is a really amazing feeling and she really gets off on the idea of fucking me every so often so my advice would be to try it out, at first with something fairly small, but if your girlfriend likes the idea then you could try using a strap on and have her fuck you. Let us know how your exploration goes and feel free to pm me

 

[bigguyjock]

Hey dude good luck! A few things that I've found helpful for anal: 1) use lots a lots of lube. Whatever you think is enough, add a little more and only then start playing. 2) You definitely need to be relaxed back there. Play around it a bit and get yourself excited. If you are horny and into it, it will be much more enjoyable for you than if you just try to slam it in without working yourself up to it both physically and mentally. Like some of the other guys have mentioned, its helpful if you push out a bit (like you are trying to poop) when you try and insert. This will further relax your ass so that it doesn't hurt. 3) Be patient with it. Once you get something in, don't feel the need to start pounding away. Take a few breathes and really establish what it feels like to have something in your hole for the first time. Once you are comfortable with that, push in a little more and pause and take a few more breaths. Once you warm up a bit then the real fun can begin and you can try different angles and position to be in while you fuck yourself. Good luck dude! Let us know how it goes