Straight guy I fancy

[maniccow]

Hey
I fancy this guy at work his got a girlfriend and a baby. we have had conversation b4 about sex e.g. how oft he wanks and gets it. In private we have had discussion about gay sex things and relationships. He jokes about gay sex things outloud etc. The thing is i get the impression he may be a little curious. He asked me about some gay sex things in a work outing recently and i said as a joke well why don't we go in back room and i can show u the world of gay. Do u think i could be imagining it cos i want him to be?

My main question is...

He is now leaving where i work to go somewhere else on the last day i saw him i want to say before u go show us you cock as a joke and see how he takes it but chickened out.

So he gave me his mobile bu he doesn't have my number yet and i said i would text him wit it. I was gonna text him something like this
"Hey its ***** from work, here my mobile number and remember if you ever do feel a little bit bi-curious give me a text or call and i can give you a blow job HAHA

does anyone have experiences with this? is that too forward?

if he doesn't reply etc or if i send him a generic hey hows it going message and he doesn't reply after a while i can just text him and say it was a joke. not sure tho what do u think

PS: im not sure if he knows i fancy him cos i like chunky guys and he fits my profile. oI did make jokey hit statements on him and he seemed to brush them off like i would be watching you play football no one else LOL

 

[altlover85]

I would just stay friends with him. I wouldn't pursue anything because he has a girlfriend and a kid. Go find someone who is gay and available.

 

[chace1617]

well text him but just say hi this is my number... if you need anything.. just try to keep in touch and you'll understand if he's interested or not. just don't say the joke you mentioned in front of everyone else, if you make him feel uncomfortable he might try to avoid you next time

 

[BlondeCanadian]

there is plenty of single chunky gay men out there without children

 

[KaraBulut]

Girlfriend. Baby.

Enough said.

 

[Seasoned]

Be friends. His life is complicated enough. Your attraction to him tells you more about the kind of guy you'd like a relationship with.

 

[HornyHenry]

Not worth it. He may want to suck you off to see what it's like, but much more likely he'd use you for a blowjob or two when his broad's on the rag or otherwise not willing to put-out and then say, "Fuck-off you faggot!" when he's done using you as well as spread the word that you're gay and will suck any cock.

 

[Nomenclature]

Hey
I fancy this guy at work his got a girlfriend and a baby. we have had conversation b4 about sex e.g. how oft he wanks and gets it. In private we have had discussion about gay sex things and relationships. He jokes about gay sex things outloud etc. The thing is i get the impression he may be a little curious.

Dude, it's called LEVITY. He's joking around with you. If he was interested, you would know it; guys are usually far more direct when they're horny. Case in point: YOU. lol

I was gonna text him something like this
"Hey its ***** from work, here my mobile number and remember if you ever do feel a little bit bi-curious give me a text or call and i can give you a blow job HAHA

Too direct!!!!

I did make jokey hit statements on him and he seemed to brush them off

Then he's not interested. If he was, he would be flirting back.

 

[maniccow]

I am defo not looking for a relationship with him. Just wanna suck his cock lol. Also the text is test if he is a little by-curios.He could take it's as a joke right?

 

[Rooster]

Girlfriend + Baby = Off the Blowjob Market

 

[Maaaatt]

Even if he was bi-curious it would be morally wrong to pursue anything with him. He has a partner and a child. Don't break up the family just because you want to give him a gobski.

 

[chace1617]

Even if he was bi-curious it would be morally wrong to pursue anything with him. He has a partner and a child. Don't break up the family just because you want to give him a gobski.

i second that..

and if the guy in your avatar pic is you, you're cute

 

[altlover85]

If you want to just blow him then I guess that's your right. Just be aware that it can make things messier than they have to be.

I have hooked up with married guys before, but only in one case was it someone that I saw more than once. His wife wasn't living with him at the time and his kids were grown. He had an ad on gay.com, so it wasn't a question of if he was gay and we didn't know each other beforehand. There weren't any connections beforehand so it made things considerably easier.

He ended up getting divorced and coming out a few months ago. We are still friends now, but he wasn't ever relationship material because he was married.

My point is, if you are going to do something with someone that is married it's probably best to have few ties with them to begin with. A person who has a girlfriend, baby, and who is your coworker and hasn't even expressed any real interest in you is not someone I would waste my time with. This last bit of advice is purely from a selfish point of view.

 

[Lewis1]

Girlfriend + Baby = Off the Blowjob Market

lie of the century

married guys with 4 kids will sometimes get blojobs from a guy

 

[altlover85]

I think Rooster meant the straight guy should be considered to be off the market. I don't think the equation was meant to be taken as a factual statement.

 

[Just_Believe18]

Let me paint you a memory:

There was a time, not long ago, when your friend was in the hospital. He was nervous, fearful, and anxious. He wasn't sure what was going to happen, or how life was going to turn out. The doctor suddenly called him into the room, and he entered. There, on the hospital bed, was the woman he knew. He remembered the first day they met, the following dates, walks down the street, dinners, and then that first kiss. Now, in her arms, was an expression of the very first time he looked into her eyes and said those words.

He was a father now. And as he picked up that baby in his arms, at that moment, he loved this infant more than anything in the world. This was his baby. This was his child to love, protect, and provide a good family for. He looks back at his girlfriend and leans over to kiss her. "I love you," were the words he told her, and together they sat and admired their new family.


Makes wanting to suck his dick in the back room tacky and pathetic, doesn't it?

 

[slnattak]

There was an attractive young man with his girlfriend at the park today. I was thinking he was attractive, but I wouldn't actually say that or try to pursue him. I could see us having a kind of boyhood friendly rapport and affection with each other though, but straight guys are also 'boring' and neutral to me because my fantasies never turn out to reality: they just stay straight . *shrug*

If anything it would just give him a sort of power rush and he would use that against you...he might be 'curious' about it, but the chances of him wanting to be in a relationship with you are next to nothing. Even if he really is 'gay', he obviously has mega issues if he is using a girlfriend and a kid as cover...and do you really want that, anyway? I would really let it go. We've all been there, but jack off to him in private and write hot stories about it to get it out of your system but you KNOW it's morally and all sorts of wrong to approach this. =p

What's really going on here, and you need to 'wake up' to this - he is uncomfortable with your homosexuality, he actually HATES it- and he's using humor as a way to make himself feel better. Don't you think you're more important than a joke? More than just a 'haha' thing on straight family tv sitcoms? If you had more self-respect, you'd be attractive to other gay guys who can love you back. Isn't that what you really want?

I think your crying out for some sort of human affection mixed with intimacy to be honest.

 

[On The Edge]

He may see it as a joke...but if his GF sees it I doubt she'll take it that way...