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Straight Guy Who Is Very Curious

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I am sure this has been discussed before many times. I am in my mid 40's and always considered myself very straight, married before and in long term hetro relations, however I have been very curious lately about being with a guy. I think often about giving a blow job and receiving anal sex. I still enjoy the ladies but wonder what it would be like. This urge comes and goes but when it comes it is very strong. My concerns are STD as well as being very discreet. Not in a relationship right now. Any other guys out there wishing to discuss?
 
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OK, so you are a little bit bi? No big deal, just know that as you experiment with dudes I find the best ones are men at your same level of comfortableness. So, if you want to be super discreet and safe from STDs, then seek out those same type of guys.

I've been with women and love it, but at the same time my sexuality is pretty fluid and always at max. Being with a dude is hot and very taboo in some ways, especially if you are living life as straight or bi.

My advice: go for it, but use common sense and caution when choosing a bud to mess with.
 
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Great advice here.

I'd simply suggest that you should consider a little exploration round, next time you hit a major metro area. Loads of guys are looking for sex out there and at first, I'd simply go and look and draw my own conclusions.

Condom is always a must. You are a grown up dude, so you know.

Discretion is generally overrated. Few guys are out there with keen interest on busting you, unless you are some kind of a celebrity and there is cash involved in disclosure.

Reporting that Joe Doe #999888998 is gay is not going to get national media coverage and attention.

Why all this? Before you start meeting up guys, listening to their life stories, exchanging yours for theirs, developing aliases, etc., ect., go out and make sure that m2m sex is really for you.

It hardly makes much sense to go into all the social interaction with the promise of sex at the end of it, if the final and the more important thing does not really work for you.

Go, test the waters and make your own plans. Do not limit yourself to any particular kind of a guy or anything. You are out there looking and so are the other dudes. Try, learn and enjoy.

SC
 
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Thanks for your replies. I must say it does get confusing sometimes. I have always considered myself straight, dating women throughout my school years and after then marriage. These strong bi curious feeleings have come up in the last couple of years.

I have read posts debating if most men are bisexual to some degree. I took a test contained in one of the posts, based on the klein scale and ended up mostly hetrosexual. Is it possible that some or most "straight" men will have these curious feelings at some point in their lives? Like I said I always considered myself straight but now have these urges. I still want to be with women but if the right guy were to come around at the right time who knows I just may jump in the sack.

One other thought comes to mind. What if society as a whole had no issues with bisexuality, homosexuality and viewed these lifestyles the same as heterosexuality. Do you think there would be a incredible large increase in men exploring bisexuality? Do you think that a lot of men who say they are straight would never admit to or try to explore those feelings because of societies expectations?

I realize these points may seem somewhat elementary but as someone who is experiencing new feelings many questions go through my head.

Thanks again
 
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cannon2007 said:
Thanks for your replies. I must say it does get confusing sometimes. I have always considered myself straight, dating women throughout my school years and after then marriage. These strong bi curious feeleings have come up in the last couple of years.

I have read posts debating if most men are bisexual to some degree. I took a test contained in one of the posts, based on the klein scale and ended up mostly hetrosexual. Is it possible that some or most "straight" men will have these curious feelings at some point in their lives? Like I said I always considered myself straight but now have these urges. I still want to be with women but if the right guy were to come around at the right time who knows I just may jump in the sack.

One other thought comes to mind. What if society as a whole had no issues with bisexuality, homosexuality and viewed these lifestyles the same as heterosexuality. Do you think there would be a incredible large increase in men exploring bisexuality? Do you think that a lot of men who say they are straight would never admit to or try to explore those feelings because of societies expectations?
I realize these points may seem somewhat elementary but as someone who is experiencing new feelings many questions go through my head.

Thanks again
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Actually in most metro areas of Europe, N. America, S. Africa and some of the major cities of S. America, the society does not really care at all. Gay life is booming and many of the men around are not your gay Castro style clones, who live a fully prescribed daily gay routine 24/7. Loads of these dudes are 'guys, who are looking for some fun.' Sure, most of them are guy dudes. Yeah, some are jumping the fence ever so often and some are 'the first and the second timers'; dudes geting their feet wet and testing the waters.

When you come to think about it, what does it really matter, what the society really thinks? Are they going to stop paying your rent or your phone bill? Nope, I do not think so.

Lighten up and take all of that with that proverbial pinch of salt.

SC
 
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cannon2007 said:
Is it possible that some or most "straight" men will have these curious feelings at some point in their lives?

What if society as a whole had no issues with bisexuality, homosexuality and viewed these lifestyles the same as heterosexuality. Do you think there would be a incredible large increase in men exploring bisexuality? Do you think that a lot of men who say they are straight would never admit to or try to explore those feelings because of societies expectations?
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Anything is possible. While I do not think that there would be a major shift in exploration among men immediately, there would be a major shift over time. Many people, men or women, are trying to live up to expectations set up by friends, family, and society.

In reality, it's all about image, the presentation, not reality or facts. With many men trying to live up to standards set forth, many men would not admit that they have had a passing homosexual thought. People, in general, desire to accepted, to be viewed as normal, and to fit in with the crowd.
 
Hi Straight Guy.

Curiosity is how it all started for me, compounded by the fact that female nakedness are so much flaunted on TV @ everywhere today, that some of the mystique fades.

Nothing wrong with naked men, they are just as good to look at. Enjoy the view!

The first blowjob as an adult from a friend ........ whow ...... it was good & returning the favor equally enjoyable.

I'll say, go for it! It might surprise you, as long as you keep an open mind.

Are you gay ..... I don't think so.
 
This is why like JUB forums, alot of good insight on topics that hit home for me... like this one. My question is... do you think it's better for bi-curious to look more for other bi-curious or bisexuals for experimentation/exploration?
 
Re: Staright Guy Who Is Very Curious

jimmyy said:
So, if you want to be super discreet and safe from STDs, then seek out those same type of guys.
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so you just have to be super discreet to be safe from std's?.... that is good to know.
 
Straight Guy,
Do you think that being exposed to gay subject matter on the internet has peeked your curiousity? I often wonder if, because all kinds of porn is available on line, if it makes straight guys realize how hot it is to be with a guy (as opposed to a straight guy who has never seen gay imagery).
 
Nahhhh,

I don't know about other guys, the internet does not shape my views. I use it to stay informed. Besides where else can you see such a good variety of pure naked maleness.

Just look at the latest JUB magazine, GOOD STUFF!
 
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