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i consider myself straight but im into anal play. yea that may make me a bi but not emotionally interested in men but not the point. i am seriously considering taking a dick up my ass and yes i am an anal virgin. but how do you know who the right person to do the deed. what i am saying is i do not want to go to craigslist, and hook up with some old fat creep that has every std in the book. i consider myself one classy guy. like i said before i am not a feminine gay freak nor gay i dont know what i am. but hey whatever. i guess i just want to find a guy that will fuck me and this is my first time wanting to find one. but my only question is how do you find that person. of course i want no strings attached at all but i dont want some craigslist guy you know what i mean. how did you guys find the person that fucked you for the first time.
 
and no because i have xxx at the end of my name does not mean im gay. just putting it out there
 
You live in Chicago dude...

Go down to boystown and hang out at the bars...

I suspect you won't have ANY TROUBLE at all finding what you're looking for...

Best of luck -- and HAVE FUN!!!

:):):)
 
Are you just into anal play or is there actually an attraction to guys? There are straight guys out there who enjoy anal play on themselves and things like that but have no attraction or desire to be with a man.

If you actually have an attraction to guys you might be bi but besides that, if you go on craigslist it's not always creeps on there. Most are but there are lots of regular guys on there and you might get lucky. You could also try adam4adam.com which is a free site.

If you're a discreet guy, not out and not really into the gay scene I don't know if a bar or club would be right for you.
 
You have to find your comfort zone.

Are you comfortable with craigslist? Are you comfortable with steamworks? Or, are you comfortable with going to a gay bar and seeing what you can pull? There are a lot of options out there.

Perhaps there's a gay friend-of-a-friend who'd be willing to play.

Establish what you're willing to do. Above all, if it doesn't feel right, or things aren't going the way you'd like - bail.
 
Being into anal doesn't make you bi. I agree w/ seeing if you can find a gay friend of a friend. The only guys I've ever let fuck me have been boyfriends.
 
stevexxx, you sound like a straight guy who knows what he likes... and you like anal play. There's nothing wrong with that. I'm wondering if you're sure that you want to take a dick, or would you be into having a chick use a strap on or a vibrator on you? Have you ever tried one of those dildo's where she puts one end in her pussy (or ass) and you put the other end in your ass? That might be something different to try.

As far as finding a normal guy to pop your cherry, I'd say maybe try looking in clubs. Get to talking and find a dude who's down to fuck. Be sure to use a condom and plenty of lube. Make sure he goes slow and takes it easy on you until you start really getting into it. Then get as freaky as you want.

Be careful and play safe. ;) Good luck to you!
 
There are straight guys who hear about the magic of ass from their gay friends and the first thing they want is for their girlfriends to fuck them with a dildo while they're motorboating some titties.

I figure you're not one of those guys, if you're looking to take it from a guy.

That would make you bi. And if it blows your mind and you never want to go back, that would make you gay.

But in the mean time, if you want to play around no strings attached, don't worry so much about whether you think the guy is a freak, think about whether he can throw you a good fuck and whether he knows how to play safe.
 
yea im not into the gay bar scenes. i dint know that is a little to "gay" for me. nothing against homosexuals it's just not me. i do not have an attraction for men, only sex. and when i mean sex i mean anal. no kissing because i find it kinda weird. i come to the realization that i am not immortal and someday that i will die. not tomorrow, hopefully not. but i am only young once so why not.
 
Then I think adam4adam or a site like it may be to your liking.

Be specific in what you're looking for and what you will and will not do.
 
cliffdweller said:
Being into anal doesn't make you bi. I agree w/ seeing if you can find a gay friend of a friend. The only guys I've ever let fuck me have been boyfriends.
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wanting a guy to fuck you in the ass makes you at least bi.
 
stevexxx said:
yea im not into the gay bar scenes. i dint know that is a little to "gay" for me. nothing against homosexuals it's just not me. i do not have an attraction for men, only sex. and when i mean sex i mean anal. no kissing because i find it kinda weird. i come to the realization that i am not immortal and someday that i will die. not tomorrow, hopefully not. but i am only young once so why not.
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Okay, so you don't like craig'slist and you don't want to go to bars. I'd say you're pretty much sh$t out of luck dude. Being so closed to ideas is going to get you nowhere.:p
 
I was a virgin when I got fucked at age 24. Be careful because overnight I realized I preferred sex with men. I had just broken up with a girl friend who lived in Carl Sandburg Village on Chicago's near north side. I wanted to get drunk and stumbled into my first gay bar, unknowingly, because there was a parking spot in front on Clark Street. I was so naive, didn't realize it was a gay bar until I realized no women were there and drinks were being sent my way, gratis! But I enjoyed all of the free drinks and attention...a new experience for me. The bartender was so butch, a bodybuilder in a leather vest, I thought he must be straight, just taking a job in a gay bar to make a living. He was giving me free drinks, too. At 4 a.m. he locked me in the bar while he counted the cash. He parked my car in an alley so it wouldn't be towed, and took me to his apartment overlooking Lincoln Park saying I was too drunk to drive to the suburbs and he wanted to protect me. I took to the sofa he had promised me, but awoke the next afternoon in his bed getting fucked. Since I was asleep when he penetrated me, there was no pain and it felt great so let him finish and I came without touching myself! I've been gay ever since!
 
LGNTexas said:
Since I was asleep when he penetrated me, there was no pain and it felt great so let him finish and I came without touching myself! I've been gay ever since!
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This did not turn you gay, but I think you already know this. And although you ended up ok with it you do realize you were raped?

Since a guy is a guy, except for the possibility of traffic, a guy ass is a guy ass. Straight men generally have a mental block against anal penetration because they thing being penetrated feminizes them.

Why shouldn't straight men explore all aspects of their sexuality? True, it doesn't have to involve dick up the ass, but will require something back there.

Play safe. Have fun.
 
stevexxx said:
and no because i have xxx at the end of my name does not mean im gay. just putting it out there
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Lol, using "xxx" in no way signifies homosexuality, at least I've never heard of it indicating sexual preference, merely just sex or mature content in general.

To me, what you're statement signifies is that you are extremely concerned with people thinking you are gay. Youve got to let go of caring about what other people think of your sexual preferences if you are going to explore your sexuality and enjoy it. I hate to say it, but many (not all, but a lot) american heterosexual men would consider anal penetration a gay act, certainly if you are craving for a guy to give it to you up the butt. What you have to realize is that the labels don't fucking matter; but if you can't get past the thought of something "being too gay" then you are never going to enjoy this. Instead you'll be constantly aware that you are committing some heinous gay act and worried what others will think.

My advice: listen to us on here. Sites like adam4adam or gay bars are an exceptionally good way to meet guys, and I think you'd be surprised how many sane people there are who actually prefer anal sex with straight, inexperienced guys.

The label you take on is merely your personal preference. If you want to be straight, but take it up the butt sometimes because it feels good, why should other peoples insecurities or arguments about what is gay/straight stop you? In the end, your orgasm is what matters, not their opinion. So stop tripping and start cumming!!*|*
 
strangepoetry said:
that's what I was wondering... :confused:
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lambdaboy said:
Why would any one think that putting XXX after your name makes you gay?
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eximius said:
Lol, using "xxx" in no way signifies homosexuality, at least I've never heard of it indicating sexual preference, merely just sex or mature content in general.
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Putting xxx after your name doesn't make you gay. Putting another man's penis in your ass makes you gay.

Tell ya what, you can be straight for now but bi-curious. If you like it though, then you're at least bi. Here's hoping it works out. I think it's awesome.
 
Well, since you're very specific in what you want, I'd suggest you look for an escort. Not a hooker, but someone with a good reputation. Someone you can trust will do the deed, take the money and leave.

You should go look for respectable sites, maybe Manhunt?
 
Anal stimulation is a natural part of male sexuality IMO and if that is what you are enjoying have you considered simply mailing off for a nice vibrator? I unfortunately have the experience in high school of having a discreet sleep over with someone I thought to be my best friend. No anal, not really my thing personally. He actually showed me oral. This was something that was supposed to be "between us".
You can imagine my surprise when everyone was filing into the gym for a convocation and my friend was already sitting with his jock buddies and one of them said "Hey Dio I heard you sucked Stan's dick?" certainly loud enough for anyone within earshot to have heard. The hurt, shock, pain, betrayal was so intense I was totally silent, therefor I was indicted by my silence. I was a shy, polite , church kid anyway. This was also in the 1960's. This individual , the big mouth, did not like me anyway (probably seething with jealousy) so he made a smart ass remark whenever possible to me. I learned to navigate through high school never having to go to convocations, we could opt out for study hall, never spoke to my "best friend" again. That took quite a bit to get over.....I would handle it completely different nowdays.

So the question is,how much do you trust?
 
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